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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He cheated on me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - hey, i am 13 years old and i have been having problems with getting over my ex who is 16 years old... he cheated on me with a girl his age. my bff thinks its because i wasnt giving him what he "needed" if you know what i mean. is there any way ...

She broke off her marriage proposal, but still I feel insecure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - I've been in to seven year relationship with a girl, but year before she had a relationship outside our relationship with the guy in his office they got along very well and guy proposed her marriage, but maybe she realised that its not good and ...

Do married men ever leave their wives for the younger girls they are cheating with?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

31 May 2008 (?) - Do married men ever leave their wives for the younger girls they are sleeping with? in what circumstances. why? ...

Something happened while I was asleep. Should I end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - So i fell "asleep" on the couch while a friend was over with me and my girlfriend. I heard them talk about sex and then i heard masturbation noises. I woke up and the guys fly was undone. Then when i confronted my girlfriend about the whole thing ...

Is my girlfriend really cheating or is my jealousy out of control?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - im 19 and my girlfriend is 17 we have been together for about a year 1/2 the relationship was a lil rocky during the first year because she cheated on me and it was some really dirty stuff she did but im not going to go into detail anyway there's ...

Younger married man keeps coming back for more and I can't help myself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I've been having an affair with a married younger man (alot younger)for 18 months and he is always breaking it off but then comes back for more. I'm hooked on the excitement of the affair (the sex is just so so)and am more than happy to go back. I ...

He wont have sex with me should I seek it elsewhere?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a few years and we used to have sex a few days out the week if not everyday but now ill be lucky if i get it once a month sex or any type of affection and we have been arguing alot but still im not feeling loved im ...

Help-how do we stop his past fling from pestering us now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i just found out my husband had a short affair with a co-worker that was black mailing him i want to forgive him and we both want to move on with our 10 year marriage im scared and i don't know how to let go of all the crazy thoughts in my mind ...

Will I ever get over this and/or will I ever be able to trust him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for two years. It's been very hard. At the begining he got hooked on drugs (light drugs). He begged me to help im stop. I did, but I went through hell trying to get him off them. He became abusive verbally...

Do I cheat on my wife now that she cant have sex for medical reasons?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - DEAR CUPID I AM MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS MY WIFE HAD AN OPERATION ON HER BACK AND NOW SHE DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX SHE HAS LOST HER DRIVE BUT I AM STILL VERY RANDY. DO I SLEEP AROUND ON HER AND NOT SAY ANYTHING.SHE DOES NOT WANT ANY SEX ANYMORE PLEASE ...

I'm having trouble trusting him completely after he cheated. I know he's been in contact with her because I snooped! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my b/f for bout 7 years. he cheated on me 3 years ago, i found out we broke up and got back together. ive been trying so hard to trust him again but just cant do it completely. i check his emails and he doesnt know this, i feel bad but ...

Is cybersex classed as cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - when i was with my boyfriend i was having cybersex online with another man, is it cheating? ...

He left his wife and is now begging me to give him another chance, I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Last year i got involved with a married man at work, yes stupid i know, anyway it went on for a few months before he decided that he'd made a commitment to his wife and he should give it another go, so we broke up. However now he has left his wife...

My BF of 4 years constantly cheats on me and does not even try to hide it...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 yrs ( within this time frame has been unfaithful over 6 or more times that I am aware of) but within the last year has been faithful until 6 months ago, but now is in another side bar relationship with a married women, I also know ...

Why do women believe married men's lies? So many seem to fall for them

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - I have been reading through posts about affairs and cheating, and there is constant theme that I keep encountering that boggles my mind. I am hoping readers out there could help answer this for me.... In most of the posts, where a woman is having ...

She had sex on the job ... what kind of fun can I have with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - We all work at the same place. My girlfriend had sex at work while on the clock with the guy I like. She doesn't know that I know, but he does. What kind of fun can I have with this? ...

I cheated… Now what???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend last weekend, I was completely drunk out of my mind, not that that is an excuse. Needless to say the guy I cheated on my boyfriend of a year is our friend and was over for dinner the night before we had a party. I ended up ...

How does a man act around his girlfriend after he cheats on her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - How does a man act around his girlfriend after he cheats on her? What are the signs, and what is he thinking and feeling?...

I told him I cheated on him to see how he'd react, since he cheated on me in our first month together. How do I fix this now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me in our first month but he says he pulled away straight away and the other girl admits it was her fault. We have been going out for 9 months now and i told him a couple of months ago i cheated on him just to see how he ...

I slept with my wife's sister and best friend, one is now pregnant...what can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - Hi all This is all a complete mess!!! I slept with both my wifes sister and her best friend and dont know what i can do now. They both came onto me and are so hot that i could not resist either of them... The problem i have now is t...

Been sleeping with my friends father. What do you think I should do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Hi cupid, I am in a really hard situation. ok my best friend and I are really close we do everything together. I am 16 and she is 17. I really don't have much of a family of my own my dad left us and my mum spends more time at the pub getting ...

How can I cope with the hurt and anger about her emotional affair? It's like pulling teeth to get her to admit that what she did is wrong!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I am in a lesbian relationship of five years and my girlfriend started to fall for a male coworker. We went to therapy and it turns out she had inner issues about her parents not accepting our relationship because of their Indian values (she has ...

Tell me, why would they get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - my sex partner has a babymom that comes to his house on the weekend. his son is 11 years old witch he loves and will do anything for.on the other hand he is involve with a younger lady which he loves to make LOVE to, he seems to care about the ...

How can he move on like that and just stop caring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I am a married woman for about 4yrs i have two children and i am having an affair with a man who has been married for 18yrs and has two children as well. We both work together this is his part time job he works full time during the day elsewhere. We ...

Should I forgive him after his drunken cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I caught my boyfriend on cheating. We were at friend's wedding. he was utterly and almost unconsciously drunk. He didnot know who I am when I entered the room he was with this awful girl. Trousers down, she was correcting her clothes, not sur...

What do I do about Ms. X? Is my boyfriend cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Help, anyone, please? Before my bf and I got together, he was wooing his friend, MS. X. She told me that he’s dumping him and he don’t want him. I know she’s still hung up on him coz she flirts with him in front of me. It’s not like Ms. X and I ar...

We have a son together, and I just found out he's been married for two years!!! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - What should I do? I met John 6 years ago. We both worked for the same hospital. Within first year of dating I got pregnant. He always said we were going to get married and be family. In time I got pregnant 2 more times but miscarried. Shortly after ...

Should I say goodbye to him or take a leap of faith and tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Right, I have been what I think is friends with benefits (A)with someone for nearly 4 years. I really really like them. However, after getting sick of teh arrangement I went out and got myslef a really nice guy, really solid would do anything for ...

If I love my boyfriend why do I feel like cheating on him when the occasion rises??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - why is it that i love my boyfriend and i cant seem to live without him but when ever i notice a new guy i feel like cheating i feel like i wanna start something new with someone else.....

Is it that she doesn't want me but doesn't want anyone else to have me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - I split up with my girlfriend almost a year ago after I found out she was cheating on me. The break up was quite hard as we lived together but although she tried to keep in touch I managed to avoid her. Recently I started replying to her emails and ...

I ended my affair with the family friend but he still pursues me! I'm afraid our infidelity will come out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) - I cheated on my husband with a family friend. Husband does not know.I broke it off, but he won't let me be. He is persuing the family friendship in an effort to stay close to me. He doesn't care whether our spouses find out. We each have three kids. ...

He is older and says he loves me-should I believe him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I've known this guy for about a year and for the past few months he's been telling me that he has fallen in love with me. At first I didn't believe him because in our past he lied to me about something big so it was hard for me to trust him. I am ...

I hate everything about my boyfriend but I love him more than anything in the world... should I leave him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I hate everything about my boyfriend but I love him more than anything in the world... should I leave him? I used to trust him, I used to feel comfortable with him in public, I used to enjoy having him around, I used to like doing things for him, ...

How can I play this one cool and have some fun?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My BF had oral sex with another gal. He thinks I don't know about it and yet he's acting guilty. I think I'm gonna have some fun with this instead of falling apart like most women would do. This oral sex happened at work. I need lots of ...

I've been going out with a great girl for a year...but she cheated...should I stay with her or end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - i have been going out with a great girl for about a year now.at the moment it is a long distance relationship. anyways we had an aruguement about the people she hangs around with over there guys hitting on her repeatedly,and me getting angry cause ...

Is it so bad to cheat on my boyfriend with my ex? My bf has not been able to satisfy me sexually...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 May 2008 (?) - i cheated on my boyfriend.. w my ex................. i dnt want to be back with him but i have been dating my current bf for 5 months. He was a vifgin and has not been able to satisfy me sexually. He tries and has gotten somewhat better ... he cant ...

How do I move on?!?! My sex partner is about to get married and still wants me in his life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - my sex partner is about to get married but he wants me to still be in his life. i refuse! but its hard to let go. he enjoys my sex better. i love to be with him all the time but i'm mad because he's getting married on me. I'm HURT !!! how do i get ...

How can I end this marriage making as few waves as possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been together for almost a year and a half. I am somewhat saddened to reveal that i no longer have an desire to be with her anymore. I no longer find her attractive, and have been secretly seeing someone else. I know, I know, ...

His ex came back into his life, and now I'm wondering if I should be there for the DNA test on my husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - ive been married for 3 yrs and now got a 2 yr old son be4 me and my husband got married he already know that i have a child of my own so its not a problem to him. me and my husband is always far from each other coz of his job he is in the military. ...

Did she sleep with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Hi, About two years ago my girlfriend cheated on with with her friend from London, over about 3 months. My g/f says it never went any further than kissing all the time they were together, but i have a feeling that sex was involved. The...

He is my ideal man but I really want to experiment with other men as I was a virgin before I'd met him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I am really confused at the momment, since I do not know if I want to be in a relationship, even though I am quite happy with my boyfriend. He is my ideal husband, but I want to experiement with other men before settling down, since my b...

Please help, the long distance is causing lots of problems for us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I just finished my freshman year of college. My boyfriend in high school and I dated for 4 years and I went to college in Florida and he went to New York. To say the least, we didn't make it past a few months away from each other. I have been with ...

I dream of a guy I met, and it feels like I'm cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Basically im in a relationship with a guy i love for many years, yet since i met this guy at uni i dream about him almost every single night! it ranges from kissing to hugging n cuddling rather than actual sexual dreams and its more intimate- i know ...

What do I do about the married man I have been seeing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I had went out with a friend one night and a guy approached me and started talking to me...i kept seeing the guy in the same place that we have met, and then come to find out he was married and has been with his wife for 10 years...I TRULY LOVE ...

Should I tell him I have been faking my orgasms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. We started to have sex within the first year and it was great. But about into our third year... i couldnt have an orgasm at all. I have been faking it ever since. I dont know what i should do? Should i ...

He won't even look at me now... He is a good man, has a loving heart but he is too flirty...this is a teacher I dated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I recently dated this teacher of mind. He is still married with kids. We split due to him wanting to reconcile with his wife and that split lead to many more controversy to the point where he almost got sent to prison and fired. But now i still have ...

I want to lose my virginity to him but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - hey... im 14 and still a virgin... im scared to loose my virginity but my mate says its fine... i really want to do it with this lad who i no... hes told me he wants to do it aswell but hes with another girl... i know that people say when your 14 ...

She has lent me her car and cash but I don't really have any feelings for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - dear all. i am seeing someone who is realy charming. at the mo i am short of cash because i have gone from weekly pay to monthly. on weeks pay has had to last for 5 weeks. she has lent me £500. does other things for me, but i cant fall in love. i ...

Has anyone had to get over a massive betrayal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - Please help me. I'm sorry for the long post but PLEASE read it and try to help me. Has anyone had to get over a massive betrayal. Is it possible. I have been seeing "T" on and off for about a year and nine months. Our relationship was goin...

I can't get my secretary out of my mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - We are both married and we work together. She is my secretary and we clearly enjoy each others company. She has good values and informs me that nothing would ever happen and she is just being a friend. We text each other regularly and have a laugh; ...