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*ust_Me_16
writes:I need some advise I was behind my boyfriend while he was on the internet he went to his email and I saw all these messages from fling.com sayin firls wanted to meet him I couldn't tell if they had been read or not but he deleted all of the messages in his imbox. Should I be worried or is it just junk mail an I'm freakin over nothin?
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reader, just_Me_16 +, writes (29 May 2011):
just_Me_16 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI asked about it an He told me he thought it was just junk mail an he don't know what a fling is. I trust him. It just kinda got to me when I saw the emails.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): It's junk mail.A lot of these "dating sites" invite you to create a free profile but then they won't let you contact anybody else on the site unless you shell out a monthly fee. He probably registered a long time ago out of curiosity and then the spam never ended. I've done the same thing and that email account gets daily spam messages just like you're describing.Assuming he registered for the site before you were dating it really shouldn't be a concern for you. As for making the spam messages stop: good luck! Once you're on mailing lists like that it's pretty much impossible to be removed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): Sounds like something he joined, although he could have joined it before you met. Tell him you aren't happy about it and want him to leave the site.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): I've never heard of fling.com so I checked it out before answering. It would seem that in order to get email from them one would have to set up an account there. They didn't pull his address out of a hat.Considering all the free porn on the internet, if one is going to the trouble of setting up an account (free or otherwise), they are doing more than just browsing.I'd be concerned about this.
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reader, tonik  +, writes (29 May 2011):
 LOL lady, don't stress yourself about those kinda messages, they're just JUNK, I always get them all the time and I simply don't have time to look at them nor delete them. TRUST YOUR MAN. :)
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reader, kylieekristina +, writes (29 May 2011):
 Has he been on a dating site before? If he has then yes he could just be getting junk mail from other sites or the one he may have left, after meeting you, wants him back.....if he won't admit to that....I'd say he's lying about something!! Go to Fling.com and set up a fake profile with a picture of the type of woman he cant resist and indicate that she lives close to where you guys are.search for his profile on there, if he does have one, then see if he bites at your email to him from the phony girl, if he doesnt respond it's probally an old account. if he does respond well then you know what's up. if you can't find a profile on him then I'd say leave it alone. Are there any other signs that he may be cheating? Unaccounted for time etc. If not I'd also leave it alone
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