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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i am 22. he is 32. i am his mistress. he neither wants to leave me nor his wife. i want him to be only mine. i am always jealous of his wife and feel a kind of hurt. because she is alone he thinks his responsibility to look after them(family). now i cannot leave with hurting myself often. he did mistake first make me feel his love when i didnt want. now i want him a lot so why i only suffer that hurt. so i want to leave him. its more than 3 years now. give me suggestion how to leave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): It is very unlikely he will leave. You are an outlet for sex and to build his self-esteem. Tell him to take a hike and go find a younger, hotter guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011): I'm not going to judge but he has children with his wife leave him alone so he can take care of his family...I'm 21 and i still can't get over the fact that my mother left my dad for another man, and until this day i feel so disconnected with her cz i knew that they were fine and their life was great so there was no good reason for that!!
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reader, Tina turner  +, writes (31 May 2011):
You should stop been selfish and think about his wife and family
You prob started off as fun, now you got feelings but how long has his wife had feelings for? Stop hurting yourself and get outa it. Stop been selfish and demanding you want him for yourself, he was never oing to be yours!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011): You say he thinks his resposibility is to his family, well heres the crunch it is his resposibility. He and you consciencely got into an affair. His wife did not marry him and expect him to cheat on her with you. The injured party in all this is his wife and not you. You knew he was married so you should of backed off there and then.
Most married men wont leave their wives, believe it or not he will be loving the attention from you because even though he is married he can still pull the younger birds! You are there to stoke his ego when his marraige has become a bit dull. Remember that life with him probably aint a bed of roses for his wife.
Whose to say that if he left her for you he wont stop that wondering eye he has.
Let him be and find someone who can commit to you and you alone.
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reader, Jac2b55  +, writes (31 May 2011):
 As the wife of a man who left me for a woman you age (he is 32) i would suggest you leave as soon as possible.
Why you even started a relationship with a married man, i do not know!
All you (and this man) are doing are causing heartache for his wife and yourself.
He is using to fill his voids, and quite frankly you are using him for the same reason.
You will feel much more respect for yourself if you hold your head up high and walk away than if he dumps you for another mistress when he gets sick of you.
God only hopes there are no children involved.
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