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writes:As a wife, how can you tell if the husband is cheating you?By checking his things? Reading his phone messages? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): I found out I was having twins just before xmas 2008 and things just seem to change overnight. My husband started making up stories, being very protective of his mobile phone etc. At first I thought he was just dealing with our news. I was 25 he was 27 at the time. Then things got worse, working late most nights, taking overnight bags and leaving them in the car "in case he ever had a late meeting". Things just got worse and worse until I was almost crazy with paranoid thoughts, my self esteem went through the floor.To cut a long story short, I searched the internet for answers, was it me? Was it just a man thing? God knows what goes through your head sitting here waiting for him to come home all innocent. He was clever though, and yeah always 1 step ahead. The best advice I can give is DONT BLAME YOURSELF! It's easy to go nuts when you do that. I confided in my mum for support which was a god send really, I began to actually hate him. How would I pay the mortgage, bills? Our twins? I am waffling sorry.Just be strong, and get one step ahead of him :-) My mum wanted to confront him straight away, I wanted to find out one way or the other, but after searching and many hours researching we decided to use a surveillance company to either confirm or deny our worse fears.He was having an affair, with a woman older than me at his place of work. I hate him sooooooo much. We ended up with photos of him and her having a meal in a restaurant then going back to her house for 2 hours. He told me he was at a conference in Leeds- He was in Brighton with her!I hate him. We are divorced now and I am finally getting over him- but I feel for you. The pain and the anguish hurts still today.Sorry if I have waffled.I used http://www.discreetsurveillance.co.uk
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): If you suspect,there must be something you are picking up. Ask him outright.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011):
dont want have sex with you
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reader, lakers_lover09  +, writes (23 April 2011):
No one knows a man better than his mother or his wife. So check for a change in attitude . Workin late all of the sudden or finding excuses to leabe the house? Dressin to impress more often? Doesnt want sex ? Doesnt leave his cell phone layin around for fear of u checking? These are some of the most obvious.
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