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*eiko
writes:I have a boyfriend...we've been together for 1 month, last week i asked my father whether i could have boyfriend or not, he told me that it was my decision. I'm 15 and my b/f is 17. The problem is that now my dad told me that he had been said that my boyfriend has a bad lifestyle..he has no way to prove it. I know he's not going do it because this is not true at all..and i'm sure about it..however he told me that if he makes sure my boyfriend is a "bad guy" he's going forbid me to see him. I don't want my dad to forbid me that, i was thinking of breaking up wth my boyfriend, but i do love him and so does he... what should i do? You know that when there is a will there is a way... Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 April 2008):
 As long as your b/f is not bad, there is nothing to worry about.
If he is bad, you would also not want him.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 April 2008):
Get your boyfriend round for dinner so your dad can meet him and see he is a good guy.
Make sure he dresses smart and is really respectful to your dad. Point out all his good features to your dad? Is he doing well in school? Does he have any interests in common with your dad that they could talk about?
Your dad is only looking out for you, so you have to show him you are looking out for yourself and have chosen a good boyfriend.
Good Luck!! xx
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