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writes:ok so i wanna know if im over reacting i picked up my girlfriends phone last week and saw a couple of messages.. from guys but i'm not sure if they are ex boyfriends of hers or not but what got to me the most was they were sending kisses and she sent them back?am i over reacting ? because i got upset.thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, jodieleigh +, writes (28 April 2011):
 well .... why dont you trust her?you are over reacting... if she wanted those guys she wouldnt be with you she would be with them. its not like you dont have any friends that are girls? and maybe she does it to annoy you because of your friends which are girls...my fiancée knows this girl jackie that textes him but i do trust him so i dont read into it as much..
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reader, TommyTwice +, writes (28 April 2011):
TommyTwice is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks for the advise all 3 of the answers seem similar so will see how things work out
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reader, person12345  +, writes (27 April 2011):
 It's OK to keep an eye on it, but I wouldn't read too much into it. Sending hugs and kisses at the end of a text is very normal, especially if they signed it that way it can just be polite/friendly to reciprocate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): i can see why you would be upset but the others have covered it if it's inappropriate be worried bu i'm guessing it's just kisses and hugs etc. i send it to guys all the time but it's only the ones i trust and feel close to so it's really nothing
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reader, YouWish +, writes (27 April 2011):
 Nah, I wouldn't get outright upset, but I wouldn't forget either. So far, she hasn't crossed the line and disrespected your relationship. Yet.
Now if they were saying things like "I love you", "I miss you", anything sexual, or anything regarding seeing each other when you're not around or her talking about being with him when you're not there, then you should get upset.
Personally, I wouldn't ever tell another guy "kisses", but I'm just not foofy. And, I don't know a lot of guys who sign something with "kisses".
Bottom line, *she* is the one you should trust.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 April 2011):
 Yes, you are over reacting. Sending kisses and hugs at the end of texts is just common place for some people. We get people who post their problems here who sign them with hugs and kisses. Don't read too much into it and stop looking through her phone.
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