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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

This love just happened. How do I get over it? Why do I have to get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - How do I get over this. I am falling deeper and deeper in love with a women 26 years younger than I am. We met in graduate school and worked together for 10 months before she left for a fulltime position. The last day we worked together, just the...

I've caught him cheating 4 times but just don't have the courage to dump him for good!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i been together, on and off, for 2 years and 3 months now. so recently, i had this feeling that something wasn't right. so i went on his facebook and seen that he blocked our relationship from 21 females. not 1 or 2 but 21. i was so ...

I don't have the money for a counselor. How can I get my self esteem back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I got cheated on in the past and it has left me massively insecure. I don't have the money to pay for counselling. Any ideas how I can go about getting my esteem back? I have lots of friends and do lots of exercise - I don't hate my looks or figure ...

I just found out that she's cheating on me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - helo everyone i just found out now now that my girlfriend is cheating on me. my body is so weak right now. my heart beat has way way up. what should i do about this? the girl i thought i was going to marry....

He denies sleeping with her, but she is saying it is true!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I am four month pregnant with my boyfriends baby, I found Messages on his facebook suggesting he was doing something. I've asked him and he says he hasn't, I have asked her and she tells me that he has been seeing her and that they have had sex more...

Photos show my b/f dancing with a girl but he says he was drunk and doesn't remember!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years. He is 22 and im 18. he barley goes out with his friends out to the bars. so this past weekend i went to a club with my friends (oh btw we live 3 hrs away. so we see each other every other weekend.) anyways ...

Can a serial cheater stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I am seeking advice from men who have cheated repeatedly or other wives who have been married to serial cheaters. I have been married for 11 years and I have been able to prove and also receive confessions from my husband that he has cheated 5 ...

Husband left me for another woman. Is it just a rebound?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My husband left me three months ago for a much younger woman (he is 32, she is 21). I am devastated, we have four children together and it is heartybreaking that every other weekend they are staying at her house. (he moved straight in with her!). He ...

I'm his mistress and I want him to belong only to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - i am 22. he is 32. i am his mistress. he neither wants to leave me nor his wife. i want him to be only mine. i am always jealous of his wife and feel a kind of hurt. because she is alone he thinks his responsibility to look after them(family). now i ...

I cheated on my long term boyfriend, but I don't feel guilty at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - well... i've been in a relationship for almost 5 years, and so far, it's been ok... Lately we've been fighting a lot, mostly beacuse, even though we've been together for a really long time, he doesn't trust me. Sometimes it seems like he's the on...

My wife admitted to cheating, but she can't bring herself to end it with them!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - My wife and I had a loving marriage 8 years back. I love her very much. She is a very sexy lady and she has had a large number of admirers because of this. Now she is interested in them and sleeping with them when I am not around. When I caught her, ...

I think he loves me, but I feel like I'm just a replacement for his crippled wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I am married for 4yrs now, my husband works 800km away from home and occasionally comes home for a day or two, we have been friends with our neighbours for 2yrs. My neighbour and myself have grown close because he keeps an eye on me (safety sake) ...

I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. What is the best way to confront her without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. I do not believe it is physical yet based on the evidence I found, but I do know that she is very attracted to this guy. Should I lay all my cards on the table and ask her to...

How do I get over this break up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - how do i get over this break up?? my boyfriend of 7 months broke up wit me 2 weeks ago and i dont feel like its gettin any easier.. we have been friends for 4 yrs and he was chasin me for them yrs.. i didn give in because i was afraid of gettin h...

A choice between two people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi! I have sort of a dilemma, and was hoping I could get some advice.. I have been dating with person x for a period of 2 years now. It has been a very rocky relationship with lots of break-ups and problems the main being that he lives with his...

He played me, but I still can't get him out of my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I can't get this guy out of my head, he played with my heart for over three years, we became really good friends at first, he helped me with the bullies I worked with and he understod that I was shy and lacked confidence, I trusted him and after ...

How do I get over a married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids. I could really use everybody's advice. Can you tell me how to get over a married man I am in love with? I know it should never have reached this point but it did. I am a rational, smart and mature woman. I guess I just let my hea...

I'm worried my pregnant girlfriend is seeing her ex. Now she's not answering my calls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - Hi to all, I am not sure whether I am at the right place. I have this big problem. Me and my gf of 20 months are expecting a baby this days. We got in 2 arguments lately. She chat with her ex behind my back and she knew that I don't like that at ...

Do most infidelities go undiscovered?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi there. Some of you may find my question strange but here goes. What I would like to know is do the majority of infidelities go undiscovered? I am studying psychology and I am really interested in this subject and I am in no way asking this ...

Why would he lie about ending the relationship with this other girl if we were already dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend used to be in an open relationship when we stared giong but he told me he wanted to settle down and have a serious relationship with me, after he told me he had dumped her we spended around a month just dateing and he slept with two ...

Is this just a glitch in our relationship or should I worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4910 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hey, I need some help to work out how I feel about my bf - when I'm not with him, I miss him, and think how much I love him; but lately, when I spend time with him, I find myself getting bored and irritated, and I'm not sure if this is normal or if ...

I don't like the engagement ring he gave me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - My fiance recently surprised me with an engagement ring. He knew I preferred white gold, but got me a yellow gold one. I do love my ring, but it matches nothing I wear and with me being OCD I'm now having to get all new jewellery and accessories to ...

Last night I danced with a guy, I really like him... but I've got a boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I really need some advice for this problem. Ok so i have a boyfriend of almost 3 months now. Hes a great guy, whose sweet and funny and cute.(IRONIC i had ended with my ex to go with him, because my ex was being a jerk) However ...

My husband wont end his affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hi, i was hoping someone could advise me on my heartbreaking marriage. 3 years ago i found out my husband was having an affair, he swore he would give her up but he never did. Throught the 3 years ive found upto 30 secret phones - i bin them but...

How to break up with the woman I'm cheating with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I've felt been cheating on my wife for a few days now and I've just realized it is so wrong. I haven't done anything with the other girl yet. I just took her out for movie and coffee like 2 times. The thing is this girl is really into me, I'm scared ...

What am I supposed to do? Trust my ex or this creepy guy friend of hers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Everyone has heard the phrase love is not enough. Me personally I find it hard to believe that if someone says they love you and continue to do what they want that is not love. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe I was a little over zea...

Is it just junk mail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I need some advise I was behind my boyfriend while he was on the internet he went to his email and I saw all these messages from fling.com sayin firls wanted to meet him I couldn't tell if they had been read or not but he deleted all of the messages ...

I suspicious that he's cheating again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I have been dating a guy for awhile now. The relationship started off kind of rocky, as he was an alcoholic. We fought about this for a long time, but he promised that after his birthday he would stop drinking. I didn't completely believe him, but I ...

Am I in the wrong relationship? Or just a commitment-phobe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have been generally happy together and suit each other well (are told so by everyone around us). Even though I was the one to make all the first moves and then later asked him to move in with me, I go ...

I told my husband about my affair and now I know he will never be with me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - So I told my separated husband the truth about the affair I was having during the split. I believe that it help but I know I lost him for good. There is a pregnancy involved that happen from the affair.i dont know exactly how I feel about my husband ...

I don't believe a word he says but I still love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I need help!!! I have been datin my bf for one year now, 2 months ago i checkd his fone randomly n saw his bbm chats wif some chic n she was talkin about takin pills n being careful n he was saying he ddnt want to be a father, meanin they had sex, ...

People say once a cheater always a cheater, but considering we were on opposite sides of the world, is this different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - hi there Im feeling really insecure.Iv been with my partner for 5 years. He is from Germany I am from America.I met him when he came to university in america. As far as i was concerned our relationship was perfect and I wanted to spend my life wit...

On husband's laptop found 5 messages written to different women! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I Need Hlp Plz Don't Know what to do=(,,,, I've been married for almost 7 years I've been with mu husband for 11 Years.well I've been through so so much with him and put up with a lot from his family causing problems to getting involved in our marr...

I broke up with her Two weeks ago, so why is she still texting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - I'm not going to explain the whole story, because it's long, but I broke up with my ex two weeks ago. We had been together for almost five years at the time we broke up. We've been through break ups before, but this is the first time I've brok...

Would you ever steal someone else's boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I wanna make it clear right now--i DO NOT want to steal someones boyfriend. There's just been a lot of things happening recently and i was curious. So, would you or wouldn't you? Why or why not? And have you ever stolen someone else's boyfriend or ...

Please help me get my lover back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - I am married with 2 teenage children. For the last 3 years I have been having an affair with. Beautiful woman 20 years younger - I'm 44. This woman is the most amazing person Ive ever met. She turns heads were ever she goes, her personality shines ...

Whar are your views on divorce and committed marriages, is it right to be unfaithful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

27 May 2011 (?) - when married, there is a committed bond between 2 people, vows are taken into this relationship. Agreements are accepted and a journey with someone in your life thats to be fulfilled till death do both apart. But when 1 is unfaithful and n...

Do you think he is using me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hi I'm a 23 yr old woman iv been with my boyfriend for almost 3months he never calls me unless I ring him,he hardly texts too. Three weeks ago I tried ringin him contiously as he did not pick up my calls and rhe next mornin he dumped me. When I m...

If I am going to break up with my husband what things do I need to consider?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - If I am going to break up with my husband. What things do I need to consider? I think I have enough reasons to do it. Do I have to go to a councillor before I can see a divorce lawyer? I am not sure how this works. Why do I think I have enough r...

Should I try something gay? I do have a girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - Bi-curious's profile: I am having a big urge to have a gay sexual encounter. I have a girlfriend and she let's me watch gay porn nd gets turnd on by how I get turnd on so much by it. I've told her my fantasies and was a bit unsure about it but sed ...

Can anyone help me feel less cynical about love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Can anyone help me feel less cynical about love? With all the celebrities in the news who have cheated on their wives, and my own experience of being cheated on by an ex-bf after we'd been together 8 years, I'm wondering if anyone has a relationship ...

His wife found out about our texting and he's broken it off with me. I'm gutted and don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - am gutted ....im married,my husband is violent and moody but we have a 5 year old boy which is the main reason i am here,plus i have no where to go ,last october i started talking on facebook to a married man who i added thru a mutual girlfriend ,we ...

Should I invite this old crush home when my parents are away, even though I have a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, well here is my story.I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4.5 years. We love eachother so much and I am grateful of our relationship. We go out with our friends once in a blue moon but would rather stay home, cuddle and chill ...

My b/f is awfully attractive ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - so me and my gf have been going out for 5-6 months now...i have this best friend of mine and she is really attractive to me...we have been through a lot in the past 5 years...she is in a long distant relationship with her bf for 9-10 months now..she ...

How do I deal with being unable to see my boyfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - i haven't seen my boyfriend for 2 months because he fell out with his family and went to other relatives for a while. we called each other every day and i think it was ok but now hes moved closer to his aunty's and he has to go on a police tag ...

The girl my cousin is dating likes me! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - Today I found out my cousin's fling likes me and my cousin is really depressed and I want to talk to her about it, but I don't know how. I feel really bad because my girlfriend told me she liked me but I thought she was being paranoid. I also want ...

My ex cheated on my with his sister's ex girlfriend. Why does he keep in contact with her if he has no feelings for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - my ex bf cheated on me with hius sisters ex gf, he saids he has no feelings for her, but he keeps calling her and visiting her. why does he keep lying to me about seeing her? what should i do? i still love him....

I am in a committed relationship but in love with a man who lives far away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I met a man about 4 years ago and we spent about two weeks together. I absolutely fell in love with him, and he claims he felt the same way about me. But he lives on the other side of the country. He soon had to return home, and I found myself able ...

My GF thinks I cheat on her and is subjecting me to immense physical and mental abuse!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - hey guys n girls, longer story....help me.... im sorry if im not typing correctly to be honest im so depressed and sad. ok 3 yrs ago me and my gf got into a very big fight and she smacked me in my face then later she hit me with a bottle. I left h...

Could there be any tips or advice on how to get over my guy making out with a girl last summer on top of a dumpster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - So I am finally with the man of my dreams... We have had our ups and downs... good times and bad times.. and yet, we always managed to work things out, through communication, open mind and trust for one another. He's the first man in my life that I ...