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writes: well theres this guy who i had a crush on months ago. i liked him loads! and i was mad on him but now i dont seem as interested in him as i used to be and have got over him. but i was in ICT the other day and the power went so we were all just sat in dark listening to our phones and talking, (he sits in front of me) he leaned over my desk and started whispering to me. talking but quiet. he was asking me if i still liked him (cos he used to know i did) and i wa like erm i dunno reeli why? he wa like you remember that conversation we had ages ago? i was like which one? he said when i told you to suck me off and you said get it out then. i was like ohh yeaa he goes well was u serious? i wa like well i was jokin when i said that but yannoo. n he was like would you sleep with me? he said im not asking you to do anything but im curious. the bell went (yes saved by the bell!!) and we went. last night he phoned me while i was in the bath and asked me if i would go meet him. he said he was bored and wondered if i wanted to meet up and do something. so i thought bout it and told him that i would meet him. anyway we had quite a good night, walked about, bought some beer lol we snogged twice and he told me he liked me. all this has started happening lately and i have realised i do still really like him! i dont know wat to do though cos he has a gf but says hes only going out with her cos he feels sorry for her ;s what shall i do? do you think i should be getting involved with him
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reader, kizzy  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 yes dear i think you should just leave him alone he may be just trying to see how fast he can get you to take your pants off. Trust me MANY dudes will say anything just to get what they want, you being so young trust me sweetie i am older now and you remind me of me when i was your age and i said everything sexual to guys when i was just kidding around but when i actually did it they labled me as easy and then many bad things started happening to me. now i aint saying that you are me and i am you NO bcuz we are our own person but to help you from getting yourself hurt men and boys they just talk girlfriend or no girlfriend they will do and say anything to see how far you will let them go.
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reader, oikid11 +, writes (16 April 2008):
 Ysa, you should....I usd to like this guy but he was only dating my friend but he only felt sorry fo4r himself...nd onetime, after a dance recital, we almost snogge, as you would cal it in the UK, but my Mom came.
The only reason I left him alone, as because he was dating my bff. Later he asked her out, and I have no clue where they're at.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): If he didn't like her he would dump her - if he was a real guy that is. Us girls want real guys, we don't want a wuss.He is loving the attention and has the safety net of his girlfriend.I would give him an ultimatum, but be warned he obviously cannot be trusted if you do end up with him theres every chance he will do the same to you.Honestly if you were dating someone but this hot guy came along how you really liked what would you do??????????I think he is just playing you and i would kick him into touch
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