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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes: What do you think, I want to send my ex boyfriend this email..please help.?i want to send my ex boyfriend this email. broken up for 6 months and he has been playing with my head. telling me he loves me and coming to me when hes lonely.should i send this? is it good?''you say you don't want me but you would rather get with skanks than try and work it with a good girl.you don't even notice me, not even when i was with you, not once did you say i looked nice. like today is like i wasn't even there, you didn't give me the slightest bit of attention.but your friend did, he noticed how nice i looked and how good i smelt.it all makes sense to me now, you didn't like from the start. you've put me through so much, playing with my head, taking advantage of my feelings for you and i am all cried out. am not upset or angry or bitter anymore.you say you want us to be friends, but you don't deserve my time and my friendship. cos am a good girl, am not ugly, i have morals, i don't sleep around, i have a big heart and i know how to love a guy and make a guy feel good and any guy would be happy to have a girl like me. and i am going to give my time and my heart to that special guy that wants it.i hope you find a girl that will love you like i did.you cheated on me, .lied to me, dumped me and i think this is it. this is the closure that i needed and now i have it.have a nice life.''
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reader, blondie_1991 +, writes (1 October 2011):
I would say send it..I was in the exact same situation earlier on this year with an ex who played mind cames..long story short they tried again a few weeks ago and I did the same as you and sent them a message telling them exactly how I felt and that I wasn't ggoing to be messed about any more. for me it was the best thing i did as it gave me the closure I needed as now I know that he is fully aware of where I stand and knows what he did. Sending the message for me was defo a good thing so yes I would say do it. feel free to message me if you want :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2011): send it. I know someone who went through the same thing and never had the guts to say what you said and she mourns that every day.. while her ex walks all over here even while shes dating his friend..
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