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writes:Me and my now EX fiance where dating for 1 and a half years and i became pregnant and we were excited but 6 months into my pregnancy i came home early from my part time job as i wasn't feeling to good so i come home and i hear him shouting out my friends name and ...needless to say they were sleeping together so that was our relationship over 2 months later i was in the late stages of pregnancy and Mike who is a close friend of mine and also my Ex's boss ... anyway we kissed and now we are dating and i had a beautiful baby girl and my EX hasn't been to see her or rang to know how she is why is he being so heartless (he doesn't know about Mike) his daughter is now 5 months old what is wrong with him ?should me and my boyfriend go public?why is my ex ignoring his daughter?am i doing anything wrong?why does my ex blame me for our relationship failing when he was the one who cheated?is he jealous of me and my daughter because he can't have us as a family ?please help
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reader, Kindpigeonette  +, writes (5 February 2013):
He sounds like my ex boyfriend. Luckily, I got away due to the wonderful help of our Dearcupid uncles and aunties! He is the one who cheated on his ex wife and girlfriends, but was paranoid that I was cheating although I have no history of such thing. He never visited his two daughters, and like Code Warrior said, he was self-absorbed, narcissistic and a douchebag. Glad you found love with his boss. You are awesome!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni care about my ex in the fact that we have a beautiful baby daughter together and i care for her .. she needs her dad i am happy in my relationship okay i just want him to be their for her because i am sure sooner or later he will realize what he has missed out on in her life.
me and my boyfriend are happy, i didn't start this out of revenge my daughter is my main concern and i don't want my ex to hurt her or let her down
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reader, oldbag +, writes (27 January 2013):
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Your Ex doesn't want to get involved because he is too young to be a Dad or in a serious relationship. He is an immature jerk.If he sees his baby he would have to see you and he doesn't want to,I hope his family DO though.Just make sure he puts out financially for her.
I don't know why you've kept it a big secret your dating his boss,your single and can do as you please.However I don't think your ready to date,your still too concerned about your no good Ex.
Try focusing on your baby,she already has an absent father so be the best mum you can for her.When feelings aren't so raw and your Ex has matured he may want contact with her, but for now just forget him.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (27 January 2013):
 It sounds like you're using his boss to get back at him, and that it's not a real relationship here. He cheated on you with a friend, and now you're sleeping with his boss out of revenge.
I say leave it alone, make sure your ex is meeting court obligations, and let go of the anger and jealousy. Your ex-boyfriend cheated then dropped you because he's a jerk. he's not jealous, and you aren't over him yet.
Answer me this -- if you're in this great and true relationship with his boss, what the hell do you care about seeing your ex or whether or not he's jealous of you? Sounds childish to me, and the little girl is caught in the middle.
The guy cheated. You two are done. You have a little girl who loves you. Time to move forward.
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