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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (28 September 2011):
 The biggest one is going from having a sex life (average-good) to having no sex at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): Her behavior changes without explanation. She seems more aloof. She may even seem happier. She doesn't want you to touch her. She's always busy. Stuff like that. But really you don't know till you know. So try talking to her and let her know you feel insecure. That's all. See what she says.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 September 2011):
List below says all. Why do you think she's cheating, OP? What signs have you seen?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): Here is a list I found but I added reasons why it may not be the case as well.
-She detatches from your family and your friends, no longer wants to hang out. (If she also detatches form her family or friends, this could also be a sign of depression.)
-Nagging you all the time, nothing you do is right. (Or she may be controlling/perfectionist - basically is this a new thing or how she normally is?)
-She has a mysterious "friend." (I think this is a big red flag, personally.)
-She starts deflecting questions or gets defensive about telling you where she has been. (But if you alway accuse her of cheating she may just be defensive because it gets tiresom when you're actually not cheating.)
-You stop being a priority, she's always putting herself or others first but not you. (This is a big red flag.)
-Suddenly starts dressing sexy. (This could be a sign but pay attention if this is happening. She may be dressing sexy to get your attention back if things have become dull. If she only dresses sexy when going out alone but never at home for you, then that's more of a sign.)
-She becomes autonomous, saying things like "My plans for life are this," if she stops saying "we" that's not good.
-She is secretive about her schedule. (Again red flag unless a birthday/anniversay is close, maybe planning a surprise party... but life is not a sitcom...)
-You become irrelevent. You'll know if you become irrelevant. She won't care how you feel. She won't appologize. She won't care if you say, "Wow, that girl is hot, I'd like to bang her."
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