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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Why cant I stop having sex with this married guy, I don't even like??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I am having a affair with a married man at work. I see him at least once a week when he comes into work in the AM, which is when we have sex, before I go home to my boyfriend of 15 years, who I really do love. The man I am having the affair with ...

Over-reacting about the future? Or is breaking up the only answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6197 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - My bf and I have been going out for almost a year now, and we've gone through some dynamic ups and downs. About 6 months ago, I decided to do something that he told not do or else he would be break up with me. I didn't cheat, but to him, it felt ...

She cheated and I can't trust her. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - have recently split with girlfriend of 1 1/2 years. we moved to new country together where she started a new stressful job. we had recently had a conversation about how we were not satisfied, and decided to take a break to think - we always got ...

A male stripper forced my wife's hand down his underwear, and she touched his Penis. I say it's no big deal, but she feels guilty. IS it a big deal?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, this says I'm Male, but it's really both myself and my wife asking this. So please address your replies/advice to both of us. We are doing this together as a solution to our little problem. Here it is. My wife's very close friend is ...

I want my husband back! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I am a 32 year old woman, a high school teacher of children with special educational needs, a mother of two beautiful girls (age 5 and 2) and a wife. I have recently lost 7 stones in weight, have changed jobs, lost my grandfather, my parents have ...

I can't forgive my husband. Should I contact the "other woman"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - i discovered that my husband had an affair back in the summer, he said it was sex only once and meant nothing, but he took her out to lunch at an expensive restaurnat and contiued phone contact for about a month. he has beg to keep our marriage ...

A new way to verify your partner has not been cheating during your time apart?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - My 'lover' says that his friends wife always knew if he'd been faithful when away on business, as his testicles would be 'high' (indicating abstinence) - I've never heard of this, is it true ... ?...

We have a child and live together, and he wants to experience extra-relationship sex before we setlle down - only with my approval. Is this OK?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I have been with my love for almost 5 years. we have a child and live together. As all relationships experience we have our ups and downsbut always manage to realize what we have. We are both really young. He has just told me he wants to sleep with ...

I cheated and we are seeing a counsellor but what do we do till then??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I recently cheated on my husband. We have been talking about it for a couple of days and have an appointment to meet with a counsellor, but not for another week. What do we until then?...

My boyfriend got a lapdance from one of his former friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Hi. A little while after me and my boyfriend had begun talking, he got a lapdance from one of his former friends.Yea, she strips for a living and she has like 5 kids. He blames it on the fact that they were all drunk.But he did have the guts to ...

My boyfriend wants me to sleep with other guys to 'learn new tricks'. Isnt this totally off the wall?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - i was a virgin when i met my boyfriend so hes the only guy i have ever slept with, given a BJ to, etc, etc. we have been together for nearly 4 years but he ended it the other day and said that he wanted to go on a break and that he wanted me to go ...

My boyfriend is a 'Rent Boy' - what should I feel about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend of 4 months has recently just admitted to me that hes been cheating on me with another man and hes been getting paid for it and now i dont know what to think or feel please help...

Is it a good idea to 'get it out of his system'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. We are best friends first then boyfriend and girlfriend. The number one rule in the relationship is brutal honesty. We are currently taking a break because he is depressed because of work reasons and ...

How can I get over this whole thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been officially together for a year now, but we have been seeing each other for 2 years. He cheated on me a few months after we made it official. He slept with her once, but they usually met twice or three times in a week. ...

Should I tell my husband who I cheated with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I'm married and very regrettably cheated on my husband 5 years ago. After a few months I told him what I did but not who with. (it was with a guy friend but my husband didnt really know him but knew I was catching up with him now and then) My hus...

What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I have made my life so complicated and am now just waiting for even more pain. I was divorced in april - not my choice and have felt lonely and cry alot. I met someone who was married and as I was lonely and probably selfish enjoyed my times...

Is he no longer interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I've been married to my high school sweetheart for a little over a year and somehow over the past 6 months have fallen completely in love with my boss who is 12 yrs older. My boss and i are friends and have worked together for almost 3 yrs. Over t...

How do I control my anger now I'm working with the girl my bf cheated with...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend cheated with a girl I will now be working with she knows who I am and I know who she is.....what can I do to keep my cool....cause ill start thinking and wanna kick her ass!!! We new each other before she messed with him and she new he ...

She is unsure if she can trust me and continue with me because I confessed I cheated. Is there hope for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - My wife left me a year and a half ago. We decided about 2 months ago to get back together. But before we got back together I told her that I cheated on her when we were married....she did not know this when she left. Now she is faced with the issue ...

Will he hurt me again and is he a player??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Sorry if this is long, Right, well im 14 and in March this year and i got with an amazing guy i had been after for ages and we went out for 1 month. The day before we broke up he passed his driving test i found out he had cheated on me. Before i ...

My girlfriend is pregant with another mans child...what should I do??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - My girlfriend is pregnant by another man! I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years. Over the last 3 years or so she has had an increasing problem with drink and because of this, she has been telling lies over the most stupid things. ...

My boyfriend cheated on me... with a guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - so, i had a boyfriend and it was going really well...except for the fact that i thought he was gay, he was extremely sweet, borderline genius, and had an incredible bod. he calls me one day and tells me hes so sorry blah blah blah, so i tell him i ...

She cheated. What should I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I have been with a girl for 4 years, lived together for 3, we have a house together and were raising her two children, things were great at first but overtime our communication broke down and she sought the attetion of another guy, I asked her if ...

Dazed and Confused... wrapped in a web

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I have been with for the past four years. We have a daughter who's two. We were having problems and I drew close to my ex boyfriend who has been my ex for the past seven years. He has a girlfriend but we both drew away from ...

My ex wants us to be friends with benefits, but we never had sex during our 7 year relationship, help me figure this out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - This is the situation. I broke up with my ex almost 2 years ago after a 7 year relationship. I cheated on her and I know I was wrong for doing so. We had been together all that time without having sex and I felt the need for intamcy. Thats a ...

Was it just a kiss, just this once?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. Last week he kissed a girl that works at the gas station by his house. He's told me before that he's cheated on all of his girlfriends from the past, but that he didn't think he could do it to me. How do I ...

Thought we were saving our marriage (after his having had an affair), until he became depressed and I found out he bought her a present. Uninterestedly? How can I believe he still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - a few months ago my husband came home devastated because an affair that started late last year was ended in the spring of this year by the other women. he said that he was still in love with me, but had fallen in love with her, i admit our ...

My husband has cheated twice! I forgave him the first time, now he says it will not happen again. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Hi cupid! this's my first time here. I dont know what to say and i still cant get rid of it. I'm married with military and move myself to live in Japan for 2 years before we move back to states. My husband is younger than me 7 years. We have 2 ...

He doesn't want her but wants me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - i met this guy in 1995 on holiday we have been in contact ever since, he now says he isnt happy with her and want to be with me. what do i do?...

I want my married gf..not my long term gf..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6203 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - hi i'm dating someone for 3 years but have been seeing a married woman for 1 yr. i love them both but its the married woman i want to be with. she's now pregnant and even in spite of this i want to be with her. she wanted to leave her husband about ...

My husband posts dirty ads to get off... Will this pattern repeat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I met my 2nd husband a year ago and we have been married for 4 months now. 5 months into our relationship i found a recent an email on his laptop to a female colleague where he was prompting her for an answer if he would want sex with her again as ...

I cheated, but he didnt show any interest in me, should I get back with my boyfriend or wait for someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Ok, i was goin out with my boyfriend for 4 years, about 3 months before we broke up i met a guy i known from school out clubbin i always really liked him and very attracted to him so i brought him back to my place (after lots to drink) and i had sex ...

I broke up with my selfish boyfriend, now I've met a great guy, but I had sex again with my ex, he thinks we are back together, what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - Ok well....I was goin out with my boyfriend for 5 years, I broke up wih him about 2months ago to go out with a guy who I have known for 7 years who i have always been very good friends with and dated for a few months in school. My ex doesnt know dat ...

I cheated on him, and he beat me, how do I move forward?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - in june i made a very bad choice in my life..having been with the same man for 25 years.. a man i love so very very much ..mostly good years, not always happy years.. bickering, fighting and alot of silence .. now i see it was my life before and ...

I like my cousin's bf! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - i have a big problem, me and my cusin were like best friends, shes beein going on about a boy she meet at work she told me soo much about him and i was happy for her, but the other day i meet him by the end of the night my cuzin asked me if i ...

I'm 40 and he's 20 years older. My family say he's too old. Is there a future here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I am 40 just filed divorce and I met this man 20 years older than me. We go dancing every Saturday night and have sex whenever we are together. All my families and friends do not like what I am doing. And they think there is no future as he is ...

She's dating other guys a week after telling me she loved me! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 November 2007 (M) - Hi Wonder if you can help My ex fiance asked me to get back with her on a date to date basis at the beginning of November. We met up and ended up spending the night together. We agreed to meet each other the folowing week. However, I was d...

How can a woman love, yet cheat time after time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

26 November 2007 (M) - I am wondering if someone could enlighten me? Would be nice to get female answers. Why would a woman cheat time after time,go through the same denials and say the same things,yet swear her love,accuse her boyfriend of cheating,show violent ...

I admitted while we were broken up, his friend kissed me. He forgave me, but his friend is denying the whole thing! It's a mess! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - Recently my ex, as we got back together only today, found out that his best friend had kissed me one day at school when he wasn't around. I actually told him, because I didn't have the gut to lie about anything anymore. He instantly felt very sick, ...

Several times in our marriage we have gone multiple years without being intimate. I need to feel loved, wanted... How do I leave without hurting my children in the process?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - The Marriage Bed I “Lie” In About a year and a half ago, we bought a new bed. I think it was our third in 18 years of marriage. Our first king sized. If you were to look down on us sleeping in it, you would see two people on the outer edges and ...

He said he hates cheaters, yet I think he is one, how can I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for about two months now and he has always made a point that he hates cheating etc. I was recently looking thorugh his text messages ad found some flirty and rude texts exchanged between him and a girl who lives quite ...

I can't stand the lies!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - I'm a 45 year old male and have 3 kids with a 35 year old female, we been together for 15 years off and on she has been abused as a kid by a grandfather, so she has sex, one night stands or 2-3 times a partner but has lied throughtout our entire ...

For the first time I realise what a poor and selfish spouse I have been. How do I show her my love, how to do it without sacrificing family time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - I have been with my wife for 15 years. We have been married for 10. About 4 years ago I got caught cheating with multiple women. Additionally, about two years ago she found a letter that looks like I may have been doing it again though i actually ...

My mum found out my dad has a mistress and we don't know what to do now, dad doesn't know we know about it yet

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - My mum recently just found out that my dad has a mistress outside and is devastated. She came to talk to me about it and asked me what should she do. My dad still doesnt know that she knows. My mum is the kind that cant get over even those small is...

He already said he quit calling his EX, but checking his cell I discovered he was lying. How do I go about this without coming off as a nag?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6206 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - My Ex and I have gotten back together after a 2+ year break, when he moved back from Indy. After a couple weeks I found out he was in a 'relationship' with a married woman, who he was still talking to. I told him how un-easy that made me feel, and ...

My husband treats me bad. Now I am in love with his best friend. I was told it was noticeable from both of us, our gestures etc.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for 11 years now and our marriage has always been rocky. I got pregnant and I felt we had to get married. I do love him, just not the way I should anymore. In the last year, his best friend has become my best ...

My husband cheated on me for five years but says he'll never do it again, opinions please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - my husband cheated all five years but now he's saying he'll never do it again.what do you think?...

I cheated on her and she won't take me back because she's been hurt this way before. I can't move on, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (M) - Hello, I have a question. I had an eight month relationship with a wonderful, beautiful young lady. I had never felt this way about any girl in my life, and I am sure that I was, and still am, in love with her. However, a little while ago, I cheated ...

Will I trust again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - I have just found out that my finance that I have been with for over 12 years has been cheating on me for about 1 month. I found out when I received the cell phone bill and this odd number was all over the bill. He denied it so then I really ...

I LOVE you is all I have to give.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - My situation is that I was cheated on for over five years but dated for nine years. I finally found the strength to move on with my life, meet new ppl and new friends, just change everything in my life including the routine. I finally found someone ...