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Archived questions from: 6 November, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He said there's no hope for our future.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - i was seeing my friend's brother for four months. i felt as if i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. i had to move away to go to uni. he said we would stay close and see what happened. he said he would keep my space in his bed and that i ...

Should I stop before it gets out of hand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - I am 19 and have met a guy (45) who is really nice and i am friends with but latley we have started to kiss and touch each other. Is this ok or should i stop before it gets out of hand??...

I want her there with me and can't sleep

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - me and one of my best mates are both 16. I ave had feelings for her for afew years and people say she has for me but the subjects never been brought up. Anyway i stop over at hers quite alot and am normally on the sofa bed in her room which is next ...

I'm worried that he's not attracted to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend sometimes looks at other girls (like checking them out)- does this mean that he isn't attracted to me or that he would like to have sex with these girls? Does he look at them because he is bored of me? Is it because I am too ugly for ...

I don't want to be on my own, it's really hard sometimes.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - ive been in a 5 month relationship with a lad i really love, i met him straight after my fiance who i was with for 4 yrs, i cant get over him so i txt him and sometimes ring him to see if he is ok, i know this is wrong but i still have feelings for ...

Should I be hurt by this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half share a myspace page. He told me a couple amonths ago about one of his ex-girlfriends but I didn't worry about it much, but on myspace he wrote her saying Hi and what she has been up to. I am upset by the ...

We've just started dating, but we can't find anything to do together that doesn't cost a lot, help us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - I've started a new relationship with a guy a month ago; this is my first romantic relationship with anyone. Over the past few weeks, my boyfriend and I have made time to see each other once a week. The problem is, we've been having so much trouble ...

I don't think he really finished with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - this is just generally a letter spilling how i'm feeling to people, becasue i dont have anyone to really talk o it about... i'll sum it up.. i was seeing this guy for bout 2 months, bout 5 weeks into it i found out he was cheating on me with his e...

How can I keep from going back in to the same old rut with my b/f and make myself a little harder to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - We are back together again my ex and I . My ex fiance kept comming around and only a few day after I left my ex b/f house he was calling. It only took a few weeks before he approached me and wanted to go riding. It was late and we rode around ...

How do I talk to him about the fact I'm scared he'll hurt me as the ex did - without him getting upset with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - my ex-boyfriend abused me and now im scared that my current boyfriend is going to do the same. he wouldn't hurt a fly and he is so good to me, and i want to trust him but i can't. how do i talk to him about it without him getting upset with me?...

We've had sex and now he wants more, I don't want to go that fast!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - ive been dating this guy (his 26) for about a 4 weeks now, but we have only seen each other a few times, last time i went to his house and we slept with each other, it was my 1st time (im 21) and it was ok and it felt right at the time. he seems ...

His ex cheated on him and now I wish he'd get over it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - Hi. I work in the same place as this really cool guy. We've been spending quite some time together and I really really like him and for the first time I'm falling in love.I know he likes me too but there's a major problem I've had to deal with.He ...

I feel like I'm sharing my boyfriend with his friends that are girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - I'm dating a wonderful man who is the closest person I've met into being my soul mate. However the problem lies with my insecurities towards his close relationships with other women. He has at least ten best female friends who facebook, call or text ...

Sensei is giving me signals that he might like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6230 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - So I got this Sensei who seems (at least) to me to be treating me better than other students, even better than the ones who are newer or been there longer than me. He'll tease me, give me little nicknames, pick on me...occasionally we'll talk about ...

I'm in love with 2 guys! I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - Im in love with 2people can you please help me??? dear cupid...im so so confused i hope u can try and give me some advice becase i dont really have anyone to talk to about i dont think any of my friends would understand.........

I'm petrified of lads, what can help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - hey i no this may seem strange but neways, i need 2 tell some1. um well truth is im scared of lads (im a girl btw) every time i talk to 1 i get soooo nervous n start to shake. this happens to the ones i dont like. im a wreck wen i see or talk to...

II would kill to get back with my ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - why can't he understnad that i love him soo much and i will kill for him to get back with me? i would really do anything to get him back if only i knew how! any advice would really help ....

He's cheated before and tells me about all the girls he "could" get, is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - I'm 21 and have been seeing my 20yr old boyfriend for 6 months. He's an attractive guy, intelligent, and arrogant. He tells me that he used to cheat on previous girlfriends but has matured since he found me.. a sweet girl he can trust. However he ...

I am a lesbian. My girlfriend says she is not gay or bi, but loves me and isnt going to leave. I am confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - I'm lesbian and I'm in a long-term relationship with another girl. We've been together for a year now, and we are in love. I've asked her if she's a lesbian, and my friend has done the same, and she's said no. After, I've asked her if she's ...

Is is normal for my boyfriend to still be in touch with his exes? Even after 9 years with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - In a long term relationship for 9 years. About a 2yrs ago boyfriend cheated for about 1 year with a younger woman. We are both 49 yrs old. We got engaged about a year ago. When he is with me his ph is constently off. I have been having problems with ...

Why wont she do with me what she did with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - my girl friend has been dating me and another guy. she told me that she was a virgin. i am a virgin and i found out she was having intercourse with the other guy. she said she thought of it as dating two guys. it's obviously not a level playing ...

All the girls I go out with seem to be bi. What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - Over the past year I have had the most confusing relationship experiences of all time. It all seems to come down to one simple problem, all of my girlfriends have been bisexuals. I can't really explain why, maybe it just goes with the personality ...

My boyfriend lusts after other women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have recently reached our two year anniversary. He is the first person I have slept with. I had other serious relationships before this but chose not to lose my virginity until I was completely ready. He has always stared at ...

My girl treats me like dirt because of the bad influence of her best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - my girlfriend of 2 years is the love of my life, currently i thought everything is still going good. im in the u.s. coast guard and when i met her i was young, and she was young. everything was fine. she was in love with me, she said she would ...

Ow can I build my confidence enough to attract girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6230 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - i'm smartmax,i've a problem attracting the kind girls i really want to be with.pls,help me on how to build my self-esteem,have confident and boldnss to talk to any girl....

His jealousy and lack of trust makes me feel horrible-how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years. I have never cheated on him or lied or done anything that would cause him to not trust me, but for some reason he still doesn't. He is insanely jealous of my friends (he hates my best ...

I haven't heard from my Long Distance interest since we met and slept together! Was he just using me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - I've been in contact with a guy, writing, texting and talking constantly by telephone. He told me that I was his girl and that it was hard to meet a good person in life and talking of future things we would do together etc. We arranged to meet, ...

He confessed he's been kissing another girl, should I accept him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - I have been with boyfriend for nearly a year but we have been going through a bit of a bad patch, he has been acting really strange so i accused him of cheating, we moved to live apart for a few weeks and started getting on great again. Last night ...

He doesn't call as often as he used to, how can I bring him closer again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6230 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - I met this man at the end of june. he seemed to love me had all the time for me, but lately he doesn't call me as often as he used to, he bounces our dates. Whats going on, i love this man, is there anything i can do to bring him closer again. ...

Are things getting too serious? He cried because he thought I fancied my best-gay-friend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - I'm fifteen and in a steady relationship, and I'm scared things are getting too serious for me. He cried on me the other day because he thought I liked my gay friend. Pathetic since he's gay! Anyway I do like another guy.. and I got really close to ...

Should I wait for him to call, or call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend called me and we met. However he hasn't called me again yet and few days has passed. Although he isn't interested in a serious relationship at least for this time and i has realized it, i like to meet him because he is interested and ...

Is he in it for the money or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - So I dated this guy for a really long time, we broke up and now are kinda friends but I am still in love with him and he says he is still in love with me. Although, unfortunatley I'm still really wrapped around his finger and still let him borrow ...

I like him but don't know what to beleive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - Well, theres this guy. I like him ALOT. I can't say that I love him, because I'm too young yadda yadda, but it feels like it. I was SO sure he liked me back. Examples: At a dance, he asked me to dance 3 or 4 times. The next day at a party, he asked...

Is he only sticking around for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - An old aquaintance and I recently got back in touch, and we have gone out every weekend for the past three weeks. We hit it off, and there was obviously chemistry, and in the heat of the moment, we had sex that first night and have continued to each ...

His behavior is annoying and getting on my nerves.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend still talks to his ex. It bothers me and i confronted him, but he says that it is not what it seems. He says that their relationship is over. But, they talk and exchange txt messages constantly, and it makes me wonder: what could ...

I haven't gotten my first kiss, what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6232 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - ok, i'm 15 years old and almost 16 iv'e had a few boyfreinds in the past but for the past two years i havent and i just feel like they arent interested in me anymore- ive tried alot of things and ive learned that its just best to be myself, but ...

I kissed someone, she forgave me, but will we ever be the same again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - Well i posted on here before asking should i tell my gf about a drunken kiss. Well i decided to tell her b4 it was too late and she obviously didnt react too well she still wants to be with me though. Im not sure on what to do, i love her very much ...

Should I wait for my ex-boyfriend in the Navy? He gets out in 7 months!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - My ex boyfriend is in the navy. We have been talking on and off for the past 4 years and he recently told me he is in love with me and has been for a very long time. But he doesnt want a long distance relationship.He gets out in 7 months. I love him ...

I want my parents to accept my soon-to-be, tatooed and pierced boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - ok, so im almost 18 and my guy friend and i decided we would wait until im 18 to start dating, because hes 21. he is one of those tattooed and pierced guys, and i want my parents to be okay with him, how do i tell them about him so that they are ...

I'm still 17 but want to get out of the house and marry my 18 year old boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - I am 17 years old and I am with a 18 year old black guy. I live with my grandparents and they grew up back in the days were black people were nothing but slaves and the help. Well so my grandparents don't like it at all, but i really don't care. He ...

I like him, he likes me, we cannot date and now my best friend likes him too..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - OK. SO i like this guy and i told him and he likes me back, but we're not dating cause neither of us r allowed to get into a relationship by our families. we like eahc other and my best friend likes him 2 now. she told me she likes him 2 days after ...

She gets drunk and treats me like a king, but sobers up and treats me like a peasant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - People; I am a seriously and totally confused guy. Im a 29 year old guy, and i am totally and utterly in love with a woman 10 years older. I have no issue with the age difference at all. We do enjoy each others company and talk regulary and hav...

I want to get married and have a kid, but my ex who doesn't keeps wanting me back when other men want me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - Help, ive got myself into a pickle. Im a 36 year old women who would one day like to get married and have a baby with the right man.I have no children and have never been married. A lovely 28 year old guy asked me out,he is handsome ,charmi...

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

This question has 51 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

I googled my boyfriend's email address and found forums with him flirting with other girls, but also found a open message to me that he didn't intend for me to see!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6232 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't knwo I googled his email address, I found a forum of him flirting with other girls in other countries, not asking to meet up but jus saying how cute they are and posting pics of himself topless. On another forum I found hi...

Our friends brought up the engagement issue, and he says he hasn't really thought about it, should I worry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - Hi everyone. The other day me and my boyfriend were in a takeaway talking to one of our friends and he was asking if we'd thought of getting engaged yet. My boyfriend just didn't say anything and i was looking at him with a bit of a disappointment...

We are planning to sleep together, but I am afraid I am too inexperienced!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - Hi, i am 16 years old and i am worried because my boyfriend that i am with now we havent slept together, and we are plannin on sleeping together and i dont know how to give a blow job and i need as much advice as i can. can you help please? ...