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writes:I was wondering...If you ask a guy out to the movies and he's 13,will he then(once he's said yes) accept you as a gf. Because i could pluck up the courage to try it,but he might not think of me as his gf and simply GET ANOTHER GF.Are guys really that thick? Because i'm nervous to do it,but i could if i knew he'd take the hint...DO YOU THINK HE WILL??? or do you have to litteraly say the "will you go out with me" but not to anywhere to get the message through? Reply to this Question
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (13 April 2008):
There is a difference between going on a date to the cinema or anywhere else, and in being boyfriend and girlfriend. When I was younger we called a date a date but several dates was "going steady" and that was being boyfriend and girlfriend. Back then either the boy or the girl could ask the other about going steady or going out together. Whoever asked was usually afraid that the answer might be no and sometimes it was, but rarely was there any mistake, because a conversation was had between the boy and girl.
If you ask this boy to go with you to the cinema, then when he agrees, just finish by saying "that's a date - see you at seven (or whatever time)". If all goes well and you would like to be his girlfriend, then just ask him if he would like to be your boyfriend? At least no matter what the answer is there is no mistake. I do think it is hard to be sure if you do not communicate well, especially when you are so young. So in any relationship or possible one, never be afraid to just come out and ask about anything you want or do not understand. Usually the guys will love you for it because we blokes are really bad at interpreting body language and seeing hints. Trust me on this.
Good luck.
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reader, Miggy +, writes (13 April 2008):
a guy i know asked a girl to the cinema, and thought they were going out, but she didnt think so, she thought it was just an invite to the cinemas.
so maybe you should invite him to the cinema, and make sure it is devinatly seen as a date.
im sure if you ask he will go out with you though, you have nothing to lose.
hope this helped
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 April 2008):
If you ask him to the cinema for the first time then he will be agreeing to go to the cinema.
However, he would have to be pretty stupid to realise it's not a date.
See what happens on the date, and if it all goes well then at the end of the date you could ask if he wants to go out with you.
I have to say you are really brave, I would never have asked a guy out at your age. They all seemed far too immature to risk it.
Good Luck!! xx
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