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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Who had cheater's behavior? Him or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - im rlly feeling bad ... i just broke up with my boyfriend ..i loved him to death but i think he cheated ... our relation was within distance ...and one day we were talking on msn and i told him im going out with friends ..he agreed and he asked me ...

Should I send this email to my ex I broke up with six months ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - What do you think, I want to send my ex boyfriend this email..please help.? i want to send my ex boyfriend this email. broken up for 6 months and he has been playing with my head. telling me he loves me and coming to me when hes lonely. ...

What type of men am I dealing with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hello, I was wondering if anyone had some insight into what type of personality or type of men I am dealing with in my life. My husband has cheated on me behind my back for 5 years with other women. When confronted by me about it he verbally abus...

He says he is falling in love with me but that he can't leave his family. How can I let go of him and end our work affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I am a teachers assistant at an elementary school. I have been working with the same man for the last three years. We are both married with 3 kids. We have formed a great friendship and seem like ideal mates for each other. W...

Is he lying or cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - We've been together 1 year. I have access to his Facebook account and it looks fairly ok (one thing from January had me a little spooked). I checked out another "social site" and his profile said "Looking for a Relationship" (among other things ...

I finally figured out his game -- and want to stay strong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Hey everyone! Okay, so heres the thing... Ive just gotten out of a long term on-off relationship (5 years to be precise). It was a great relationship to begin with but then soon the love started to fade from him, (hence it was on-off cause he kept ...

How do you get through being cheated on and lied to by a guy who never even cared about you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - He said he never lies... I'm struggling to keep count of all the lies he's told. He said he's been cheated on before and would never cheat... he asked other girls out while we were together and straight after we break up. He told me he's not like ...

Why is she texting me, giving me mixed signals, and calling me? does that mean I have a chance. Or does she just want me around while she grieves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up about 4 weeks ago. Its hard for me to talk to her because it was my fault we broke up. She is still mad that I facebook chatted this girl I want, suppose to talk to while I was drunk and we talked, then turned to sexting. I hone...

My ex is confusing me.Is he doing it on purpose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - hai everyone.Am in a confusing situation.My ex boyfriend and i were together for 11 months,we broke up 4 months ago.We are at the same university.i broke up with him after i found out that he cheated on me when we closed school.The girl he cheated ...

What are the tell tale signs that two people are romantically involved?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - What are the tell tale signs that two people are romantically involved particularly are having sex. I think two of my close friends [male and female] are doing the nasty.... yet both of them are married to other people. I dont know if its all in my ...

I seem to spend more time with these guys than my boyfriend!

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27 September 2011 (F) - Okay well ive been going out with my current boyfriend for 3 weeks today and a friend ive not been talking to that much since we had abit of a flirtationship a couple months ago an about a few days ago he asked me to come out to drink an stuff and ...

I have been talking to a guy for 11 months and he has gone out and had sex with someone else. I feel betrayed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hello i met this man on dating site we talked for 11 months, i saw him through webcam, i talked to his family through the phone he was supposed to visit me . But i told him that i will move to his country for study but then soon the war broke out in ...

Triangle of lies!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I know I messed up but what now? I need advice, I know what I need to do but I would like someone else to give me an opinion on how... I started working for this guy, he was my immediate boss, he was handsome and kind and understanding...we became ...

Everybody loves my husband except me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids. My husband of 16 years is perfect by everybody else's standards. He is well liked by my family and friends, a good husband, a good father and best friend. I know that logically he is a good choice for me. He has stood by me during goo...

My married ex is desperate to meet me for 10 minutes, do I give in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi everyone I've been reading articles but none seem to match my situation. Recently I have been seeing a ex who is married (I am also married) we fell out and I ended our affair and went no contact. I didn't think I mattered to him or that ...

How to know if she's cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - What signs do I need too look for to tell if my wife cheating...

Why does he turn his phone off at 7? Is he cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Im with this guy that always has his phone off about 700 at first i thought it was because of his spilt shift. Wen he finish work he comes over for hour or so and say need 2 sleep of hav 2 pick up the kid for ex I did believe him at first but not ...

My baby's father cheated and had a baby with her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for two years and i got pregnat in may 2010 and while i was pregnat he had cheated on me most of my pregnacy but after my son was born i wanted my family together so i for gave him. i found out the girl he was cheating on ...

I love him. If he was doing his part, would I be cheating? But am I wrong?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together 9 months, known each other 3 years, havent seen each other in 3 months, spoke on the phone once in those 3 months. our primary form of communication is texting. And sometimes we go a week without a text, es...

Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... But if I never loved I would have never lost. and would not feel the this way..

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - My ex girlfriend and i love each other alot. Im not putting words in her mouth she has told me that she loves me even tho we are broken up. Its my fault why we broke up. I was drunk and went online and sexted another girl. I honestly didnt know what ...

Boyfriend isn't lasting like he used to, is he cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Me and my bf used 2 have great sex but recently he's only lasting like not even a minute? He never used 2 b like this and am scared that he's cheating on me?...

He's turned it around to try to make me the guilty one!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Here's the thing. I had my boyfriend of nine months. Well about 2 months ago I started noticing little things/clues that were telling me that he was talking to another girl, like a text every so often and he would say it was this app that he has ...

I'm suffering from insecurity and need help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hey, I was wondering if anyone can help me really ? Im 17 years old ( nearly 18 ) and just over 5 months ago i met this bloke from my workplace. I knew straight away he was the one and anyway we hit it off quickly and have been together 5 month...

An employee is sending me texts asking me out to dinner, and this started on my second day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Alright... so this week I started my new job and I was just trying to get used to everyone and get to know the employees since I am the new supervisor. This one employee passed me a note that said "dinner?" while I was sitting at my desk and it ...

Is my girfriend a psycho?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - 6 months back I caught my girlfriend cheating me on Facebook chat . She was doing that for like one week. When I got to know , I cried like hell and didn't say anything more than "you shouldn't have done this" to her such was my love for her. I ...

I can't decide between these two!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - I am in a predicament where I must choose between two people. First of all I have been dating one guy (Person # 1) for a year. Before we started dating I had to break up with another guy who i was casually dating (Person 2). Person 1 is great, but ...

Retaliation sex, what's your opinion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. Just wanted to know what people thought about retaliation sex in a relationship. If you know your partner has cheated on you in the past, even if they minimized it saying they never penetrated the woman, is it ok to have the same typ...

Should I call this girl who I think my husband had an affair with? He says he didn't cheat.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Hello everyone! Well I need advice. I believe my husband has had an affair, over an 8 month period. I have asked him 3 different times, and he has denied any wrong doing. He became irate and said that men and women can be friends without having sex....

I sexted another girl. my girlfriend dumped me but says she will always love me. I don't understand these mixed signals

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - I dont understand my break up at all. My girlfriend broke up with me because I screwed up. I was drunk and went on my computer and facebook sexted a girl I wasnt supposed to talk to at all. I wasnt aloud to talk to this girl so I didnt. I wasnt ...

My boyfriend took another girl to a hotel but swears he didn't cheat. What shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - sorry about this being so long ... i met my boyfriend at the age of 16 and weve been together ever since, weve had a lot of ups and downs and now i need advice. After been together 6 months, it was just a pritty average relationship then...

Is my relationship destined for doom, or can it be fixed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - Well, I have been with my husband for 5 years, we have 2 amazing kids. In the past, I believe he has cheated on me several times, I could never get over it then though he hadn't admitted to it. I know in my heart he has, I had reliable sources. Any...

The love of my life has been online cheating. I've never felt sadness like this before. Please help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

24 September 2011 (M) - Last night my heart was broken. I found out the girl that I planned to marry and live happily ever after with, has fallen for some online with someone else and spends hours each day flirting with and getting emotionally close with him. I'm in shoc...

Should I leave this guy or should I stick with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - i have been going out with a guy for past 9 months and has fallen deeply in love with him. last month he went to thailand on a holiday and it was his second visit to thailand. he wanst going out with me when he visited thailand for the first time ...

Who has been cheated on? Reply here please.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

24 September 2011 (M) - Has anyone overcome the pain of being cheated on? What can you say about that journey to trusting men again and loving someone new? Before your recovery, how did you treat seemingly genuine men that came along who attempted to court you? Wo...

Emails and texts with sexual innuendo, should I be upset or is it harmless?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

23 September 2011 (F) - My fiancee lives with me. He sometimes sends emails to his ex girlfriends with sexual inuendos. Should I be upset about this or is it harmless flirting/banter. He doesn't tell me about the messages and I have asked that he does. I have also see...

Could my hubby be straying?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

23 September 2011 (F) - Hi everyone Me and my hubby are very close and still very much in love after almost 22 years...He is the kind of man that wants to hold my hand,always touch me and always tell me how how much he loves me.our sex life is better then ever before...

G/f complained about my penis. Is she cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

23 September 2011 (M) - my girlfriend recently started complaining of my penis size. Could this be the sign she is cheating on me? ...

I have a nice guy but after being cheated on by my ex I'm so jealous now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

23 September 2011 (F) - dear cupid , i am so confused that i thought about visiting a shrink , here is the issue ,, after breaking up with ex cheater " which i mentioned his story before" he cheated on me with my friend ,, someone appeared in my life his name is karim , ...

Husband has cancer but cheated on me when I was asleep nxt door with his kids

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

23 September 2011 (F) - well hello everyone i dont know were to start and i have never postd before i just dont know what to do, im a mother of 5 ages 11 ,7,3,2 and 8month old baby me and my husband have been togeather 16 years and we have had our problems alot actually ...

Married lover needs me but won't say he loves me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

23 September 2011 (F) - Hi,I am so confused with my married lover,we have been lovers for 5yrs he is 65 and i'm 60, he knows that i love him very much but i'm not sure if he cares about me as strongly,these last few mths though he has become more emotionally envolved with ...

If my b/f wants to keep in touch with his ex, its fine. If I want to do it, he gets really hateful! Why the double standards?

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22 September 2011 (F) - Here's the situation. Over the past year I've been having problems with my fiance texting his ex-girlfriends, some of the stuff inappropriate, and I told him how much it hurt me. So he deleted every girl's number out of his phone. (He was having ...

I cheated on him, now he wants me to pay

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hey! So, cheated on my bf and I know it was bad and all. So, please, please, please, no judgment. Trying to win him back. He says he loves me, but his trust is gone. Then he came over to my place tonite and tried real hard to have sex.I refused cos ...

For the ladies who have been cheated on or have divorced parents: how do u deal with a new guy in your life and what is your reaction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - This is directed at ladies who have been cheated on or have divorced parents. In a very broad sense, it is for those ladies who have been "broken'. I understand you ladies have a general disdain and cynicism when it comes to dating. My question is, ...

I honey-trapped my own boyfriend.....he doesn't know it was me and hes broken my heart!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - I am in bits right now.....really need some help. Ive been seing my long distant lover for 9 months. Hes in the army but we saw each other when we could. Latley he had become really distant from me though......his calls and texts became very rare ...

The reality of an open relationship is not so good

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hello - My husband and I have been married for 8 years. We have talked about an open relationship and I thought this was a good idea. I had sex with another man a couple of months ago. It was only one time and it truly was just sex. It was ...

My married ex's birthday is coming up, how do I wish her a Happy Birthday?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I had an affair with a married woman. It had been almost a year since we broke up. I didn't answer her call and reply her mail. I'm still single and I couldn't find a girlfriend may be cuz of my busy work. To be honest, sometime I...

Empty nest, trust issues, communication issues ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - I have been in a rocky marriage for 24 years, broke up last year for 8 months and returned to him. But now he is texting a woman that he admitted have a sexual relationship with. I confronted him after finding the text messages and now he angry at ...

Will marrying someone who cares about me help me forget my 31 year old married lover ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - well i am in love with a man whose 31 years old while i am early 20s, sadly hes married and has a child.so i want to get rid of him but cant.so i am thinking of getting married to someone.at least i will have a husband and a home with whom i ll sha...

I'm suspicious of what went on at this bachelor party

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend went on a bachelor party out of town for the weekend with his friends recently. He's already gone on a few of them before during our relationship and has always been good about communicating, even if it's just at the end of the night to ...

I texted lover to end end affair! Why doesn't he try to get me back!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - A few days I ago I posted about how I'd ended my affair. I'm thankful for the responses that I got but I text him to end it (so I couldn't get drawn in again) But he hasn't replied. Why isn't he fighting for me? I really thought he cared about m...