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writes:well recently started seeing this guy ( am 16 he 21) and we really into one another but taken things slow as not to rush into anything. Only thing that worrying me is he drinks quite bit and goes to the pub alot, i trust him and wouldn't think he would cheat but he does mention girls that were chatting him up to me but always says he only has eyes for me and that he not felt like this for a long time. I just want to know why he does this as i do get kind of jealous when he says this but i trust him not to do anything as he doesnt seem that type of guy.Another thing that been nagging at me a bit is that we both on holiday the now that i haven't heard from as much recently but think that cause he just been out with his mates am just worryin a wee bit over it like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): Oh good hunny glad everything went well TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all your advice it really helped. i went with him to his fav pub last night and he introduced me to his mates and we had a great time and i really dont think he would do anything or have anything to do with other girls as he was beside he the whole night lol so just going to take things slow and see where they go :) thanks again xxxxx take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): You are so young (not meant to be disresptecful) to have these worries, perhaps this guy is well insecure and constantly needs reassurance from you in any form that you care for him. Or he could be playing you like a trooper.. female intuition will kick in and in time you will know. When i was 17 a similar thing happend to me, my fella told me that he was always getting chatted up but because we hadn't slept together we weren't a real couple and really he was free to take up all these other women on their offers.. i was so close to giving in thank god i didn't. As per the previous response you keep your independance a decent guy will respect you for that.. go out with your friends - go to the pub with him too and see for youself - dont be put upon i he really liked you he wouldnt be flirting with others especially not infront of you. Just because we really fancy our fellas doesn't mean every other girl out there does. You look after yourself and you will come out on top.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Some guys can act this way to get a response hunny, To make you feel jealous or to get a reaction..Carry on taking it slow hunny, And let him do his thing...You go out and enjoy yourself sweetheart, Dont always be available if you have made plans with friends then stick to them, If he phones make a date for another night...Dont let anyone make you feel worried hunny, if you need a chat at anytime message me sweetheart TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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