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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Okay.. So i had a thing with this boy, a while ago, but it ended. Now everytime he has a girlfriend or things end with his latest one he contacts me again, and its hard cause i still have feelings for him.Anyway he recently contacted me (drunk) asking me to cheat with him saying his girlfriend doesnt need to know, and the next day when i asked him about it he avoided the conversation and wouldnt answer me when i asked him for an explanation. But i feel i need one! Should i ask again or just leave things?What should i do?!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 he was thinking with the wrong head...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 He was drunk, got horny and tried to hit on you because he does not respect you : I'd say that 's sort of self explanatory, what other explanation were you looking for ?...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011): I think the explanation is obvious: he wants sex so he calls you to get it because he knows you have a weakness for him. Then he blows you off the same way he would had you given in and had sex with him.
Stop responding to his drunken calls and see it for what it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011): Stop communicating with this loser!!!
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (23 December 2011):
 I am going to agree with Abella...
This guy doesn't have good intentions -- you are a booty call to him -- nothing more.
If you are looking for a loving relationship, this man is not going to deliver because his sweet-talk is all hot air.
You do deserve better and in the future, I'd avoid taking this man's phone calls. He is definitely not committed to his girlfriend and when / if you were to become his girlfriend, you'd always be worried that he'd be drunk dialing her when things went south with you.
Start the new year off right and find a man who's there 100% for you -- you won't be disappointed.
Merry Christmas
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reader, Abella +, writes (23 December 2011):
 I think it's time you took a break from this tactless cheating disrespectful guy. He's not worthy of you and the way he is treating you is appalling.
Please put him to one side and find a much nicer guy than him. You DO deserve better
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