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I don't know how to ask for anal anymore!

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Question - (21 December 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2011)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Me and my wife have a nice intimacy hot life, everytime, love, careless, so hot, so hot everytime we have it! She loves so much when i put my finger in her anus but when i try to have an anal intercourse with her she doesn't want it! Why she doesn't want it anymore? I don't understand, she loves my finger but no sex? We did it two times before only! I've talked to her several times but claims the same reason, "just dont want it"!

SOmetimes i figure it out have this with a hooker! My God, i'm a monster!

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (24 December 2011):

AuntyAlexxmo agony aunt

If she doesnt want it then that should be enough for you! It might hurt or she may feel uncomfortable.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2011):

Probably because of one simple reason.

It doesn't feel good. If it doesn't feel good, then don't do it to her.

Simple answer, she probably did it before because she wanted to please you, but she probably doesn't find it sexy, probably thinks it makes you less sexy as well...really, what is so sexy about a penis with shit on it...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2011):

What's the big deal? She already has an orifice you can stick it in, what's so special about her anus?

Look she doesn't want it anymore, you're not getting it anymore from her it's that simple. How about you shove a dildo up your ass and see how you like it.

"SOmetimes i figure it out have this with a hooker! My God, i'm a monster!" You're not a monster, you're a baby throwing his toys out of the pram for something that really doesn't matter. Grow up OP, we all have things we won't do sexually and it doesn't matter if we've done them before.

Sex is hot when you have it and that's not enough for you? You need split open her ass aswell? Stop this.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (21 December 2011):

CindyCares agony auntOP, have your wife insert her finger in your anus. Then , have her insert her dildo in it.

I think you'll find the answer you are looking for.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (21 December 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntshe doesn't want more than a finger because it's LARGER and it HURTS....

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