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writes:I am 52, in a relationship but single. Not married. My married friend that I have known for over 30 years is unhappily married. We were thrown together for job reasons. Have had to have meetings, We were in high school together. I don't know what is going on but when we sit for coffee he stares in my eyes and I feel attraction between us. His dad just died and I met with him and hugged him but he was afraid to hug. I know he is attracted but afraid. We are just friends. what is this about? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): Nope babes you are totally, totally wrong, and if I knew this guy I'd tell him to be careful because you don't sound like any friend I know. What you sound like is one of them nasty home-wreckers who is trying to get a man to have an affair....
Your friend may be attracted to you, but guess what, he is also married. He has some respect for his wife and his marriage, even if you do not.
This guy is unhappy in his marriage, his dad has just died, and you, I bet are comforting him, and throwing your breasts and your availability into his face....
That's a nasty thing to do, he wants a friend, but you want an affair. He may be unhappily married, but what makes you think he was to deal with the guilt and lies that will come from sleeping with you.
Leave this man alone, your single, go and find a man off your own. If you were a friend, you would try to give him ideas on how to repair his marriage, or you would suggest that he divorce. But no, your just a nasty opportunist who is tired of being single and wanting some sex. Have some pity for a man who is suffering grief, go and find somebody else to screw, he doesn't need no added problems with you...
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