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writes:A year ago I found out that my husband had an affair. We have been trying to work on it, well he wants us to jsut move on, and I do too. But it is hard and I find my thoughts consumed with it and at times I find myself dialing her number and hanging up. Am I crazy? He recently found out that I had done this, called and hung up, and now he won't speak to me and sleeps in the basement. I know that it is stupid to call her, but at times I am jsut so sad and angry about and jsut want to yell. Can some help and shed some light or hope?
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reader, daisygirl01  +, writes (10 September 2008):
The feeling you are having are normal. You have not worked things out yet. I don't understand the mind of a man. I do know that you are the only one that can help you, Start focusing on what makes you happy and fullfilled. Go back to school or take up a new hobby. Do something for you. I hope everything works out. Live for the Moment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): Wait... he has a girlfriend? What are you then, the other woman? Take back your dignity girl. Don't be his number two. You wear the ring. It's all or nothing. If he won't stop seeing her then stop seeing his sorry a**. If things were that good with her, he would still be there. Something is missing. Don't fill in the gap in their lives, fulfill your own life. Good luck!
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