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writes:Is it alright to tell a girl that she is beautiful on your first date?I'm going on a date with this amazing girl who makes me laugh, i make her laugh and she's easy to talk to, and of course she's beautiful. Do you think if i tell her she's beautiful she will think i'm only after her because of how she looks? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): He's just asking a question. and as you can probably tell hes not limited to just 1 question so feel free to ask as many questions as you want answered.
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reader, madflash +, writes (13 April 2008):
 Dude... that's your problem?!! You could have asked anything and you asked that?People are being raped and murdered in the world and you're worried about what some girl is going to think of you if you share an observation?WAIT a MINUTE! Now that I think about it this is a very very serious question. If you're so worried about how she will react to a compliment there are some serious emotional and behavioral issues going on with you.For instance; What if I told you I liked the color of your socks? How would you react?If it were someone else I'd predict a normal reaction. Maybe a quick glance down and a, "Gee, thanks. They are a neat color aren't they?" But after hearing your question about such a mundane and common snippet of conversation, just a pleasant compliment given on a date, now I'm imagining all manor of reactions from you. If I complimented your socks you could; 1) Start crying and telling me to leave you alone. 2) Raise your hands and shout, "God, oh thank God, someone has FINALLY noticed!" 3) Drop to the floor, curl into a fetal position and suck your thumb until carted away to the local looney bin. or even 4) Whip out your .357 magnum and blow a hole through my chest, making me the first victim in your multi-state killing spree.But, chances are, if I like your socks I really wouldn't think of any of those things. I'd just share with you that I like your socks and leave the reaction up to you, trusting that you'd take it like a normal human being, just as it's meant, as a snippet of conversation, and a compliment.Don't sweat it. Say what's on your mind and you can't be wrong.Good luck on your date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): beautiful, yes. hot or sexy, no. girls want to hear that they're beautiful and special, but they also want to be sure you're not just in in for sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): Hell yes.
Most girls spend time getting ready for dates, so noticing will be much appreciated.
and it is sooooooooo sweet!
if any guy did this to me i think my heart would melt.
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reader, lyd_foster  +, writes (13 April 2008):
 Yes! i think that it is definatly fine to do that
Its realy sweet
Girls love it when a guy is nice and shows their feelings
Good Luck with your date
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reader, wannaknowmore  +, writes (13 April 2008):
yes it is.... first of all her beauty is not the only quality that you liked in her..... that is why for me it is just ok and we are men..... we do the first move!
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