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writes:i have a big problem, me and my cusin were like best friends, shes beein going on about a boy she meet at work she told me soo much about him and i was happy for her, but the other day i meet him by the end of the night my cuzin asked me if i thought he was good for her i said yes but i like him too, i just dont know wot to do and i no i can not act on this anyways, she wants me to meet him again soon wot do i say or do?/??
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (27 November 2007):
Make up an excuse and don't go.It seems you got hot pants for him and you are more than likely to do something about it.Keep your distance if you really love your cousin.He's off limits.Imagine if your cousin grabbed the guy you liked so much and were about to hook up with?If you truly care about your cousin keep your distance.If you got the guts you could tell her the guy's not right for her and then give it a go.All the best
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reader, BadAsh6705  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 You should realize that he is off limits to you and be happy for your cousin that she found a great guy! If you two are good friends and she really likes this guy, you will eventually have to be around him, so you need to get your mind off of him and go out on dates with some other guys and maybe even together with your cousin and her boyfriend. It may be hard right now, but there is probably a reason why he is with your cousin, he likes her!! He is already taken.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): Family is more important than boyfriends. You don't want to betray her in any way. I think you should put off seeing him again, make an exuse or something, and try to meet other guys or just spend some time alone to get over this crush. You don't want to betray family.
Good luck, I'm sure this is hard. I hope you make the right choice.
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