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*clark77
writes:okay, i am 21, not ure normal 21 year old. I dont go out, i stay focused with work and school. I just got out aof a reallly bad relationship. And i was working, and i felt so empty. thats when he walked in, the love of my life. I didnt know him at all, but when he left, he came back and asked me if i sing or write music..out of the blue. Which i do. The first day we met over coffee, he told me he was married, of coarse, i had figured, hes perfect. Hes very polite and appropriate. We started working together and became really good friends. And one day, after 4 months of working together, he told me he had feelings for me, and he said he soulndt for obvious reasons. We are the same person, its scary. We feel like we have known eachother for our whole lives. So we have been seeing eachother for 3 months, but we havent had sex or even kissed! We know we want to be together, but we are trying to be resposible about it.He told her about me last week and he left her, and then went back to her 2 days later! He freaked out from leaving the "comfort zone". They have been married 8 years. And he told me to hang in there a little longer. He just had to get his finances straight.I know its immorally wrong, but i can say that i found my one true love, most people do not find them. Should i keep waiting?? or should i hang in there. When he comes over, he cries because he doesnt want to go back. He wants to be with me..but its not as easy as it sounds.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): heyYou only think you have things in common because you fancy the pants off him. You may not even like his looks-but you like his persona-his 'reliable' nature and his 'mature' approach!but seriouslyyyyy...Breaking a marriage of 8 yrs? Hes telling you to wait (whilst hes havin sex with her and stufff?!)Come on love-wake up and smell the cofffeeee ....you can do tons betttaaa...i say you 'wait a lil while longer'-for the right man!!!!god blessfriend xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): No, I feel you need to move on with your life. Take yourself out of the equation. Sounds like he has a lot of thinking to do. People leave marriages when they are not happy, but here is the thing to halves don't make a whole, so knowing this, he isn't whole, if he was he would be happy so him being with you gives him a temp happy feeling, SO I say move on
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