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writes: I dont know what to do, my fiancee who I have been with for 2 years has slept with his ex girlfriend, who he has a child with just days after our engagment party. Should I forgive him or move on? This girl is always causing trouble for us and has been waiting like a vulcher for her chance to rip my heart out.She has made sure she is in his lfe by making friends with all his friends and being everywhere that we go. She also invited herself to our engagment party and my fiancee did not object. That and the fact that they have a child together and she has recently moved 400km to be close to us means that everywhere I go she is there. they even spend a lot of time alone together both at our place and hers often secretly. What should I do? Im so angr at the moment that I cant make a rational decision.The day that it happened he asked her over they had sex then he went to her house for dinner. I was interstate at the time. The day I got home my fiancee told me he didn't want me in our house because our relationship lacked "passion" and made me spend the night at my sisters... now I know why.
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reader, MaySpring  +, writes (31 July 2011):
You shouldn't be with someone who deep down in your heart, you know will keep hurting you. What if you have a child together? It will be harder to leave him because of the child. Just leave while you still can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008): It seems as though your boyfriend wants his cake and eat it too. Since he wants passion from his ex, tell him to go where the action is.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (28 August 2008):
 DO NOT MARRY HIM.
That would be the biggest mistake of your life and a waste of time, money and love. It's much harder to get out of a marriage than it is to get out of an engagement! Leave the ring on the dresser (or pawn it), pack your stuff (or his stuff), and get out of the relationship. He's emotionally and sexually invested in his exgirlfriend and since they have a kid together, she will ALWAYS be there, for the rest of his (and your) life. Do you really want to be around for that?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (28 August 2008):
 I would avoid marrying this guy like the plague!
Unless you can put up with 3 people being in this relationship, i would bin him off. Now he's played right into her hands, you wont ever get rid of her i reakon.
C xxxxxx
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