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*aybaybay_x
writes:Me and my ex were together for 4 years and broke up 10 months ago, but he's been chasing me since then and told me that the rumours were true. He took this girl out and he told me that it was cos he can't say no, she begged him and she knew he had a girlfriend. He humilated me because he even called her in front of me to prove she was lying.If you look at my questions, they're all about how crappy he made me feel, lied, made me feel like I wasn't good enough.When we broke up, I was relieved because I found it to hard to let go but when I did, I felt like he didn't deserve me, although I knew this for a while, I felt happier and knew what I wanted.He's now asking me to let him take me out after admitting this...I feel like going and looking so great and smile at every guy I see. Let him know exactly what he is to me right now, nobody.I feel like I'm over him, I have no urge to call him, I don't miss HIM (I miss the whole boyfriend thing) I was over him even before the relationship was over, so why am I now crying about what he ha confessed to me? And shall I let him take me out and making him feel like the biggest idiot?
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reader, XOLoveOX +, writes (29 December 2011):
After hearing more information it does sound like you are genuinly over him. I had a boyfriend, we were together for 3 years on our third year anniversary, I caught him at a club (sober) with this GUY! They got a room and were about to have sex but I stopped it before it got carried away and demanded a explantion hi words were "I'm GAY OK G-A-Y! I THOUGHT I LOVED YOU, BUT IT WAS A MISTAKE WERE THROUGH!"
So we broke up and then a 3 months later we meet again he goes to me he really is i-sexual and wanted another chance, I gave it to him, and we got back together. 5 months late something similar happened, and then we broke up. Right now my current boyfriend kissed another girl but I decided to give him a chance and I'm so glad did. I loved both of these two guys but which one is your guy?
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reader, XOLoveOX +, writes (29 December 2011):
After mentioning that it does sound like you shouldn't go back to him. You're. Probably just hurt because when you see him with someone it isn't you and you think 'why her and not me?'
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reader, Kaybaybay_x +, writes (29 December 2011):
Kaybaybay_x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTake a look through my posts when you have time.
Even DearCupid got sick of me posting for advice on him. I defnatley can't go back. It wasn't just this one girl&he played into the hands of everyone that was knowingly jealous of everything we had.
I definately know he's sorry and he could be genuinely willing to change, but I don't think he deserves a second chance, at all. My darkest days were with him. I can't go back to that.
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reader, XOLoveOX +, writes (29 December 2011):
Have you ever thought deep down inside of you, you really aren't over him? But it could also be because of the break up. The fact that you were together for 4 years is impressive though. Look in the mirror and ask yourself, Do you love him? I hope you find the answer. Remember no matter what somebody has done they deserve a second chance. I think he needs it. But while you ask yourself if you love him? Ask him if he loves you?
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reader, XOLoveOX +, writes (29 December 2011):
Have you ever thought deep down inside of you, you really aren't over him? But it could also be because of the break up. The fact that you were together for 4 years is impressive though. Look in the mirror and ask yourself, Do you love him? I hope you find the answer. Remember no matter what somebody has done they deserve a second chance. I think he needs it. But while you ask yourself if you love him? Ask him if he loves you?
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