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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. Last week he kissed a girl that works at the gas station by his house. He's told me before that he's cheated on all of his girlfriends from the past, but that he didn't think he could do it to me. How do I move forward with the relationship? And is there any way to rebuild the trust? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Hi Sweetie,
I heard that line before, 'I did it with all my other girlfriends, but never thought I could do it to you, or do it when I was married' HE COULD. Months of agnoy, tears and betrayals uncovering the lies.
Yourv'e only been together 5 months. Leave now. Tell him your wanting someone who can be faithful to you and this seems to be a difficulty for him with partners. Tell him, once he has it all out of his system, give you a call to see if your still available.
His line is to make you think it was nothing and just as much a surprise to him as it is to you. Please save yourself the heartache. 5 months and he has already strayed. Sorry but I don't really think it is a good sign.
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reader, KeRrI117  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Maybe it was just a kiss this once? If the feelings are strong between you both you and him will find a way to make this work but you and him will have to sit down and talk about this together. Yes, there could be a way to rebuild the trust but it all depends on how you both feel about the relationship and where you want it to go. The only way to move forward is if you can find a way to forgive him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): I bet he said that to all his other girlfriends too!!!
unless you can live with the tiny little niggling doubt that will always be there, i would move on. you deserve the same as what you give. Once a cheat, always a cheat!
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reader, clh91 +, writes (27 November 2007):
 ok i'm telling you what to do but do you really want a boy who's cheated on previous girlfriends and just done the same to you despite him telling you that he didn't think he could.
he's obviousy no good at keeping his work, in my eyes this isn't a relationship n you should find yourself a better boyfriend!
hope i helped :)
feel free to message me about anything if u wanna chat
xxx
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