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writes:My wife and I had a loving marriage 8 years back. I love her very much. She is a very sexy lady and she has had a large number of admirers because of this. Now she is interested in them and sleeping with them when I am not around. When I caught her, she admitted it but cant end the sex part with them. She says its just something to "pass time". What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, rocc  +, writes (1 June 2011):
To be honest this not even a marraige. Most wierd thing I have ever heard. I know people have cheated their partners etc, but not disrespected their husbands like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011): Why are you still in this relationship. Clearly your wife does not love you or should I say respect you. End the marriage she's not worth. She does not deserve to be with you.
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (31 May 2011):
 Get rid of her. Nothing more to say on the matter. Would it make any difference if she told you tomorrow "Ok, I won't have sex with anyone else other than you?"
You would still trust her?
Nope.
Goodbye sexy lady with lots of admirers... Not my problem anymore.
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reader, llifton  +, writes (31 May 2011):
 ha. pass the time. i'd tell her she can pass the time while hitch hiking the hell outta my home.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (31 May 2011):
 Pass time?? People take up hobbies to pass time, or get a new career, or travel. They do not cheat and betray the one they professed deep love to and shared vows of faithfulness and loyalty to.
What should you do? Well, you've already talked to her and she's not changing. Your only two choices now are to open the marriage and approve of her extramarital activies, or you can leave.
I'd say leave.
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reader, loveonce +, writes (31 May 2011):
 depends upon you,whether you can tolerate it(not coz you love her).talking straightforwardly this behaviour of her ,will poison the relation today or tomorrow..moreover she is taking it casually and you are not,indicates a huge difference of outlook towards a phenomenon called "cheating"..all what she did or does is a cheating to you..it also indicates that your sexual life was not as per her,if not unsatisfactory.if you will keep it in heart and move on..you will remain tense,thoughtful and overburdened coupled with anger and grief..Talk to her and as you do not like it ask her to stop it anyway..also monitor whether the person she is sleeping with is more financially sound or something..if she again says tht she cant..then it's again upon you...
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