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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He cheated with a coworker, how can I trust him around her every day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - So, I am in a relationship of over 7 years with 2 kids, and we went through this situation when he cheated with this girl from his job. i don't know how far it went with her honestly, other than a make out session at work. now i moved on from this ...

I feel very lost, please help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - I need some real help. I feel so lost. I went through a separation from my wife a while back. During which time I had an affair that was the biggest mistake of my life. I invested all my love into the wrong person. This person broke my heart into a ...

He's gone most of the time, I'm ready to leave. Thoughts??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 12 years now, during that time we broke up 3 times cause he had cheated on me, and yet i still took him back cause i love him or so i think i do. Im 31 years old now and we have one child together and another one on ...

B/f got another girl pregnant, he keeps contacting me and its driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - i found out my boyfriend of over 4 years was sleeping around. i moved out and said i needed some space. in between that time he was still seeing another girl he forgot to mention and she called me to tell me she was his girlfriend when i ...

Is my husband's relationship with his co-worker appropriate? Or am I over reacting?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I am 61 and my husband is 68. For the past year he has had a close relationship friends he says with a co worker. He lies when she calls because he knows I think it is inappropriate. He hides her number in his cell phone and on one occasion ...

I don't know how far my BF has gone with this other girl, but its killing me. HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I'm devastated. I have an LDR of 3.5 years and we were going to meet for the very first time in July. He went out two nights ago with his cousin and his cousin's girlfriend. His cousin's girlfriend's feelings fluctuates from hating to lovin...

Should I stick by my GF despite her attitude or should I not bother and go with a relationship that I feel could work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, First off let me set up the situation for you. I have been with my girlfriend now for over 4 years. It has been a rather rocky relationship. a few years back i broke up with her because i felt it wasn't what i wanted. I didnt do anyth...

Why am I only good enough to be the "other woman"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Why am i only ever good enough to be 'The other woman'? A and B are two guys i have met at different stages of my life who have both turned me into the same person - when i am around them the strong confident woman i generally am disappears, and ...

I don't know how to feel, I have had proof that b/f lied and cheated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I have being dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and everything was well untill when i found out last year that when i was away to another country for a month he started flirting with another girl.When i got back he was totally changed and deep ...

Isn't it usually the girlfriend who doesn't want sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We just moved into an apartment together. We both signed the one year lease. While I still love my boyfriend, I'm having a few issues regarding sex. I love sex and while I woul...

Cheated on husband, now want him back?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hullo there, I am a married woman with a 2 year old son who doesn't know what to do next. The thing is I cheated on my husband two times and I was caught out by my husband. I truly love him and badly need him in my life. He was angry at first, but ...

My b/f found out about my chats, phone calls with co-worker and broke off with me. I don't even know how he found out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Ive done a really stupid thing and now its gotten out of hand, and i dont know what to do,im 26 and have a boyfriend.About 2 months ago a male work colleague and I started talking,then hanging out,then swopped phone numbers, and started ...

Sex once a month isn't enough for me and I'm afraid I may cheat!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - HI, I have been in my relationship for 4 years and we have an 18 month old daughter, however my sex drive has become very high over the last 2 years and my partners is quite low compared to mine. I find myself feeling totally unsatisfied with the ...

Why did he hurt me like that? I thought he loved me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Why would he wanna hurt me so bad? it really hurts:(? My ex boyfriend had a one night stand with a girl at a party and was sleeping with another for 2months all the while I was with him. I loved him so much, was a good girlfriend to him, I ...

G/f dumps me every year on my birthday!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - im 26 tomorrow and have never felt so alone and unloved im an extreamly caring person and have a big hart i would say im attractive stocky in build blue eyyes dark hair around 6ft. My ex finished me 2days ago for the 3rd time 3 years on the tro...

Should I really consider having a fling with an unhappily-married woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - I am having a real struggle with my conscience and really need some advice. I have been single for over a year after a break up of a 10-yr relationship. I have found dating hard because I don't want kids. Anyway, last weekend, I met someone who ...

How do I confront my husband about his cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I've been married for four years and just found out he's cheating. It really breaks my heart because I think we are doing ok and he doesn't complain much. We have 2 kids. How do I confront him? I don't want to talk to the tramp his dealing with I ...

I think I like this other guy more than my boyfriend, but he keeps letting me down! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hello all :) I'm sorta of having a problem. Here we go; I have a boyfriend who is such a great boy. He's lovely and is always there for me. I don't think i could ask for anyone else better. But see, that's just it. Last week i went to a party and ...

How can somebody can talk to you the sweetest words on earth and dump you only a few minutes later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I'm really confused and would appreciate every bit of help in understanding my current situation. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. Things were never easy between us, as he was still in a dysfunctional (as I thought) relation...

I have desires to cheat on my husband. I don't want to feel like this and he doesn't deserve this!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I don't know if I should have ever gotten married. Marriage was never something I strived for in life, but when my husband (then boyfriend) asked me to marry him, I was very in love with him and very happy so I said yes, even though I didn't really ...

Text messages on girlfriend's phone have me upset!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

27 April 2011 (M) - ok so i wanna know if im over reacting i picked up my girlfriends phone last week and saw a couple of messages.. from guys but i'm not sure if they are ex boyfriends of hers or not but what got to me the most was they were sending kisses and she ...

I think b/f is cheating and chatting online

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - i have a gut feeling my boyfriend is chatting on chatlines and talking to other girls. he alwas says i am rejecting him,and whats wrong...did i do something wrong.never tells me his work schedule,says he is always working or sleeping r these red ...

Should I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - So..I am in a same sex relationship. My partner and I have been together for 10 years. 4 years ago she had an emotional affair with someone and without going into the full details, she ended any communication a year ago and has been suffering f...

Should I Be Angry At All His Lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Last Summer Of 2010 i discovered 'Dating Sites' . Over A few Months i got into Contact with an American Man Who was working with politics etc we Spoke For Months And I fell in love :) he came to ireland in autumn and asked me to meet him i was ...

He talks to other women...what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I found my husband has been talking to a lot of women. He has started hiding things better now that I found out he slept with one. He mashed up his cell phone because he didn't want me to see who was on it. He even went as far as changing the ...

After I moved thousands of miles to be with him he cheated on me with my co-worker!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I don't know where to turn. Six years ago I met a man online, after talking for over a year online, I went to visit him and fell in love. I packed my things and moved from Pennsylvania to Alaska for him. I gave up everything adn our life together ...

I have this sense of guilt like I cheated! Have I done something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - Early in my relationship, my girlfriend and I just were very honest about our past sexual history. Probably for most, too honest. Through all this, I admitted to her having slept with a friend of mine, at a time when we were both single and it ...

How to prove that I am innocent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - We know each other from 1 year. we were in physical relations, but now he thought that I cheated him, actually he got a CHAT history from my mail account, but it was not made me, but i fail to prove that, so now we are not in contact, I tried lot to ...

I'm pretty upset and I feel used. How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - This guy (i'll call him "B") and me quit talking for six months and the other night he showed up saying sorry for it all amd wanted for to forgive him. Well, i did. He said never meant to stay out of my life that long and the whole entire time he ...

Emotionally sick after going so much, please, how can I be strong and be happy again when I feel otherwise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - The past year has been a rough one. I was in love with this guy and he left me for my best friend and then broke our friendship apart. Then in December one of my really close friends commited suicide unexpectidly. I try to forget about everything ...

My boyfriend has made a fake account on facebook so he can speak to other girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Hi there, i have just found that my boyfriend has created a fake facebook account to speak to other girls. Hes denying it and saying he doesnt know how it happened... Weve lived together years, Im heartbroken scared to leave him and scared t...

Parents divorcing and my brother is acting strangely now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4977 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - @ weeks ago my parents got unofficially divorced, and it's been hard on everyone, considering the cause of it was my father cheating on my mother. It's hard to watch my mother go through this pain. My father feels terrible for what he has done. My ...

I had an affair. My husband forgave and now that I'm no longer cheating, I can't decide if my husband is "the one." The indecision is killing us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I have been married for almost 16 years now (together since high school). I had an affair for just over a year. We broke up last summer because of it but got back together. I continued to cheat with the same man. My husband recently found out ...

I'm not buying my boyfriend's strange behavior and excuses, but should I just let it go for awhile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm having a problem and I'm not sure what to do at all so any advice or thoughts will be greatly appreciated. So my fiancee whom iv been with for five years and that I live with did something very suspicious tonight. Before I begin ...

I am living with a married man and pregnant with his child...but he is still hiding me from his wife and family!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I've been living with a married man for more than a year and now i am pregnant and about to gave birth on May. Although we are living together,he did not yet end up his relationship with his wife who has an 8 years old daughter with him. He ...

Will a married man cheat if he is truly happy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - Will a married man cheat if he is truly happy at home. As cheating I mean carrying on a emotional and physical relationship for over acyears?...

Can I win him back? Or should I not try? My ex flirts more with me than his Gf

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - My best friend is also my ex boyfriend and we are still in love with each other. He has a girlfriend, but he sees, talks, and flirts with me more than her. As a matter of fact, they NEVER see each other... well, today I told her that I think I ...

He as done a terrible thing to me so why can't I just hate him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - My husband had an affair with my best friend and is now in a relationship with her. I am absolutely devastated not only for myself but for my baby boy who as only been seeing his daddy for an hour or so a week. He say's he wasn't happy and he ...

My wife had a one night stand

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - hi my wife had a one night stand when we where enganged six yrs ago, but has being faithfull so far now i feel like cheating on her because am hurt. am just thinking about it. am not talking to her how can i forget she did it with our family frien...

My ex never gives me the answer that I want!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Why does he always do this? am really hurt:(? ? ? Whenever I speak to my ex boyfriend and I ask him why he cheated on me, lied to me and dumped me, he gets defensive and angry and never give me the answer that I want. He gets angry and makes me feel...

I still have sex with my wife even though she is having an affair. Is this letting go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - Is this what letting go means? My 42 year old wife is about a month into an affair with a man 25 years older than her. I have seen their email correspondence and the level of emotional attachment is unbelievable. This whole thing hit me out of th...

Husband left me for another woman even though he knows shes no good!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - This is an SOS call, I feel like my heart has been smashed into a thousand pieces. My husband has left me and now I feel I have lost my best friend, my sole mate and my lover :o( We've been together 6 years and married 2 years on 3rd May! Sum...

He has cheated on me at least 6 times but still I am with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Im so stuck. I feel lost and heartbroken. And im really uncertain of what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. I have always been faithful to him. Completely stopped talking to other boys infact to make him feel better. Although ...

How do you know when your bf is cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - How do you know when your bf is cheating on you? Everyone says you can tell. Im just not sure, or if I am just being too suspicious. My bf keeps telling a few white lies about where he is at but I have found out where he is at and who with and I kn...

Should I take him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - i found out my husband was having an affair when he left his telephone out for me to check and saw texts from other woman. i was shocked and he packed his stuff and left that night to stay in her spare room as a lodger. Two days later he regretted ...

Has this all started at the wrong way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4991 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - I've know this guy for 2.5 years by now, but nothing had happened between us until 1 week ago. he is married with a 1 year old daughter, and according to him, their marriage life is no longer what it used to be and they have separated bedrooms. He ...

How do wives know when their husband is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - As a wife, how can you tell if the husband is cheating you?By checking his things? Reading his phone messages? ...

Should I just move on so that she can too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

23 April 2011 (M) - I've made a mistake; what hope do I have? It's a tricky situation. I was seeing two girls, but only one (who was a close friend before) knew about the both of them. About a month into seeing the two of them, I decided to go for one who knew and...

After 1 year, the break up still hurts tremendously and now I find out he's getting married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Please, tell me I didn't make a huge fool out of myself. As of today it has been 1 yr. since my ex fiance and I broke up. Shortly after he ended it with me after 7 yrs. together he became involved with someone else. I never had a clue what was ...

We broke up, he's with her, how do I move on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - 5 weeks ago I found out my husband was having an affair with my friend who was also my bridesmaid at our wedding!! We have a 9 month old little boy. He is in a relationship with her and as been since we split. I am absolutely devastated, he as ...