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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

My boyfriend has profiles on on-line dating sites. I don't know what to believe.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - We've been together for 3 months and a half. We met online and I found some time ago the profiles he had before we met, and asked him to please take them off, since anyway he was not logging in them (I saw his last log ins and he had stopped) and he ...

HOw can I get over my abusive cheating boyfriend after half my life with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Please can someone tell me how long it takes to get over/fall out of love with someone? Does the pain ever heal? I met my partner when i was 14 (he was 20). By the time i was 15 we were living in a flat together and we were engaged. Slowly over the...

My husband told me that we reached the end of our road and he found somebody else, how can I bring him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - My husband of 4 years has recently told me that he has feelings for someone else and that they are sexual with each other.he wasnt sure what he wants.he tells me that we reached the end of our road.i love him so much and want to work it out but he ...

Troubled marrige, he cheated, now not much sex, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - We have been together for 7 years and to the outside world, it would appear that we are a happy, in-love couple. I love my husband dearly but 2 years ago, just 6 months into our marriage, he cheated on me. He can't/refuses to tell me why he did it ...

Did I betray my best friend? Is this considered cheating? What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Basically I want to know whether this counts as cheating/boyfriend stealing and betraying my best friend at the same time? I'll start from the begining. Ok, yesterday, actually technically the day before yesterday, I go on msn. My best ...

He claims he isn't trying to salvage his marriage but am I wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - He claims that he is not trying to salvage their marriage; but he seems to be bending over backwards to appease his wife. She wants everything switched over into her name and he does so without any hesitation. She says it's because of me and I might ...

I am 2 months pregnant and I find out he has another girl! What now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I just found out that my boyfriend has another girl...... he told me this right after I told him I am 2 months pregnant. I really don't know what to do. We were "high school sweet hearts" and now that I found out im pregnant, with his baby makes ...

He got drunk and kissed another girl. Should I risk giving him my whole heart again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2.5 years now. This is my first relationship, but not his. Lately we've been fighting a bit, but nothing spectacular. Everything has been getting resolved within hours of the argument. A couple of days a...

My husband is in prison, and I am having enjoyable sex with another man, who wants me to make a decision, I don't want to leave my marriage, but should I continue to have sex with this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - THis guy has been flirting with me for awhile, then he started asking me out. I told him no that i'm married. He said he knew that. ANd he wasnt meaning anything by it. So after a couple more of him asking i finally said yes. After about 4 times ...

Help! I think my boyfriend might cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Hi. Im 13 nd im im a relationship. Im scared that my boyfriend is going to dump me because on bebo he is calling other girls fit and sexy. I love him to bits but my friend was txtin him asking him why he said that to then girls and he turned it ...

Was she lying about him molesting her or was she just cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I would like to find out what you would do my girlfriend called me up 1 day saying a guy(her friend) tried to molest her when he invited her to go out because it was the last day he was in town. She gave me his number to call him up. Then he told ...

Is he cheating? Or what?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - me and boyfriend have been together for about a year! things were great for about 6 months and now things are changing. he doesnt come to see me anymore even though im a 6 minute drive away. i ask him if i can go to his and he just says no and to l...

I cannot understand why he wants to keep me in the background when he preferred his wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Ok, I'm back with another question...how do I get him to stop calling and texting me without changing my number. I accepted the fact that he went back to his wife and am glad he did so because that's not what I want. I'm trying to move on again ...

What is my boyfriend trying to say to me by saying nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - i have been in a loveless marriage for 5 years. He has been dating other women and i began dating a man 2 years ago. We stay living together only for convenience and we are working on separating sometime next year. anyway, I am totally in love ...

What is my boyfriend up to with this "friend" of his?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 3yrs 8 months now and we are in a long distace relationship.i notice a co worker of his calls him often. one day while we were out driving she called because she wanted to check up on him (he did go to work ...

Did I just get a version of the "let's just be friends" talk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I was going through a very rough patch in my marriage. my wife suddenly wanted a divorce and while I resisted it at first, I eventually decided it was probably worth going through with. during this time I spent a lot of time talking to a fem...

Is there any possible way to regain trust where he will still see the woman he was with for the rest of his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - This is a long one, so brace yourselves. I probably have one of the most unhealthy relationships out there besides abusive ones. My boyfriend and I were both engaged to other people when we met. I was with my ex for 10 years, he was with his for ...

He's married and attracted to me but afraid to make any move. What's happening with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I am 52, in a relationship but single. Not married. My married friend that I have known for over 30 years is unhappily married. We were thrown together for job reasons. Have had to have meetings, We were in high school together. I don't know what is ...

I'm a young, gay male who is heart broken over a married man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - i am a 28 year old gay male i have been in a relationship with the same guy for 10 years we live together things are ok our sex life kinda faded out and is rare if ever i think we are both in it for convienience... i met the man of my dreams my ...

I'm torn between two guys and I don't know who to choose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I have been with a male that we will call ram for just about a year now. We fight we argue and practically tear eachothers heads off. There has been cheating from both sides in the relationship. All of my friends wonder why I am soo crazzy about him ...

She's texting too much and I think she's cheating on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - Well lets see.... I have a girlfriend of two months and am really into her. She seems to be into me by what she says but her actions are leading me to believe otherwise. She knows that when I am with her I hate it when she texts all the time. ...

I had sex with my wife's sister and now she's driving me crazy! What do I do about such a weird situation?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - About 2 years ago I had the best sex ever with my wifes sister. I have always wanted her and in fact, when i met my wife my intention was to hook up with the sister but it didn't happen. Anyway we ended up in bed together just having the best sex ...

I'm married and beginning to like a co-worker. Do I accept his invitation to lunch?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - i'm married and just started a new job few months ago. i'm beginning to like my colleague and it seems mutual as he initiated to ask me if we can have lunch together so he can get to know me. i don't like this as i know it is very wrong. should i ...

He fell in love with a prostitute but seems repentant about the cheating, how do I know it won't happen again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - hi well a year ago my partner of 22 years came clean about sleeping with prostitutes he has slept with 3 in 2 years the only reason i know about these is he fell in love with the last one and came clean to me but didnt tell me about the other ones ...

I don't know if should stay or just leave him. I don't trust him anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Ive known my husband for 15 yrs and married for 6. He went to Ohio 2 weeks ago for work. I knew something was different when I talked to him. He came home told me he didnt love me, wanted to be alone, etc. I was in shock it came out of no where. I...

My wife left me, but now she wants to try again. I am torn between giving it another shot with her and this new girl I am nuts for.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - This is long so I appreciate anyone who reads it. I am 47 and married with a 7 year old son. I work as a senior manager and have lots of people who work for me. About a year ago a 24 year old came to work with the company, I'll call her T. She is ...

I cheated and don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - i cheated on my bf of 3 years , after months of his addiction to internet porn, Live web cam teen age girls , not just actors and sctresses. Not sure what to do because I really do care about him....

My current boyfriend is addicted to porn and that caused me to have a fling with my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - i have been with my bf for about 2.5 years, recently I have caught on to his obsession with internet porn.Porn really doesnt bother me , we have even watched it together before, but he's sneaking around looking at this all the time(well he thinks ...

My husband had an affair and while we are hoping to salvage the marriage, I am so sad and angry!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - A year ago I found out that my husband had an affair. We have been trying to work on it, well he wants us to jsut move on, and I do too. But it is hard and I find my thoughts consumed with it and at times I find myself dialing her number and ...

My fiance cheated on me with his ex because of lack of passion! Will this work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do, my fiancee who I have been with for 2 years has slept with his ex girlfriend, who he has a child with just days after our engagment party. Should I forgive him or move on? This girl is always causing trouble for us and has ...

Did I do the right thing for checking her emails?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - I recently used my wifes computer to send an email and noticed she had messages from an old friend. I investigated and realized she was having an emotional affair for over a year. Is it normal to want to check her emails? ...

My husband cheated on me and I don't know wha to do. Please help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - My husband and i have been married for 5 yrs now.he had a 2 and half yr long affair that started soon after we got married with a woman he was closely related to and said it was to get back at his uncle (that woman's husband). i forgave him for this ...

I don't understand what he wants and his behavior is hurting me. Is he playing with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I am a married woman that cheated the husband for the first time with this guy(36 yrs old) I have been talking to for 7 months. During the 7 months he called me every single day and our conversations lasted more than 1 hour in average. We had sex ...

Should I keep waiting for my soul-mate? He needs to get his finances straight to divorce.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - okay, i am 21, not ure normal 21 year old. I dont go out, i stay focused with work and school. I just got out aof a reallly bad relationship. And i was working, and i felt so empty. thats when he walked in, the love of my life. I didnt know him at ...

I'm so sick of all the 'getting drunk and having sex' situations!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - how can I handle this? Last night, i went out with my boyfriend and a girl friend. We were just trying to help her because she just broke up with her boyfriend and she wanted to have sex. By the way, her boyfriend was always hitting on me, an...

What should I do about my cheating husband? We have 2 kids together...

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27 August 2008 (F) - me and my partner have been together for nearly 9 years i have 2 children with him and we got married 2 weeks ago but in 2005 when i found i was expecting our first child he said we needed a break that was fine then this girl started to work with ...

What is this going to look like to people when he comes back to me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

27 August 2008 (?) - A few years back I had a relationship with an ex teacher of mine, which eventually we called off. we still talk to each other at least twice a week, and sometimes meet up. Anyway, today he visited me, and one thing led to another, and we had sex. ...

After 2 years, she confesses to me she has cheated with her step-brother. I feel the whole time together was a lie now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I have been with a women for almost two years and finely after almost to years she has came out with the truth. that the first month we got together she had cheated on me with her step brother. i think its wrong i mean step brother or not they ...

I want to move abroad with my new girlfriend and see the kids during school holidays. Should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I cant stand my ex girlfriend anymore. We were together 10 years and have two children together. I cheated on her whilst she was pregnant with our second child and I am not proud about that. I am still with the girl I had the affair on her with. We ...

He said he lied about planning to marry me, I don't know what to think anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years just broke up with me 6 days ago .. seriously out of nowhere...this is such a long story i'll try to keep it short. He was acting weird one day and then the next day broke it off and said he was moving out right then and ...

Do I stay with my husband and live a life of vanilla sex or leave him for someone more awesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I am in a horrible situation. I married my high school sweetheart. The first boy I ever kissed. No, we didn't date all the way through high school, we actually didn't really "date" until my freshman year of college. We dated for about 2 years, ...

My husband cheated on me and got the other woman pregnant! Why am I made out to be the villain?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for three years and we have no children together. We are both 24 years old. His parents never approved of our marriage due to racial factors, he is white and I am asian. A week ago, for the first time, I fo...

She is already cheating on the guy I caught her with, what can I do to heal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I know I shouldn't care, but it is unbeleivable. I Thought I knew the her. I have lost faith. She has no heart and is only an unfaithful woman. She is already cheating on the guy I caught her with. What can I do to heal? I know i am better off w...

Should I tell my boyfriend of four years that I cheated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and cheated on him a few months ago. I love him dearly and cant stand the thought of loosing him over such a stupid mistake. We are now talking about finding a house as an investment property and ...

I have a real problem and it's time I admitted it. I'm worried it will ruin my marriage. Help me before it's too late, please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I have a real problem and it's time I admitted it. I’m obsessed with chatting to people on the internet. Before I met my 'now' wife I used to use the chatrooms on AOL and meet women. I would sometimes end up meeting them. I met my wife at ...

I'm trying to be as realistic as possible by forgiving her, but I don't want to make the wrong decision.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - Ive been in a LDR for 3 years. We met when she was 17 and spent a year together in the same country. We loved each other to pieces and would do anything to stay together. She has to go to South America for school. 18 months into the relationship, ...

The question is, what do I do now? What is my next step? How do I start over again? I'm used to seeing my children everyday....Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I am now 30, so is my wife. We’ve been together for 10 years now, married for 7. Our first child was born 7 years ago. We now have 4 children, or at least she does. Since the birth of her 3rd child I had always been unsure if I was the father. I ...

My son's girlfriend is a cheat... how do I get my son to finally dump her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - My son has a girlfriend who keeps cheating on him. How do I get him to wake up and smell the coffee, and move onto a woman who will be as loyal as he is? This is the third time she has cheated in their short 3 month romance. ...

My cheating partner...I've received opinions from friends, but maybe the outside world? You there? Anyone??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - We had the goods and the bad in our relationship. We been on and off for 5 years. Now I'm 25 and he's 27(he has a five year old son from a previous relationship) We made a commitment 2 years ago, because we loved each other so much and decided to ...

Some cracks have appeared in our relationship.....is she cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

25 August 2008 (M) - With complete strangers thinking the same as I did in reference to my previous question posted I realise I did see exactly what was happening. I would like to hear what more people think. I met my girlfriend via a dating site in early 08. We rea...