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Archived questions from: 19 November, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I had sex with him on the first night out, which I had never done before! Now he accuses me for that!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I am 45 just divorced and met this man. He seems genuine and caring and loving. I've been unhappy for a long time in my marraige for years. So I decided to go for this man. I had sex with him on the first night out. It's something I've never ...

Any ideas as to how I could possibly make it up to her and maybe be have another chance with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6216 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - Hiya, let me start by saying a few years ago i became unwell (mentaly), a couple who stuck by me through this time, started to have a relationship breakdown. In 05 they split but got back together again a few months later, but obviously wasn't t...

Met a Turkish man on holiday, we're in love and he wants me to move with him but I have two children. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I have met a younger Turkish man on holiday. I have been back to see him since and it confirmed how we both felt. I have been married for 18 years and have never felt how i felt with him.I am at present going through a divorce......before i met him. ...

We have been fighting a lot and thought we needed space, so she's moved back into her own place, claiming a short break. How do I make her happy again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6217 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - Me and my fiance have been togeather for 3 1/2 years we have been engaged since april of 07. My question is she has just recently moved into her own place about two weeks ago because we have been fighting alot and thought that we needed some space ...

I have a horrible feeling if he could trade me for his dead ex gf, I'd be dead and he'd be with her. I've always been the type to think the worst. Help before I ruin my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I lost my virginity to my boyfriend at aged 20, I'm 21 now, he is two years younger than me, I was sensible about it as I've had over 15 boyfriends and he was the only really genuine guy. This is becoming an obsession with me though now, he lost his ...

My friend has a bf and a child, is it wrong if I start a relationship with her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Dear cupid.. When i was 16 my best friend was involved with a lad in my class she was a year older than me and was with this boy for a year he was her 1st boyfriend.Its been 2 years and shes moved on she has a baby and a boyfriend now, we're very ...

We're both timid, and let the summer pass with no contact. Have I lost my chances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6217 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I really liked this guy and he said he liked me too but we were both too shy to do anything about it. This summer we barely talked and this year I have no classes with him, but I still really like him! I feel like I have missed my chance with him. I ...

He sends me endless texts but doesn't firm up a date. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I met a guy and we connected straight away, we've been out on 3 dates and agreed to meet again, however all he seems to do is send me texts and wont firm up a date, this has now gone on for weeks. he keeps asking me if i want to see him again and I ...

Should he tell the world he is in love or should he be sensitive to his ex's?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I am recently in love. He says he loves me very much however doesnt want to say or post anything about that as he thinks it's like flaunting it in front of ex-girlfriends faces and doesnt want to hurt them. I feel he is more sensative to their ...

I don't think I can be rejected, there's nothing else that is "worth it." Advise, please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - i cant do this anymore i met a guy online and im so into him its crazy we texted and talked on the fone for like 3 weeks so into each other and its kind of fading off, he doesnt seem interested anymore and when i mentioned going to see him this wee...

Although he didn't want to rush into sex some of his texts are quite sexually orientated. We currently have a "text relationship." Opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6215 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I met a guy recently and we went out on a few dates, the first couple of dates were just a kiss at the end of the night, on the third date he stayed over we did everything but intercourse he told me he didnt want to rush into having sex..since then ...

He told me to be patient and wait for our relationship to get public. It's a secret one now as he has a gf. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I have a secret relationship with a boy cause he has a girlfriend? He told me to be patient and wait for our relationship to get public? But i dont believe that much, so i need help? I love him. What should i do? Should i do something so he would ...

How can I find the desire to commit to a serious relationship and forget about my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - Long time Aunt, first time asker = ) Now then, I haven't had what could be classed as a "relationship" for almost a year now, but have been going out a lot with friends (1-3 times a week) and 9 times out of 10 not going home alone. Most of t...

Is a peck on the lips cheating??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Is it considered cheating if you peck a close friend (of the opposite sex) on the lips, if you have been going out with someone for approximately two months? I am driving myself insane thinking that it is. Anyone I ask thinks I'm being silly! Could ...

I think I'm losing my mind! Is it possible to love two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Hi, i have been in a relationship with my fiance for 4 years and have a beautiful child by him. I care about him, would do anything for him and dont know wot i would do if i lost him. We have a very close group of friends whom we spend alot of time ...

I don't want my parents to break up my relationship. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - hi. i've been with my guy for almost 2 years. We love each other a lot however for the past few months we've been fighting about little stuff and big stuff. We'd get into arguements about nothing and then make up..and then we'd get into big fights ...

He sent a text to his ex-wife, ending with an "x". I feel like I've been kicked in the teeth. Do I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - just back from hols with my boyfriend. looked at one of his texts he had sent to his ex wife. at the end of the text he ended it with a x. (they have three children together and have been separated for twelve years). i know it was wrong to look at ...

I'm so attracted to this girl I've started seeing, but she doesn't want anything serious. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - i'm heavily attracted to this girl who i have just started having a sexual relationship with but she doesn't want to have a serious relationship while i do. she is very flirty with other guys but admits that but would never do anything but i still ...

I'm interested in a popular guy, but I'm scared to make a move. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 18 year old girl and I have a big crush in this guy, I'm really crazy about him. The problem is he doesn't know me and he is a little bit famous but still grounded. I'm not interested to his popularity, I liked him before he even ...

Together 3 months, we argue constantly and there is an 8 year gap between us. Are we doomed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I have been with my bf for 3 months now and we constantly argue about alot of things. There is an 8 year gap between us im younger than him, the age doesnt really borther me but what does is his constent yelling and going off at me when i do ...

How to have a good lasting relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6211 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - i need help on how to take back my boyfriend. advice me on how to keep a good lasting relationship. i need help on how to treat my boyfriend. how do i maintain my relationship....

How do I let him know I'm interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Theres this guy who I'm falling for, and when I say falling for I'm falling hard for him. I've never felt this way about anyone else. I'm even dreaming about him at night! The thing is he's really quite shy, and he has never had a girlfriend. I ...

He's giving too many mixed signals. Should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - I've been talking to this guy everyday for the past two weeks; whether through actual phone conversation or via text messages. And when we're on the phone(which is every other day), we talk for hours on end about everything. He told me he enjoyed ...

Should I leave her, or give her the second chance she is begging for? She's cheated, but I have too, in the early stage of our relation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - Hello, My relationship is complex, but most relationships are. I am very sexually experienced, my gf is (was) not (ratio of partners was something like 40-1). This has always been a sore point. My girlfriend is 15 years younger than me and we h...

How do I tell him I'm insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I understand communication is the key to any relationship. If I want to tell my boyfriend I'm insecure with out relationship, what is the best way to tell him. Letter? Email? Phone? MSN? In person?...

How can I get my boyfriend to understand what dancing is all about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6219 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I used to ballroom dance with my best guy friend (not very good, but it was a lot of fun). After I dated my boyfriend since two years ago, I stopped dancing simply because my boyfriend thinks dancing is a very intimate thing to do and I should only ...

Will he regret moving in together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6138 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We are both in our mid 20s. We are very stable and had been talking about moving in together since the first year of dating. We lived in two separate cities approximately two hours drive away. We ...

How do you date a stripper and not get jealous?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - I have been dating a woman who strips for a living at a club. I liked her from the start and she and I have good chemistry… the sex is great. She and I met at the club she works at. After I came to the club just to see her and after buying a ...

The clothes have stayed on - but for how long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - hi i need a bit of help with a problem i have slept with my boyfriends brother whilst i was VERY drunk and he is going out with my best friend i confessed to her because the guilt was killing me and we got that sorted they are still together but i ...

What are the normal signs that a guy likes a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Okay, so I like this guy that I do theatre with in my town...we're friends. He's nice, funny, attractive, and smart. We go to different schools, but we see eachother each week for play practice. My other really good friend (who's also boy) is also ...

What should I try to do to boost my confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - I dated and lived with a girl, the only person I have slept with, about four years ago, but it ended when she wanted to get married and i realized she wasn't the person for me. Since then I have not had sex, or a girlfriend, and am getting desperate ...

Why does he he give me all this access to him if I'm not what he wants? He depends on me like I am his woman without giving me the title.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I have a friend with benefits that I have been involved with for at least a yr and a half. We hang out and spend alot of time with each other he say's that i'm different from other women. He trust me enough to have his cars in my name even have let ...

We like each other, he still hangs around with his ex, and I don't have much free time, should I ask him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Well hello everyone...I recently told my crush how I felt about him and he told me that he feels the same way towards me...Were not going out because I believe that he still has feelings for his ex..I think this because they still talk like ...

My gf won't tell me who she's had a fling with. I feel I'm losing trust in her. Do I tell her or let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6219 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - hey people just wanted to know wot to do...ive been with my gf for about a year now we do hava good relationship..but theres a few things that bother me and im worried it may effect our relationship..we gave our vrginity to each other.. I keep ge...

We lost our viginity to each other, but she's admitted a previous daliance, can I just let this go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

We've been hanging out for 9 months, but she won't leave her boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - Hi. I've been involved with a girl for about 9 months now who is already in a relationship. Things started out as just friends, hanging out at work, going for walks, getting a tea, etc. I knew she had a boyfriend, and didn't think anything...

How do I tell my grandmother we're a couple?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6219 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I've recently started dating a guy that I can seriously spend the rest of my life with, the only problem is telling my grandmother. The deal is that I work with both of them. My grandmother and this guy have been working together for 13 years and I ...