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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How could he do this to me.....please help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - Me an my partner split up a about 3 weeks ago we were in a serious relationship, but had a big argument and he decided we needed a break. Said he still loved me but just needed time to think. I let him think an thought he would get in touch....... ...

Why can't I stay angry at my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, About a year ago I broke up with my girlfriend. We were together for about 1,5 years. The first years everything was fine, but in the last six months all of a sudden she felt the need to live the life of a single female, while ba...

Who is better for me? who will be better long term?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - so i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, it has been a rocky relationship from the start, so much cheating, he's cheated on me and i have cheated on him, but he changed and became a better person these last 7 months, but then about a ...

Why do my mates' girlfriends keep trying it on with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - This sounds like I'm being paranoid but about a year ago my mates 5yr GF told me she likes me to much! But I shook it of and blamed it on the drink then 6 months later we all got drunk at a party and I tried my hardest but we shared a proper intense ...

He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...

Does this married man think that I will be waiting for him forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids. I was involved in an emotional affair with a married man who has two children. I am married with one child. The affair was about to turn physical but he is the one who decided to walk away. I was severely heartbroken and devastated w...

My new boyfriend is really sweet and caring but I am in love with his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I've just begun dating a new guy. I'm 17 (18 in 1.5 months) and he's 22. I haven't known him that long, we've only been together for 3 months. He's a really sweet and caring guy and he makes me really happy. The only problem is that I think he is in ...

I'm over my ex, so why is this news making me feel so bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Me and my ex were together for 4 years and broke up 10 months ago, but he's been chasing me since then and told me that the rumours were true. He took this girl out and he told me that it was cos he can't say no, she begged him and she knew he had ...

Why does my b/f have pornographic photos of himself on his phone? Is he planning on sending them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Need help! I posted this question before but nobody replied after my update. Okay so I've been a worrier. And I worry not that my boyfriend will cheat but that he'll do something like send pics to other women. Especially since he's not that op...

Should I leave my boyfriend? If yes, then how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Hi Agony Aunt's, I need an advice about my relationship... its a little long but please every one i need help... :( currently i do not know what am i suppose to do at the moment... I am with my boyfriend it's being 2 years now, at starting it was ...

I don't know how to get the trust back into our marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I don't know how to get the trust back in my marriage! Not long after we made a committment to each other he rec'd an email from a woman he didn't know, who started flirting with him and making sexual offers; one thing led to another and he told her ...

I'm worried that my b/f will send photos to other women..I found a photo of his penis on his phone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Need help! Okay so I've been a worrier. And I worry not that my boyfriend will cheat but that he'll do something like send pics to other women. Especially since he's not that open with his phone He says he's always been honest and never sen...

Do I continue to keep quiet or do I confess all so he doesn't ruin his life by committing to a horrible cheat??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - I'm 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost 8 years. We love each other and are buying a house together. The only problem is I cheated on him when we were younger and it is really playing on my mind and making me question whether I ...

I want to stop feeling consumed by hatred for my cheating ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M) - how do I get past the hatered I feel for my ex now and is it even really hate? Basically we had been together for about two years and I really really loved her and she said she felt the same and to be fair to her she did alot for me. We ended up ...

Girlfriend can't explain why her phone was on and off. Suspicious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I were engaged just before Christmas. Then she went to Florida for a a trip to see her friend, Alexandra, a woman. Last night she calls around 7 and says she'll be going out but will call later. I tell her I may go to sleep earl...

I saw my boyfriend kissing another girl but I want to give him another chance. Any advice?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Sorry in advance if it's long and thank you for reading. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years. We're very serious and talk about marriage. Back in October we took a break because of the way I was treating him. I treated him horribly when he ...

How do I let go of him and move on with my life? or should I stay and fight for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, So here it goes...a year and 1/2 ago, I met my soul mate...online. I know this sounds very cliche for this era, but it happened. What seemed to be attraction and coincidence, I soon found to be a connection deeper than I had felt bef...

Was the whole explosion of feelings just a mind game?...what should I do? Continue to be in his life, just stop, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - So this guy I have had a "crush" on for three years told me on christmas that he cares about me and wants me. But he has a girlfriend who is manipulative (they have had a break in the summer because she cheated). And I told him that I have cared a...

I'm really confused. Do I stay with my BF or go to this other guy? And how will it affects the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Need advice please. I have been with the father of my kids for six years now. We have had our up and downs. We have even split up a few times and got back together within days. About 1 1/2 years ago I started my job unknowing at the time that this...

He can't have loved me like I thought! Is he a loser?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Me an my x broke up 3 months ago. I have never heard off him since. I did cheat on him, but i was drunk and it meant nothing. He changed his number. He cannot love me like i thought because he would have wanted to sort our problems out. Is it time ...

Everytime I tru to end the relationship, he tells me "I don't know what may happen in the future."

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 14 months lives with his girlfriend of 4yrs... Everytime I try to end the relationship he tells me i don't know what may happen in the future. What should i do?...

Why do I feel guilty - my boyfriend cheated on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for three years. I didn't think we had any problems,only trying life circumstances, but since he ended the relationship by cheating on me, I've found out he was unhappy. The thing that shocks me about the break up is that...

What do I do about baby daddy drama!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend/babies daddy ( of twins) and I are separating because he makes comments of me cheating when all I do is work come home take care of the family plus his other kids.I want to make things work out if we can but he wants nothing to do ...

Should I confront her about the pregnancy? Should I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - Hey, I been with my bf/baby daddy (father of twins) for 7 years ! He cheated on me with cousin and she claiming she pregnant with my bf baby but she slept with 3 other guys too. But they're denying the baby. But I dont believe she really pregnant ...

Just found out he has another FWB. Should I break up or continue with the little comfort he provides?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I just found out my friend with benefits, over 1.5 years now, has another fwb for a year going. It hurt and i felt used because i thought what we had was special. I am 40 and dont feel there are many options for me, and have settled for less. no...

I don't want to ruin Christmas for him, but should I be worried about the two of them??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - i need you to help me in my relationship I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months, but now i think he is cheating on me. My boyfriend and I are in a LDR, i know about the girl he has been in contact with at the same time. she is outsi...

Is my verbally abusive Bf cheating? Should I leave him? How do I stand up for myself better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I recently had twins a boy and girl and I feel my boy friend doesnt love me no more ! I DO everything for him I cook, clean, give him sex when he wants it , i take care of the twins i told him 'if you want to help me with the twin...

Should I trust him or leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - Hello, i need some advice fast. Where to start. A boy who's family and my family are very close to moved away a few years ago i saw the boy when i was 7 and so was he, then recently they moved back to our town he moved to our school i was the...

He contacts me to cheat on his girlfriend (while he's drunk) and when I ask for an explanation, he won't give one!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Okay.. So i had a thing with this boy, a while ago, but it ended. Now everytime he has a girlfriend or things end with his latest one he contacts me again, and its hard cause i still have feelings for him. Anyway he recently contacted me (drunk) ...

How long can a relationship like this last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Okay so there this couple and both of them are cheaters. The girls boyfriend has ask me and everyother girl he knows if we wanted to mess around with him and of course I said no even though I don't like her . And today I found that she's having ...

Might I be bisexual and should I tell my fiance about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I've been with my fiance for two years now, and I really love him. Lately I've been attracted to this woman at work. I've dated women in the past, but always thought it was just a phase i was going through. I still find myself checking out othe...

How do I keep his cheating from affecting our kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - my husband cheated on me, so many questions coming out in my mind, he said and promise me that its really over with d other woman but so many evidence coming out from d shelter keeps me in pain, what should and must i do in order not to affect ...

Found out my fiance has been cheating....should I go ahead with the wedding or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Im about to get married with my bf of 2years. Ours was a long distance relationship for a year as we are both working abroad. Communication had been constant, almost everyday we did get in touch. Never did i doubted my bf's love and sincerity ...

I don't know how to ask for anal anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - Me and my wife have a nice intimacy hot life, everytime, love, careless, so hot, so hot everytime we have it! She loves so much when i put my finger in her anus but when i try to have an anal intercourse with her she doesn't want it! Why she doesn't ...

Now that she's angry, should I continue following her father's advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - So my ex, who lives with me, broke up with me 2 months ago. She claimed almost a week ago she was confused and didnt know what to do, she told me she missed me and she didnt want to hurt me, she cried a little. The day after she told me the same...

My son would be heartbroken to find out his coach has been cheating with my wife, his mother!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - Dear reader, For several years I have been suspicious of my wife cheating me. Recently some things have happened that truly made me believe she was cheating on me. So, I launched my own personal Investigation with the help of the Internet I picked ...

Why cant my ex just forgive me for cheating on him? I regret my actions yet he's stubborn as hell

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - I know it's long, hope someone wants to read it though.. I really want to get back with my ex boyfriend who I had 5 years ago (at this time i was 15 and he was 19). He was my first love and I was his, we had a wonderful relationship and...

Should I proceed with the wedding after having been lied to and cheated on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - In 10months time i will be getting married to my 3years boyfriend. Our first year of relationship didnt started out well (it'll be too long for me to tell the reason as theres loads of it) and maybe probably because of his work as well as it ...

How to show her I'm not cheating? She won't listen to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) - I need help with my girlfriend I am in a desperate situation and I know many of you will just say to break up with her but I'm not looking for that I am looking for advice on how to fix our relationship Recently while I was on the phone with h...

I feel distant towards my boyfriend! Its getting worse, Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf for 2 years. Lately, as in the last year I have felt distant from him, and it gets worse everyday. When I try to sit down and talk to him he either gets mad and says he hears it all the time or he'll laugh and say he's tired ...

I have a gut feeling my girlfriend cheated on me last night, and possibly has been for a while. Am I just jealous or am I right to think so?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months. Last night she invited her old friend who used to be her drug dealer over to my home to watch a football game. Basically the three of us were just drinking and having a good time down in the basement. ...

Revenge cheating...will it help ?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) - i found out that my wife slept with someone while we were engaged a few weeks after we got married. It has been 5months since then and i have not been able to forget or fully forgive . Im heart broken . Ive become very cold and mean to her, ive ...

Would my husband's behavior indicate guilt? or that he's just tired of the same conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - My husband had been joining internet dating sites and chatting with other women and cheating on me behind my back for years before I discovered it and when I did he abused me and called me names and wouldnt tell me anything about what he had been ...

Hubby's clothes have body glitter on them...is this from another woman?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

19 December 2011 (F) - Three years ago right after having a baby, I found my husband's jacket that he wears everywhere (especially on business trips) covered in body glitter, on the front. He of course told me a female co-worked sat on it after he had thrown it on a ...

Had sex with my younger personal trainer who is in a relationship and now I feel totally used!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

19 December 2011 (F) - So after being a client for the last 5-1/2 months (he's my personal trainer, once a week) We started texting each other, then we starting sexting, sending pictures of our selves. He is not single, I am, however he is 17s my junior. We broke down ...

B/f was cheating on me with his best friend's sister and I'm afraid it will keep happening!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

19 December 2011 (F) - hi i just recently found out that the father of my kids was seeing somebody else last year i seen everything what they wrote to each other about them sneaking around and seeing this other woman mocking me askin my bf if my bf would take her to my ...

Would he cheat if he had a chance to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend are having some problems at the moment. he has been messahing other girls asking for nacked pics and chatting other girls up he says it werent him but i dont thinl i believe him. we have a lil girl together and thought we were ...

I messed around with my best friend's boyfriend when drunk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - i was with my bestfriends boyfriend and she knew we were together to go the mall and get her christmas present but i got drunk and his friends were with us and i messed with him in the backseat of his car, i cant tell my bestfriend and i dont know ...

I'm afraid my ex's gay relationship will confuse our 6 year old!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (M) - long made short, wife cheated with a women, thinks she's gay and we have two kids. (update) she has a friend a women that visits her a lot around the kids. my oldest like the women a lot. the women gives my oldest child little gifts question...

How do I break away from my abusive ex and stay away from him? He confuses me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - i have been with this man for five years, this is our second break up. what led to our break up was he started doing more drinking and smoking weed. he has never done this before. it seems like when we got back together for the second time is when...