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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

He has problems ejaculating! Is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - mmm... wenever i masturbate my boyfriend.. give him oral.. or we have sex with me on top.. he gets no pleasure out of it + tells me to stop.. :/ its been like this since the 1st time and wev been together nearly a year. he has always had probl...

Why did she lash out at me when I've been good to her? Was I blind and foolish??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Hi there. I first used this site back in late April when I'd just started seeing a girl I work with. Since then, I've been on a rollercoaster ride of emotions and now I hope I've finally reached the end. So please bear with me. Thanks. I promise...

The kids at school tease me about my virginity and sex...Whatcan I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid the year 9s at my school keep on asking whether i'm a virgin or not. I reply I am and they start laughing. I've never even kissed a boy or had a proper relationship before; and I don't particurlly want to get teased about it... a...

Should I dump my boyfriend and go after the other guy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - hey,i was in love with this guy. when suddenly we became girlfreind and boyfreind.he had another girl on his mind at that time, but i was sure that he loved me.and worried that he will keep thinking about her. so we broke up( stayed freinds), he ...

I need to know if he likes me...How do I get his attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - A few weeks ago I met this boy at a party, and we've been talking ever since ( txting and msning) everyday I've gotten a txt messege everyday from him first. I've been asking him simple questions like whats your favorite song est, but I don't know ...

I work and I pay for everything. Is he just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - have been with my partner 9yrs he wont commit. i work and pay for all our kids needs, my partners clothes, a lot of the household bills and all new things that come into house. i even paid for the last two cars. i have to live by his rules and iv ...

I lost trust in him and I feel there should be something more solid..should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Should I stay or should I go? -This is the fifth year of our relationship -We have a one-year old son -My boyfriend is about 3 years younger than me and not ready to commit to marriage any time soon. I feel our relationship should be more conc...

When I am naked he doesn't get an erection...is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - What does it mean when you can be entirely naked in the shower, with your boyfriend talking to you (sat on the toilet) and he doesn't get an erection... Any ideas? Does it mean he doesn't find you arousing? Does it mean he could be gay? Does it ...

I think she is bored, with the relationship... should I let her go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6235 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for almost 14 months. id like to believe that i treat her as well as i possibly can because she is my world. i met her when i was 16 and right when i met her i knew she was the one. we had an incredible relationship ...

I'm thinking of just ending the relationship with my boyfriend to keep my Mom happy...advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Please help.. I'm 18 and in a long-distance relationship. I've been with him for 18months.. and I feel so happy with him. However, my mum has a problem with it. It's not that she doesn't like him.. because she does.. and she also lets me see him ...

I still view her as a threat and it winds me up that she still texts him, What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6235 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - last year i broke up with my bf, after we went to my friends wedding as mates, but i still really liked him, one of my friends bridesmaids, her mate, kept tellin everyone how much she fancied my ex which drove me mad. recently and slowly me and my ...

We just don't seem to have anything in common anymore. Is my relationship over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children from ...

Over-reacting about the future? Or is breaking up the only answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6235 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - My bf and I have been going out for almost a year now, and we've gone through some dynamic ups and downs. About 6 months ago, I decided to do something that he told not do or else he would be break up with me. I didn't cheat, but to him, it felt ...

Losing him once made me realise how much I loved him. But how do I trust again and put the past behind me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6236 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I have quite a complicated situation. It may sound trivial to begin with, but please offer me advice, as I am so confused. I met a J about 18 months ago. I was in a relationship at the time, but it was not a healthy relationship at the time, an...

Is it wrong to ask a guy out??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Is it wrong to ask a guy to go out with you or should you just keep it old fashioned? ...

I thought he would have moved onto someone else....but has he??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hey all, I really need some advice, I'm not sure what to do. I have known this guy for a few years now, but about 12 months ago he text me and asked me out. He is about 23 years older than me. I told him I wasnt interested, but I was still prepared...

How do I ask a girl out face-to-face??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - If i ask out a girl face to face tell her everything how do i? After i tell her i like her, ask her out? We're both 17. Should i expect a reply? If she needs time how do i give her time? Won't it be awkward until i get the answer? Lol easiest ...

Do you think he's just after Sex from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - ive known this guy for nearly 2 weeks and i really like him the thing is i dont think he belives me as i told him it again yesterday and he said ive not proved it to him, do you think hes just after sex,ive stayed over night at his place 5 times and ...

How the heck do I get this guys attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - A few weekes ago I met this boy at a party, and we've been talking ever since ( txting and msning) everyday I've gotten a txt messege everyday from him first. I've been asking him simple questions like whats your favorite song est, but I don't know ...

A male stripper forced my wife's hand down his underwear, and she touched his Penis. I say it's no big deal, but she feels guilty. IS it a big deal?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, this says I'm Male, but it's really both myself and my wife asking this. So please address your replies/advice to both of us. We are doing this together as a solution to our little problem. Here it is. My wife's very close friend is ...

Fallen for a guy 200 miles away... Soon to be 400 miles away. Can this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Ok, I'm divorced, but my marriage was a sham anyway. I met this guy over the internet. We have been talking, emailing text messages etc and have met up. I really really like him, and he's told me he likes me. Its been going on now for about 2 ...

How can I overcome my shyness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - i am 15 and i am dating a 12 year old i hav had a major crush on me for 9 months and a couple of months ago she told me she loved me, i asked her to b my girlfriend, she siad yes, we have been dating 3 weeks and we still havnt spoke face 2 face, we ...

Is she right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - there's this girl i've liked alot for over a year. Its come to a point where i'm crazy over but her am not asking her out because i'm scared of losing the great friendship we have. One of her friends, also mine who knows i like the girl told me...

I worry my girlfriend is hiding something in her past. How can I address the issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - hey people just wanted to know wot to do...ive been with my gf for about a year now we do hava good relationship..but theres a few things that bother me and im worried it may effect our relationship..we gave our vrginity to each other.. I keep ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to trust me. Why does he act this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - hi i am 21 years old and my boyfriend is 32. we have a morgage together and i love him so much. i really need the answer to why my boyfriend thinks im staring and flirting at other blokes {young to old, really ugly to good looking} while we are out ...

I am dating another man but do not feel anything when he ejaculates, only a leakage. Do I learn to control my high drive or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I've just divorced of my husband. The last year together we didnt have sex at all. He has got problem of erection and refuses to sort it out. Since then he doesnt even touches me. He makes me feel really bad. Now I've met this man 18 years ...

I really feel his ex is trying to come between us, with actions she has undertaken, manipulation, gossip. Do you think I am overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I just wanted people's views on the suituation I am in. I have been with my boyfriend 9 months. He was with a girl for 4 years before me, they had been split up for about 5 months prior to us getting together. In that time, my boyfriend said...

Why doesn't it pay to be a nice guy? Why are women attracted to unkind men, abusive, players?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Why dosen't it pay to be a nice guy? i do all i can 4 her and still no reward just get crap. I even tryed being bad to her and i got crap. So why are woman attracted to a%^ and *^*4? and why are they messed up? Someone tell me? because im so lost ...

Where are the best places to meet women 18-24 (and is it best to go solo?)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Where is the best places to meet new woman aged 18 to 24? and is it better to be in a crowd or on your own to attracted them? need to know as many as i can. thanks...

We decided to talk less frequently to avoid arguments. Is this the end of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend moved to italy a few months ago, and we were in a really happy relationship. ive been over to visit once and he comes home for xmas soon. recently we've decided we talk to eachother too much, and this is causing us to have arguments, so ...

We are of different nationalities and our parents do not allow us to date. How to handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I've been in a relationship with an Asian girl for about five months now and I have two problems in one (*gasp*). First is that her parents don't want her to go out with anyone until she's 18 (she's 14 and I'm 15) and the fact that she's Asian...

How do I need to act around a colleague at work I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6235 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - We are colleagues at work. I know him more then one year but I was his girlfriend just two weeks, two months ago. We have broken up on bad way by his fault. I was totally broken, he left at home one month (he is from Thailand) and I blocked him for ...

Together 12 years, 5 kids, and split up in October. I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hello I was with my man for about 12 years we have five children which we recently had twin daughters about 5 months ago, we broke up last October, and he just recently got in another relationship. But he still calls me, we still sleep together, and ...

She said no but I cant stop thinking about her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I am 13 and I asked out a girl i have known for 3 years and when I asked her she said no but that day i felt so bad i went to the office 3 times and i felt like i wanted to die but now I cant stop thinking abbout her what should i do?...

Do I wait for him or move on. He says he loves me but he is in another relationship currently.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - let me start it like this... me and rocky were dating for 2 1/2 years during that period of time i kissed a few guys and came clean n he had another girlfrien and got caught. we broke up. now he's dating another girl and i want him back. the probl...

Don't date players!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Ok, a lot of people say that they like players and that they wanna get with the player but if you get with a player he/she will just break your heart stupid!!!! I dated a player and he just broke my heart. So girls/guys,dont date players,...

Should I go out with him... ? Because *I'm* not that much of a freak!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - im popular and so is this boy that likes me. but he likes to do freaky things with his girlfriends. i would kiss him and dub him but i might not do the things his other girlfriends have. should i go out with him and stay shy? dont go out with him? ...

I feel like she gets a lot of the intellectual and social parts you want in a relationship from me. But gets kissed by the other guy. Confusing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Let me just jump right into it... She is dating another bloke. Their relationship isn't all that great and isn't terrible. I just don't expect it to last much longer. I really like this girl and have for sometime. And yes, I made a move...

My gf periodically posts degrading pictures of herself in the net, semi-naked. Do I over react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I have been seeing a girl for a year and a half. She is amazing, but here is my problem. She will periodically post degrading pictures of herself on her Facebook as her profile picture. The first one was of her knealing (or standing, I couldnt...

I have been very picky about relationships, but now that I met a special girl we don't "click" in the bedroom! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I haven't had a girlfriend in a few years, because Ive been very picky. I've finally met a girl who I think the world of. We get along better than anyone Ive ever met in my life. She's extremely attractive, and she feels the same way about me. ...

If a guys says that you're annoying, does this mean he likes you... ? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hey guys. What does a guy mean when he says that you're annoying or irritating?? Does he like you is he being mean??? Help!!!...

I can't move on, I can't decide how I feel or what I want or why he's acting the way he is...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hey, I am going through so much crap with my ex boyfriend. I'm 18 and was going out with him for 2 years ..he broke up with me through a text on monday but I was out and had been drinking so i didnt remember reading it ..rang him the next morning ...

Worried about the values I transmit to my daugther. Dating several men, having sex. Friends say it's normal after my divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - i'm a 43 years old mother of 2, i just had a divorce after 19 years of marriage. it took me a while to get back to dating again and when i did the problem started. i have sex a lot and with more than just one guy. my friends told me that it'...

One day she refuses my invitation, next he kisses me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - I am a 13 and i love this girl but when i asked her out she said no and i felt like i wonted to die but today in the hall she KISSED me and now i am all confused what should i do? ...

I would not like my partner to feel pressurised if I (curiously) ask him about wanting a baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - hey guys, Right here is goes, how can you tell if your boyfriend wants a baby?. my boyfriend is 18, far tooo young i know but i keep gettin the feeling that he wants us to have a baby. can men get broody too? is it normal at this age? i dont rea...

Should I just completely walk away??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I started dating a man last Oct (2006) that I had been a work acquaintance of for 2 years. He was going through a divorce when we started dating. We took things slowly in the beginning and then after about 3 months he told me he loved me and wanted ...

What can I do to change the fact I always tend to attract girls who cheat, fight, party, love dramas...?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - I'm wondering if anyone here can answer this question for me, or atleast attempt to. I'm wondering what it is about me that attracts a certain type of girl. I tend to attract girls who cheat, fight, party, and are in lvoe with drama. For the most...

Can anybody give me advice to improve my dating skills??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - I am nearly 21 and I have never in my entire life had a girlfriend. I always see couples being happy around each other, I have tried, but barely got passed the dating phase with girls. I think my failure is largely due to my problems. When I was yo...

When a couple gets engaged, do they each buy an engagement ring? Or just the boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I have a question relating to "marriage/engagement. When a couple get's engaged, are they both supposed to buy an engagement ring? Or does the boyfriend just buy an engagement ring?...

Why is he like this towards me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about two months now, but i already know that this is real love, none of my other relationships felt this way. But sometimes my boyfriend makes me feel a bit..odd i guess. He'll say hows much he loves me constantly ...