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*ylove09
writes:I been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years. He is 22 and im 18. he barley goes out with his friends out to the bars. so this past weekend i went to a club with my friends (oh btw we live 3 hrs away. so we see each other every other weekend.) anyways he deiced to go out. i told him have fun because i trust him. i never go out. and we both don't drink. so when i told him my plans he asked me a lot of questions and accuse me of cheating at least he made it seem that way. so we both go out sat night. i hear from him the next day and according to what i saw on fb, he was super drunk and pass out in the street n his friends had all these picture of him passed out n throwing up. but before i saw a pic of him dancing with another girl. I felt hurt because i respect that i have a bf n don't go dancing with guys. i danced with the girls n solo. so i confronted him about this and he said he doesn't remember anything. so i sent him the picture and he was like wow i don't remember this. and he kept apologizing. im so hurt. what you think? should i forgive him?
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reader, mylove09 +, writes (8 June 2011):
mylove09 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you, this helped a lot
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (31 May 2011):
 He hasnt done anything wrong really and he has apologized, so there is no reason not to forgive him.
He obviously got very drunk and didnt know what he was doing, and it was only dancing - not like he kissed her or had sex with her or anything. Dancing is pretty harmless and he cant even remember it, so the best thing you can do is to just put it behind you and move on, and tell him to not drink so much next time!
It would be pointless to make an issue out of this, you have been together a long time and it sounds like this was a one-off rather than something that happens often. So forget about it, nothing bad happened apart from your boyfriend not being able to handle his drink!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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