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writes:Basically I want to know whether this counts as cheating/boyfriend stealing and betraying my best friend at the same time?I'll start from the begining.Ok, yesterday, actually technically the day before yesterday, I go on msn. My best friend Mark who lives 200 miles away, has changed his personal message and it says something like he got hacked and the hacker said things to certain people which weren't true, etc. I also notice, that someone called Alan has added me. Alan says hi how are you, as if he knows me, so I ask him who he is, he says he's mark's best friend. I ask Mark about Alan, and he says Alan is really dirty (true, but mark is a prude). I ask alan how he got my msn, he says he hacked into mark's msn and found it.At this point, I don't even need to think about if I should tell mark or not. Of course I do. But I tell mark not to tell alan that he knows it was him. Now Mark is also reeaallly sensitive, and he later asks me to dissuade alan from hacking again, and to tell alan that he doesn't want to risk his trust and friendship.but before he says that, I get talking to alan, and we really hit it off, We both like queen and family guy, etc. And before long we were sending messages like "*smacks bum*" with a "*whips ass*" in response, then he suddenly wants to see pictures of me(he's actually seen a few from mark), asks if I have a webcam, but I have no pics or webcam here now. It's like 1am now, and I have to wake up early the next day, so we saye "bye xx" (not once in 2 years has mark EVER used x) and he gives me his number.But the thing is Alan has a girlfriend called Becky, his name even says Alan loves Becky. they've been going out 3 months.So the next day, (yesterday) I wake up and mark says he's got a new msn, and to dissuade alan etc. So about 10:30pm later that day, Mark texts me saying that Alan wants me to go on msn. So I do, and we get talking again, and he says he also hacked mark's facebook. and it now says he's in a gay realtionship with mark. At this point I have to think about telling mark, and I do. So mark comes online, and changes it, I don't know what he said to alan, if anything, then he goes to bed. Meanwhile Alan and I continue our chat. he asks me if I want to come up north (where they live) on monday. But I actually am busy. So anyway, It's nearly 1am, no major flirting, I say I'm going to bed, I ask him if he sleeps, and he says no, And then I say so what do you do in bed then? and he says masturbate. then he says when I come to visit he'll cut off his legs so we can be the same height, I say I probably will come and then he says good then we can dance, and have sex. Then he asks me if I masturbate, I say what do you think brb means? He then talks about playing more jokes on mark, e.g. kissing him, putting condoms and porn on his seat. I choose not to tell mark this time. Then I say my relatives have a house up north and he says great we can have sex loads, then he says he's wearing just his boxers and asks me what I'm wearing, also just underwear, he's on webcam, then he takes his boxers off.Then we swap bra and cock sizes. Then he says I'm making him really horny. Then I say I only have one more year at an all girls school then I'm going to a mixed college, and he's all "no sex" "sex is bad" suddenly he says he'll be jealous that someone else may get to have sex with me, then I say you have a girlfriend to have sex with, and he's like I want to have sex with you.I completly forget the fact that mark asked me to dissuade him from hacking and alan shows me how to hack into marks msn, then he hacks into marks new one. and then we're both flirting with each other as 2 marks, naked and half naked, with 1 webcam.so now it's 7am, we finally went offline and now I'm writing this. Have I totally betrayed my best friend? Is it really cheating? what do you think his girlfriend would do if she finds out? and what do I do now? plus alan still doesn't know that mark knows he's the hacker.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSome interesting theories, yeah he probably is very untrustworthy, They are NOT the same guy I've known mark for 2 years, He is the biggest prude you will ever meet. Plus he's a genius, and a A*student, mensa iq, Alan is slow-witted, grammatically incorrect. Plus Alan is everything mark is not, he's bnp, mark's liberal, he has completly different principals, Mark would never create an Alan because A, he's a prude, B, he's totally different, and C he is 1 of the few totallly honest people I know. and D sometimes we have a threeway conversation, impossible if they are one and the same.
Ok, I Did not have a webcam, he did, it was really dark, just saw his face and chest, for now. I was just half naked because it's august and it's really hot here, but it's always freezing where he lives, I know why HE was naked.
I've been up to visit just mark loads of times, I know exactly who he is.
"if mark knows alan is the hacker why would he allow him access to hack him again surely he is nt so stupid"
for a smart guy, mark is that stupid. or maybe just trusting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): I have no idea but all I can say is be careful as this Alan guy sounds very untrustworthy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): did you see alans face on camera? or just his body parts? Do they ever appear online at the same time and if they do is it possible mark has more than one computer in the house, do they type at the same time? i think mark and alan could possibly be the same boy, if mark knows alan is the hacker why would he allow him access to hack him again surely he is nt so stupid, you need to wake up and smell the coffee, either they are the same person or your friend has involved another friend in head games with you, as for getting naked on camera i hope you know that screen shots can be taken from these and printed off like polaroid snaps, take more care on the pc it can be a very dangerous playground for a young girl.
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