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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Boyfriend in love with his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Hello, I got back with my ex of 6 months January, after finding out that he had never broken up with his ex of two years. He felt really guilty and kept saying how sorry he was. He was being really lovely and paying me lots of attention. Everythi...

Ten years with a man only to be cheated on then left for her, so why cant I move on??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Well, I am 26 years of age and about 1 year ago I got out of a 10 year relationship. He left me for another woman! He had also been sleeping with her for a month or who knows how much longer before we actually broke up. I spent my life loving this ...

I married at 20. Now I've fallen for a colleague. He has a Gf. Is my colleague playing mind games with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Hi all. I 30 years old and I am madly in love with my colleague and we are having an affair. When we met it was a moment where I took one look at him and felt electric heart-pounding it felt like I knew him already. We hit it off immediately but ...

How do I refocus & find out if I can continue to stay in my marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I've been married for 16 hrs. I am 45 hrs old and have 2 boys with my husband. My husband works a day job as well as a 2nd shift job. I work in the morning part time and the rest of my time is devoted to my boys their schools and sports. My ...

I need the strength to despise him for cheating on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I don't know what to do. I'm 26, found out my boyfriend of 4 years has cheated on me 2 times, once each time with two different girls. He seemed so sweet and loving up until I just found this out. I have 100% concrete evidence, there's no doubt he...

A phone call shattered my world, find out husband had an affair. If I leave will it stop the pain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Hi One evening I got a call from a girl saying to ask my husband who she is. I asked ... it is a work collegue who he has being having an affair with for 4 months. He said he ended it 1 month ago and didnt have sex. I believe him and he's promise...

Cheating:( How do guys keep their girlfriend from cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - How do you keep your girl from cheating? Please i am asking for a range of different answers, so please give me your opinion on whats the best way to keep a partner faithful, or atleast, what actions can a guy do, to keep her girl from seeking ...

Hate my toxic work place, where cheating is the norm. How can people cheat and not feel guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I am really hating my workplace at the moment I feel that its really poisoness. Everyone seems to be cheating on everyone else and I am the only who seems to think its disgusting. One girl at work was giving me all this relationship advice with my ...

Advice needed regarding catching my girlfriend sexting

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I am a 36 year old guy who has been in a relationship with a lady whom I met online 6 months ago. We have become very close but last weekend I found text messages on her phone to at least 3 other men that were explicit in nature ( in both words and ...

Why did my B/f have three naked pictures of the same girl on his phone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my partner nearly two years now, he has never been the type to admire any other girls ever.. he got a new phone and when he had it I said would you like some pictures of me to get off to when I'm not around he refused and said he ...

He won't let us sleep in the same bed! How to get our love back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Been with my husband 25 years! But we have not slept in the sane bed for 11 years and he lost interest in sex-until 2 years ago when a neighbour came on to him - he does have problem with Erectile Dysfunction. The affair is over -but he still wo...

Everything things my guy and I have the perfect relationship. But I feel confused and I'm thinking of breaking up or cheating. I already talk online to a guy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4312 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - Hey, sorry for being dramatic about this but I didn't know where else to go for help, thanks for reading. I've been with my boyfriend since 2009, and he is 3 years older than me. I came out when we started dating, and it was hard, very difficult w...

Trying to make my marriage blossom, but I can't last 5 minutes without thinking about my lover

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Married for 23yrs I met the love of my life who has been married 24yrs. We had an undeniable connection, and made love 24hrs after meeting. His first time and my first, since our weddings. We live in different states. I returned home and ...

My wife is constantly texting another man, asked me to move out and yet says she wants to work on things!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - Hi. I have used this site a few times and thank those who have added comments, it helps. Will try to be brief here... Married for 12 years, 3 great kids. Wife and I have always been great friends, quite a bit in common but our sex life has...

I've been married 18 years and have attracted a new butterfly. What do I do about my wife and son?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - hi,i'm 48 yr old man, been married 18 yrs, one child, 3 months ago i meant a woman, 45 yrs old, it started out with a casual flirt which later ended up with lunch dates everyday for a month, during our lunch encounters we learned we basically are ...

The past of my boyfriend really bother me. I don't know how to deal with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - I am new at this lol never posted a quetion before but her it goes......it is kind of long. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. I have children from previous marriage and he treats them as his own. He is very selfless and kind...

I want a man who doesn't cheat or look at pornography. Does he exist?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I want a man like this does this even exist? Basically i'm after a man who does not engage in any kind of cheating at all (glances at swimsuit pics mildly acceptable.) but no porn, no talking dirty to others, little female friends, no strip clubs. ...

I have trust issues with my BF after he sexted his ex on Facebook

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Hello all! i have a question about my partner. It's been a rocky road for us but he moved in in november 2012. A week after i discovered messages to his ex lovers, not one but a few, which angered and hurt me immensely. He reminisced about their se...

It's a secret, he doesn't want the baby momma to know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Im a single divorced mother of four kids. I work a full time job, raise my four kids on my own. Along with that I take online college course. I try so hard to do the best I can to take care of my kids and along with everything else going on. I don't ...

He didn't tell me I was his stop gap live in lover!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - We lived together for about 7 months. He had an old friend. He slept with her once, if he's not lying, and she got pregnant. Then she left to her country which is Russia. He's divorced 33 year old guy and he always wanted a baby but didnt grt one in ...

Searched signs of cheating on the internet and she's hitting them all. What should I do or think? She's done it in the past.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - do you think because shes cheated and dumped me numerous times for other guys n a girl in the past that she could be hiding it and doing it still weve talked about the past and i still am hurt from the facts of the past, hell i might have a complex ...

Caught fiancee cheating whilst I was pregnant now I am sleeping with his boss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - Me and my now EX fiance where dating for 1 and a half years and i became pregnant and we were excited but 6 months into my pregnancy i came home early from my part time job as i wasn't feeling to good so i come home and i hear him shouting out my ...

Confused. I don't know if he's cheating, or is going to leave me, and why has he now stopped communicating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - Confused: I'll begin by saying I've been with my man for 7/years he recently came home from prison almost 2/years ago, 3/13 will be 2/years! I cheated while he was in prison w/ another man for like 3/months! That fling was over in oct/2010! Ever s...

Move on, but how? Lingering in the past... Guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - hi I need help regarding my relationship. Just be fair and honest.. I had been in a relationship with a girl for over 3 years which ended recently but I still think of her. she was my first girlfriend n spending long time really made m...

I'm married but it's a LDR. I cheated with a friend who's also married. I don't want to break up our marriages. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - I need some advice. I've been in a long distance relationship for about 5 years. We've seen each other every 5-6 months for about one or two months. Got married a few months ago and now living apart again. This will keep continuing for a...

Should I trust my BF even after he lied to me about contacting another girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about three months. We just became officially boyfriend and girlfriend about three weeks ago. Last week I was at his house when he ran to drop something off I got on his computer and did some snooping. Well there is ...

I think my wife is cheating on me. We have 3 children together. What's my next step to deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

25 January 2013 (M) - born in 1981 met her 1996 married her in 2004 we have three kids oldest is 11 years old it is now 2013 next month is our meeting each other anniversery. I suspect and i think she's cheating on me. Anyone care to conversate on the matter? i ho...

Should I forgive my guy friend for sleeping with my then girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - I am not completely sure how forgiveness works. I don't know when to let go of something, or to hold onto it -- I either do or I don't, and that is that. I have a question about forgiving and forgetting. To ask it, I feel I should give the story ...

Should I stay with my best friend/boyfriend? Or end things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Hello, I am a 21 year old female and have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. When I first met him, we had a wonderful relationship...about 8 months into it, he started drifting away. He wanted to spend more time with his friends and not ...

Who could care and have feelings for 3 year affair?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Is it easy for a man to have a 3yr sex fling with a woman and care nothing for her? My husband has been sleeping with this hoe for 3yrs.I know its only sex. She now has feelings for him but he cares nothing for her. She can't get that through her ...

He doesn't look at me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - Hi, everyone. first thing is that I am married, but someone has come to my life and has me all confused. My husband and me are having to many problems. OK getting to the point. I met this guy about a year ago, he works at his father store just a ...

Should I marry my long term bf despite lack of physical attraction & chemistry? please help.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - hello, i am in emotional dilemma right now. to be honest that is an understatement. i am in hell because everything that is going on with my life is in turmoil. i don't know if i should marry my bf for 10 years. i don't know what to do? i only ...

Why do involved men ask for a girl's phone number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - why do men ask for women's cell number even if he/she is already in a relati0nship?basically,i want to know men's m0tive in the first place...

I can't commit to someone else because I'm in love with a married man

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - I have been in contact with a married man with two older children since 2009 . We chatted for about 6 months before i let him in my life. We got serious and within 3 weeks his wife found out . He called if off. I was gutted , he would avoid me at ...

I'm almost sure b/f cheated but he's saying I did and gave him a STD!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - So I'll try to make this short, I have been dating this guy for about a year and a half and we have had a tough time, there hasn't been any cheating as far as I know, except the one time about six months ago I caught him exchanging naked pics with ...

There's a rumour that my boyfriend slept with his aunt (uncle's ex wife) - who should I believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - There's been a rumor that years ago my boyfriend of 2 years has slept with his aunt multiple times. His aunt is divorced from his uncle, she was only related by marriage. He tells me this is just a rumor, that he would never sleep with his aunt. I...

Gf sending dirty texts to another man

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

23 January 2013 (M) - Hi, I've been with my gf for nearly 3 years, it's had it's ups and downs but we've got through them, between us we have 4 children, she has 3 girls I have one boy. The two youngest girls dad left when the youngest was born, and hasn't been around ...

My ex keeps texting me wanting an explanation for why I broke up with him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up October last year, but it was a long drawn out process of being off and on since April. He cheated on me back then and I still loved him but couldn't trust him, realised I needed some space. Eventually when we done ...

How can I get rid of my boyfriend's lying trouble making ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriends ex lied about being pregnant and the baby being his as she cheated on him on 5 occasions with a friend of his. (Some people even disbelieve she was even pregnant as she was drinking and smoking the night after she apparently had blood ...

I found proof that he was cheating on me for 3 years but he's still contacting me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - We ve bin dating for 9mtnhs nw, and suddenly a lady called me, giving me evidences that they ave bin dating for 3yrs, showing me the picture they both took together on her bday, he called me the following day I made him he has broken my heart and ...

I am young but don't want to ruin my life with a dumb choice! What should I do about dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - I had a boyfriend for around 4 years I met him in high school and we became friends. However, our relationship as boyfriend-girlfriend was underground (very few people know about us going on for the first months) The main reason is my parents do ...

Should I ask my friend for permission to sleep with her husband?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - Apologies for the length of this but I think it's important to have the details.. the devil is always in the details... Me: I'm single and approaching 50. It's been a few years since my last serious relationship but I'm fine with that. Having see...

Co-worker made out with me late one night and now avoids me saying he doesn't feel the same as me. What the heck?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I currently have a boyfriend and have been with him for over two years. However about mid last month I had a situation with someone I worked with. It was during a work night out, I was only working there temporarily and don't anymore. Anyway as ...

An affair that I never wanted to begin ended badly. I am shocked to the core at how he could do this to me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - I understand that I will be judged for what I am about to ask, but please understand that nothing that can be said is comparable to the guilt and pain I am putting myself through. I had a male friend for about 2 years with whom I went to school. ...

What is the difference between gut feelings and anxiety regarding cheating in a relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Dear all, Can anyone please give advice from experience about the difference between gut feelings and anxiety regarding cheating in a relationship? I've been with my BF for over a year now and I've had a bad feeling about his female work co...

How could she give a guy a Bj if our marriage is really great? Twice I've found out she's cheated on me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

20 January 2013 (M) - I don't really know where to begin so I will back up to before we moved to this island. Four years ago my wife wanted a divorce. I could totally understand why at the time. I had gotten fat and lazy, letting her do most of the work while serving ...

How can I stop caring for this guy who obviously doesn't care for

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I started dating this guy 3 years ago. At first he seemed so sweet and trustworthy. After a few months we started to fight over the fact that I was still friends with my ex boyfriend. We would fight a lot because I could tell he didn't trust me...

Should I try to discourage him from wanting to be married to me? Or end the marriage? Could I get transitional housing to leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - Married for over 11-12 years with passive aggressive husband who constantly diminishes my every move. I have 2 sons who are 8 and 10, and a daughter who just turned 1. Scared that no one will take care of me when I get old. I'm always good at my o...

I don't trust him to go to his friends birthday party

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. My bf and I have trust issues, and his best friend is havi.g a bday bash. Loud music, booze, friends and girls. We planned to go together but the baby sitter got sick and I cant find anyone on such short notice... I do not ...

My boyfriend is extremely distrustful and irrational. How do I deal with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is driving me crazy Ok, we've been dating for 2 years. There was an incident with another guy at the beginning of our relationship, he says I cheated, I say I didn't (I didn't even sleep with the guy, we just talked and when I found...