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Dating guys but attracted to girls. Am I bisexual?

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Question - (13 April 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2008)
A female Singapore age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm 20 going 21 this december.

I've been dating Guys all this while.. but I find myself always attracted to girls. i tends to be shy when am with guys, but i'll become touchy with the girls.

am i a bisexual, lesbian or something?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008):

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thanks for all your replies.

i really appericiate :)

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A female reader, Nibblet United States +, writes (14 April 2008):

Nibblet agony auntYou can be anything you want to be. im bi but im more attracted to girls but i still like guys. like its 85% girls and 15% guys if i were to put it into numbers.

In your mind do you see yourself with a girl or a guy. or like when you see a girl do you ask yourself, do i think shes hot, cute or hey would she be a awesome friend to hang out with and same thing with a guy first thing when you see a guy is he date-able or a fun guy to hang with.

and you dont have to label yourself right know, take some time to find out who you are and what you like.

Good Luck!!! message me if you want to talk

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2008):

Only you can know if you actually fancy girls, or whether you just feel far far more comfortable with them.

When you go out with guys, is it because you want them, or just because you like them as a friend and they asked you?

One thing to remember is that although people talk about being straight, gay or Bisexual... In real life, you can be anything in between. It is not always one or the other.

It is really common to have some thoughts about people of both sexes. So just chill out, and enjoy yourself.

Why not stay single for a while and take some time out to think. Take a summer job in a foreign country and get to know your self.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008):

Well it depends how you feel, I mean, do you date girls too? Are you not attracted to guys? If you're attracted to both and could see yourself having a relationship with either sex then you could be bisexual. But you could just admire how other girls look, and loads of people are shy when on a date so that's kinda normal anyway.

If you wanna chat some more, private mail me. Good luck!

xx Hope xx

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