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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Do I cut him off? Try to ignore his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have a some what complicated dilemma. Me and a guy friend were fwb i suppose you'd call it for maybe 6 months or so, this was last year and it also ended last year as he got a girlfriend but we agreed to stay friends. Basically a few months ago we ...

He's leaving the wife!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...

My girlfriend had sex with another guy because of me!! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for almost 1 1/2 years, i got real drunk, some girl jus had 100% intention on doing everything with me, i barely spoke to her the entire night. I still dont know to this day why i followed her up to her room. We had sex. My ...

Wife's sexual habits have changed, does this mean something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - My wife has always been very conservative in the bed, but lately she has done dirtier things in the bed and I don't know where she gets the ideas from. She deepthroats, she spits on my tool when going down, she asked for a facial the other night, ...

My boyfriend is expecting twins with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Me and My boyfriend have been together for 6 years we had a falling out last year due to his craving for woman and his dishonesty so we broke up for three months and than got back together needless to say we are about to have a baby girl. Just ...

In a relationship with a wonderful gorgeous man but might have screwed up our future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a wonderful gorgeous man but I might have screwed up any future for us. I was gone on a trip for my internship for a couple of months. I ran into my boyfriend's ex who told me that my boyfriend was done with me because he ...

My gut says she is hiding something

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Ok so im somewhat seeing this girl latetly she has been going out and drinking a lot she has a lot of guy friend and everything plus she is still inlove with her ex. she allways seems to treat me like crap after she sees him and its like she is ...

I feel he is not making the effort

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi I've got a problem but I don't know if its my own doing and I should just accept it or he's using what happened to punish me. I've been going out with a guy for 3yrs we were engaged and even talked about children but I've got trust issues f...

How will I ever regain his trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Ok, so I really messed up. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. Needless to say we have had many ups and downs over the years. Recently I began talking to an old friend who I used to have feelings for and have slept with. I know he has f...

She's married and unaware I love her! What can do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I am in love with a woman who is married I have known her for about 7 years she was single when I met her but had no feelings for her she has been married for only 4 months and about 5 days ago I had a dream about her (I won't say what happend in ...

Woman says she is pregnant with my husbands twins!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Ive been with my husband for ten years we have three kids together ages 3,4,8. and he amitted that he cheated on me with his manager . He said he slep with her three times he claim he dont remember when because he was really drunk and she agreed ...

Why can't guys let go of the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a yr and everything was good well at times it still is to a certain point. he has been tryng to deal with my pass. i had cheated twice on my ex husband. and he has such a big prblm with that he calls me names he says ...

I told my online boyfriend's wife about us but he came back to me anyways!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I had an online affair for almost 5 yrs with a 69 yrs old married man. We did not meet personally but had a huge fight for he plays with women in net and flirt and he had a gf where he met personally here in the Philippines. A year ago we had ...

Is it just passion? Or true love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 16yrs. To a very nice man. We have 4girls 25,15,13,10. We have drifted apart and I have started seeing another man who I have known from school. I'm confused on what to do. stay or go. i would loose out on my house car and ...

I'm not sure if this relationship is right anymore. I want to trust him but I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I have caught him twice chatting girls up online before and after we got together. Last time when I confronted him, he promised me that he wouldn't do it again and he ...

He is thinking of leaving his wife for me, but I'm worried he may only be leaving because he thinks the grass is greener on the other side....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Ok, it's best to start at the beginning. I work with a guy who is 15 years older than me, have always had a soft spot, and the room kinda lit up when I saw him. I hadn't realised that (2 years down the line) he had felt the same as me. He is ...

Is he making a fool out of me or is he telling the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - okay my boyfriend cheated on me before and he was acting all funny, so i checked his phone records and saw this number all the time coming up, so i rang it and a girl answered, so instead of saying it to him i checked his record so i dumped him. we ...

I cheated on b/f with his brother but now I want him back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Dear cupid,i realy need your help becouse iam lost,i had a boyfriend of one year and we where so happy until i cheated on him with his brother ,he found me in bed with him,he broke up with me and i continued dating his brother,after a couple of ...

I think about my ex every day, I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 3 years. I love my husband... a lot. Our marriage has been nothing but a fight for survival. I never thought I would ever be thinking this but I wonder if I married the right man. I am still in love with my ex. I have nev...

I am tempted to cheat on my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - First of all this is a gay relationship, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months, and we are living with eachother, I am currently going to college and he is working. I love him with all my heart! We make eachother laugh about anything...

Has my lover replaced me for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 7 years. Not in love any more! I have recently being seeing a married man for 3 months, neither one of us plan on leaving our spouses for the other. Even though I am trying to figure out how to get out of my marriage. My ...

I've done everything I can to make him happy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hi me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and half years and we have 2 kids together. i recently found out he cheated on me with his ex not too long ago, he tells me he was drunk and it didnt mean anything but he slept there also so i dont ...

Seeing a married man but love my partner too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hi there, I wanted people's advice. I have been involved with a married man for about 4 years on and off, though we haven't had sex for 2. We get on so well, and have recently got back in contact again after a break. We get on so well, and we...

I feel incredibly disrespected and am not sure how or if to move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I can't shake what happened between my ex bf and I over the summer and am unsure of what to do. The month of March was really rocky for my boyfriend and I. We had been dating for 4 years and a lot of stress was coming to a head. I was graduating...

Falling in love with my brother in law

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - i'm 38 years old and i fell in love with my brother in law who moved with us recently, my husband is always travelling and doesn't have much time for me or my kids, who became really attached to their uncle, he is much younger than me and passing ...

Should I approach him saying I saw it and ask if that was the first and last time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - I've posted previously about finding pictures of my bf and some other guy on my bf's spare phone that I needed to use, and came across that.. when my bf gave me the phone he commented saying enjoying snooping around where your nose doesn't belong. ...

How a crush destroyed my marriage.....what is your opinion?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

28 September 2010 (?) - The excerpt below is a series of narratives I wrote 2 years ago after I developed a life-changing crush on a woman. Since then, this woman moved away, I lost touch with her, I fell away from my wife and had an affair (with a different woman), my ...

How do I find the strength to leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles I really hope you can help me. I have been in a relationship for close to three years now and for the duration of it I believe my partner has been cheating on me with different women. Back in March something wasnt right so b...

I cheated on him with his brother, then he found a new girlfriend but came back to me.....and now he it seems he is cheating on me with his ex! Where does this leave me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Dearcupid,i had a lover of one year and i cheated on him with his brother and he dump me,after a year i found that he has a girlfriend of nine moths,they had a misundrstood and she dumped him,and i startd dating him again.they have been separated ...

I'm horrified I have let it get this far when we are both in relationships, but part of me loves feeling cared for again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I'm... In a bit of a pickle. I have recently moved in with my boyfriend of about 8 months, and thought everything was cool. I even went out and joined a local community group. There, I met this guy. He's kind, caring, likes giving hugs, compliments ...

What can I do to get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hey My partner and I have been together for almost three years now, but after our first year together he cheated. He broke it off wth me long after he did this but didnt actually tell me had done it untill a friend of his told me. We got back toge...

I'm heartbroken! I found naked pics of him and a guy he was texting to on his phone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - My phone got damaged on holiday and my bf gave me his spare phone to use temporarly so I put my card in his phone. Needless to say I was browsing the phone to see if anything from my phone's memory card was saved, and I came across a few mes...

I want my lover's wife to know about us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - hi i would like to know how to get y lover's wife to find out about our affair without her knowing it is me he's having the affair with. I don't want him to know either. the reason is the more unhappy he is at home the more time he coes to me. ...

Cheated on and he got her pregnant!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for about six years and I found out that my boyfriend had cheated on me about six monts ago. I forgave him for what he did because he confessed, but he also included the fact that the girl is pregant. So im furiated at ...

Someone told me he cheated and there was a condom wrapper on the floor.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I am going crazy out of my mind. I have been scared to ask anyone for their unbiased opinion because I fear that I may come off as a nutcase, but here goes nothing... In April 2009, I began dating a guy who I'd known since I was 9. We were separ...

Does he deserve this last and final chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Long story short, the guy who i dated for a year and a half wants a last chance. Btw hes 20, if that makes a difference. He was the one who i gave multiple chances too and every time i did he would take advantage of it. He knew how much i loved ...

Is there a scandal here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I've used this site before and found it really helpful so here we go again. I have been with my partner for eight years now and he's great to me a really nice guy. Two weeks ago i met someone while i was out a friend of a friend ans he was real...

She kissed him, so he says. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid.... I'm dating this guy who I realy like...we have been dating for 4 months...we broke up after the first 3 months...and dated again... then we broke up, because he kissed another girl in a club...but he said that it wasn't his fault...

Why is he cheating on me with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Dear cupid,i have a boyfriend of one year and six month. we never had sex i am still a virgin, his cheatin on me with his fomer girlfriend who cheated on him with his little brother. i dont know what to do. is it possible that his triyin to hurt ...

Why is my boyfriend pushing me away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now.I wouldn't say that it is true love yet.He is very down to earth and understanding material.At the beginning we were very sexually active,in fact i met him through a 'one night stand'.I'm not denying ...

Is this a lost cause??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - For the past several months, I have had an ongoing "thing" going with a fellow colleague. We are both Senior Managers, both married, and yet whenever we meet, there is a clear spark. The way he looks at me is unsettling, and I find myself also ...

Husband texting girls saying iinappropriate things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi , im 33y .I'm married for 8 y now. i have 2 kids. i got married from a nice person who loved me since Highschool . After we get married i really loved him alot . but recentlly he changed alot . he starts to go out with his friends girls and boys ...

Pathetic cheater (posters own title)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Hello Ladies, I guess I am looking for your advise. Would you want to know? I caught my sister inlaws husband cheating. I have to work with him in a family business. He is a senior member of his church and the person he is cheating with was once the...

My girlfriend's kids were fine ... until I saw an old picture of her ex and now I feel cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Im 29 and shes 27, her kids are 2 and 5. We've been going out for about a year, just recently i saw some old pics of her kids, herself and her ex, they were never married... I saw some pics of them playing in the park and christining ... ...

I don't know if he is interested or even it it WAS flirting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I'm feel as though I'm going crazy as I just can't get my martial arts instructor out of my mind. I've known him for nearly 3 years and we've always got on, but recently we've been talking more and he's getting me involved in the teaching side ...

I don't understand why he would cheat on his new girlfriend with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi I was in a relationship for 6 years with the father of my 2 year old girl. We split up last July through his choice. He believed he didn't love me because he kept looking for something else in other women, he kissed two girls during the last ...

Trust? I'm not sure what to think about this situation but I don't want to go down that road again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Major Trust Issue. Ok. So here is the issues. Yesterday my bf who i've been seeing for the last 4 months was arranging drinks with a girl that he has told me in the past that he is good friends with. The issue is that he messaged yesterday to...

Cheating with married man, why do I feel its all my fault?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I have been in a situation where-as-though I messed with a married man. My intentions wasn't to get seriously involve but I did. I was told he was separated and lived by his self but all that was a lie. He made it so believeable because he always ...

How do you trust a cheater?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - How long does it take to get over and trust the person you are with if they cheated on you? My bf told me he cheated in the first and second month of our relationship. I told him things arnt gonna get better over night even though he wants it to. ...

He says, how can someone who loves me so much run away so fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I am in love with a married man. We have been seeing each other for over a year now. I love him more than anything in the world. I want to be with him forever, but this is killing me. When I try to break it off, he makes me feel guilty. He ...