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female
age
36-40,
*eela2love
writes:my boyfriend and i have been together for 3yrs 8 months now and we are in a long distace relationship.i notice a co worker of his calls him often. one day while we were out driving she called because she wanted to check up on him (he did go to work that day because i was there with him) he claimed they are good friends, ok fine. i jus wanted to know why he could not tell her about me. then he told me he never mention he has a girlfriend. now tell me what is he trying to do.now supposedly she starts to like him and confess to him. what do you think he might do girls? i asked him why he did not mention he has girlfriend he said he trying to see if the girl would want to do things with other girls( my boyfriend and i wants to have a threesome with a girl)so he was asking even though she declineand he still did not tell her about us. he jus says he is in bad mood and dont want to talk about it. what do you say girls, does have feelings for her? i got her number from his phone and decided to call. i wanted to hear her voice then i asked for wrong number. did it again and then she blurted out why i calling this number and asking for wrong name so i thinked quickly for an excuse and i said i was trying to call a friend i had not seen in a long while then i apolgize to her and hang up, the next day now my boy and i was chatting then he asked ne if i know the girl number i said i did not know, he said he would call me later.when he called he said that the girl showed him the number and claimed she had seen the number before, of course she has she would use his cell phone to bluetooth songs to her cell phone when at work .come on tell me she had to have seen the numbers , because my boy has alot of numbers for me so come one i dont think she is that stupid she knew and want to cause problems .some one please help me her i am at wits end
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (31 August 2008):
 I don't know, all of this sounds suspicious.
What you could do is go up to his work and tell your boyfriend you want to talk to this female friend.
Please, in the talk, don't sound accusatory AT ALL or she will come to the densive, fueling up your doubts. Tell her that you are your boyfriend's girlfriend and that since he has talked about her that you wanted to meet her to get to know her. Ask her stuff about her, and where she stands in friendship with him
Again, try to be friendly, you don't want to make a foolish step out of a misunderstanding and end up the bad person. If you find out that they're going out...or if she is going out with him, please don't blame her instantly. Try to hear her side of the story and see if she knew about you all alonge (I doubt) and/or if he had been stringly her all along.
Try to not jump in conclusions yet. Gather evidense. Talk to his female friend.
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