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writes:Ok, I'm back with another question...how do I get him to stop calling and texting me without changing my number. I accepted the fact that he went back to his wife and am glad he did so because that's not what I want. I'm trying to move on again and find someone for me but I feel as tho he won't let me. I just can't understand why he wants to keep me in the background when he's with the person he wants to be with...he did go back. I heard he wants to make his marriage work (he couldn't tell me that)...so men out there tell me why won't he let me go?He knows it's over with me and him. I won't accept anything but divorce papers...so now what?
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reader, debrasue64 +, writes (31 August 2008):
Call your phone company and have is number blocked. Tell him that you did this and that the relationship is over. He should get the message.
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reader, Nikki2033 +, writes (31 August 2008):
agreed! He's being selfish, most Men-if that's what you want to call them, don't actually want you, but don't want to see you Happy with someone els; seeing someone else Treating You the way they could not. Don't let it break you, but being the Revengeful and Spiteful Person that I can be when backed into a corner, I suggest entertaining it, recording and documenting-having someone take pictures of his coming to your house, meeting you, etc, record your discussions with him, forward a copy to the Wife and to your Local Police Department for Stalking....He didn't Care how you Felt, what your Future Held, why should you give a darn about his or theirs, Be Free and Get Rid of the Heart Breaker once and for all, if he can't take No for the Answer...
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reader, girlscout +, writes (31 August 2008):
I am currently in the same situation. I met and fell in love with this man at work, we were both married at that time. I was lonely in my marriage, he listened. HE took me to the movies. Told me how sexy I was. Told me how he loved me. When my husband found out about this affair, he left me. My lover was supportive, he was my rock during my separation with my husband. He even proposed. He promised to leave his wife for me, one day out of the blue he called me up and told me that after a counselling session he wanted to salvage his marriage. I was heartbroken. I was willing to sacrifice everything for him. He told me that I should stop contacting him for a while. I tried to. But I kept on texting him wanting an explanation. A week later he contacted me. He told me that he still loves me but made no attempt on leaving his wife. I know she's a lawyer and she supports him. He said he was confused but now he knows he wants to save his marriage however broken it is. I"m addicted to this man. I can't stop myself from answering his calls and answering his emails. Last night he called and we ended up having a cyber sex. He even said he missed me terribly and still loves me. I don't know what to make of all of this. I am still in middle of my divorce. He is indeed keeping me in the background. I wish I was strong enough to tell him to stop contacting me, or strong enough to stop myself from texting him.
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reader, chloe71z +, writes (31 August 2008):
 You need to set him straight and tell him flat out. I dont want to see or talk to you again, unless you have divorce papers in your hand ready to show them to me. Otherswise Get lost. I want either all of you or none of you I WON'T take just half of you. Its all or nothing. plain and simple.
Take care and God Bless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): Aren't you able to block numbers on your phone? I haven't actually had to do that, but I thought it worked.
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reader, Mzmercury? +, writes (30 August 2008):
 It sounds like he's being selfish. He wants you but also wants his wife. Tell him straight out that you need him to stop the bull and go be with the person he choose. Unless he doesnt know what he wants and he choose what he felt was right. He probably doesnt want to hurt his wife. But like I said tell him to be honest.. and leave it be, he has to respect that. And he continues to call. then tell his wife.
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