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My husband is in prison, and I am having enjoyable sex with another man, who wants me to make a decision, I don't want to leave my marriage, but should I continue to have sex with this man?

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Question - (31 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, *fterdark writes:

THis guy has been flirting with me for awhile, then he started asking me out. I told him no that i'm married. He said he knew that. ANd he wasnt meaning anything by it. So after a couple more of him asking i finally said yes. After about 4 times i found myself in a motel room, we stayed the night, most everything went on except sex. Now this guys asking me to make a decision. Before my husband gets out of prison. I told him dude theres no desicion to make im married. What im asking is should i still have this guy pleasuring me until its closer to when my husband is relased from prison in 2010?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008):

Wow, that's a load question! I guess it depends..... what is your husband in prison for?

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A female reader, Aunty Em United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2008):

Aunty Em agony auntHaving to live without your partner must be difficult - but he IS coming back. You're married for goodness sake! You love your husband, not this other man whom you're sleeping with. Make a decision now. It is neither fair on the man you are sleeping with, but more so unto your husband who is in prison!

You say you don't want to leave your marriage. What do you think you've just done? You've most definately stepped outside it. It's now your choice, one you MUST make, as to whether or not you're going to walk away even further.

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony aunthow about stop trying to have your cake and eat it.. and by cake i mean stop being so selfish.

Ask youself this.. WHY is the hubby in Jail... is it affecting you with what HE did. is it affecting the marriage?

secondly...

Yes. yes it is affecting your marriage. if you're off with another man you're cheating on your jailbird hubby, of which i hope you tell your husband you've been playing away from home.

I honestly think this guy would be better off with out you as you're not only screwing with his emotions but your husbands too.

Grow up, make a decision and do it.

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