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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other...The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to mine ( i live with my cousin) so my cousin and his girlfriend were here too, he bought the girls smirnoff ice and bought him and my cousin two crates of beer anyways...we had chats ect and then we went out and because he had a drink he kept falling and i was making sure he didn't fall completely lol all this itme his girlfriend was saying "he is not with me" cause he was falling but it was like a joke anyway we got back to the house and she left to go to a party so he stayed...when my both my cousin and his girlfriend was out the room he asked for a hug...later on when he wanted to go downstairs i said i would take him so he didnt fall and when we left the room he turned around and we pulled (kissed) and we kept doing it and i was like go but he was asking me questions like "have you ever shagged" ect....when we left the living room he went to my room (which is downstairs) and was like pulling me again and i was like come on back up stairs, we got up the stairs and he needed the toilet but like had the door open and turned around so i seen everything anyway...later on when he didnt know where he was staying he asked my auntie and she said yes and stright away he was like night and got a blanket and was sleeping on my bedroom floor but he ended up in my bed then someone came in and was like no so back on the floor....but though out the night he kept coming in my bed and we kept doing stuff...i didnt go all the way one cause he has a gf, two cause i want to be with someone first....also later on he got told to sleep on the sofa (at this time he was back on the floor) and he kept saying he needed a drink or had to get something to come and see me..anyway as he was drunk i thought like yeah okaii it is an excuse but in the morning when he came though (it was like 7am so noone was up) but i was...he was like yeahh got his stuff then we sat and spoke and he was sitting and i was standing and we pulled and we hugged....we pulled a few times and then when he got everything he headed out but we pulled again just before he left...the worst thing in all of this is :1. he is going out with like a best mate of mine2. he has another girlfriend but he is only staying with her because she i think is preg and he wants her to get rid of it (the otehr girl knows this)3. he was telling me he loved me and said he would dump my best mate for me 4. I actually really like him5. I have only told 3 people and only one of them knows him but doesn't speak to him, they dont know the whole story6. not alot of people know about his relationship thing7. he is meant to be coming over for new years eveI dont know what to do, i am worrying so much, even though he said that morning dont worry i am and it is getting to me :/ also we are both 16 so everything we done was legal but he cheated and now i get paranoid if some starts talking to me on fb or i get a notification or get a text :(what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso I forgot to add my mate who is going out with him has already cheated on him and she is 14...they havent done anything then pull
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (30 December 2011):
 Guilt is simply your punishment for doing something wrong, you know you shouldnt have got with a friends boyfriend so you are of course going to worry.Come on your 16 you should know that nothing good will ever come from getting with someone elses boyfriend, and if you didnt then you will by the time this is all over, and this boy is as much to blame as you are!Im sorry but he is 16 with 2 girlfriends and one is preganant and he cheats with more girls?? really? he sounds like a total fool and someone you want to avoid! Im sorry but from the story you told it sounds like he was just trying to get sex or anything similiar from you that night.If i was you i would totally forget about him in any romantic way and i would tell my friend but that is up to you, but do you really want your friend dating a guy you know is very willing to cheat on her?
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