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Should I stay with him in these conditions?

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Article - (13 April 2008) 3 Comments - (Newest, 19 April 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, ilovederick_mybabyboo writes:

ok.

my boyfriend and i have been dating on and off for four years.

we use to agure alot.

then when i moved to indianapaolis he started telling me to never talk to him again.

he hated me.

then when he found out that i might have been pregnant he started calling me and telling me he is sorry and he loves me.

now i live with him.

he is nice but sometimes i feel like he is not feeling the same as i do.

now we know we are not having a baby.

he wants to but i am only 16.

i want to too but not right now.

i still have to finish school.

but he doesnt understand.

i feel like he is cheating on me to,

he talks to his ex; girlfriend all the time

i feel like he is still in love with her.

he told me once that i dont need to worry because he loves me MORE...

More so he still loves her.

omg i dont know what to do.

should i stay with him or not?

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A female reader, miss annie United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2008):

try ang get in touch with is ex-gf and see what she says but if he said to me i love you more i would be suspitious to but you sholuld move on and leave him because he must be stupid not 2 love you drlin xx get with some1 who truly does love you x

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A female reader, love girl  Jordan +, writes (16 April 2008):

love girl  agony auntwhat is happening with you happened to me , i'm also 16 ,my bf's ex came to town and he started talking to her , once we had a fight and he told me he hated me , i hung up on him , he called back and apologized , i talked with him about it, and we worked it out , so in my opinion talk to him

about your pregnancy , dont get pregnant now you're still young and you have your whole future infront of you , first finish college then think about it , and you never know he just might not be the right guy for you and he proved he isnt , dont get a baby involved in the middle ,you dont know what will happen you might break up , it will have a big impact on the babies life ,

talk to him and see how it goes .

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A female reader, MissKin United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2008):

MissKin agony auntIf you're worried and unhappy then leave. If he loves you MORE i'm taking this as a hint that he says he stil loves her. Do whatever you have to do to make yourself happy. If he's not taking in how you feel about him talking to your ex then maybe you'd be better off without him.

And on a side note. I moderated this question of yours and you've submitted it as an article rather than a question. I didn't want to reject it and was advised to accept it despite the fact that it is now in the wrong place. So i'm not sure you're going to get many responses to this. If you don't, i'd suggest resubmitting - this time making sure you're submitting it as a question.

Good luck with this issue. Make the decision that will make you happiest.

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