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I don't understand what he wants and his behavior is hurting me. Is he playing with me?

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Question - (27 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 August 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, *lta writes:

I am a married woman that cheated the husband for the first time with this guy(36 yrs old) I have been talking to for 7 months. During the 7 months he called me every single day and our conversations lasted more than 1 hour in average. We had sex 3 times and everything seemed to be great, good connection talking and sexually, as far as I know. The only problem was that he did not want to see me very often and there were 3 times he left me flat. I tried to end up the relationship many occasions but he did not let me, claimign that he loved me and talking sweet in my ears.This last time he left me flat I called him first to see if something came up but he did not answer me so I sent him a text saying the least I deserved was a courtesy call to let me know he was not making it, to forget about me and not to call me anymore and that this time I needed him to respect my decision. Well he did not respect it because since my text all I get from him are calls (1 or 2 times) every other day and when I answer he does not talk. I have sent him texts saying to leave me alone that I do not want him anymore. The last text he sent me said" is there somebody there". Why he can't just let it go if is clearly he is not interested on me anymore?

Don't understand this guy's behavior. Does he wants to play with my emotions or is he a completely jerk? what does he want?

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A female reader, starismine1 United States +, writes (28 August 2008):

starismine1 agony auntif you keep communicating with him, he will feel you are still interested in him. The only way to really get him out of your life is to stop needing his attention, because when you can do that, you'll stop answering him and he'll lose interest and move on.

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