A
female
age
36-40,
*xcuse
writes:My Ex and I have gotten back together after a 2+ year break, when he moved back from Indy. After a couple weeks I found out he was in a 'relationship' with a married woman, who he was still talking to. I told him how un-easy that made me feel, and that he needs to be with me, and only me! He told me he quit talking to her several time... And several times I have found out that he still is. Before he got a cell, I got a long distance bill for $120 from him calling her (I don't have long distance set up on my house phone, hence the high bill) when he did get a cell, I would check his cell for calls (sneaky on my part, but it would always show that they had talked.) I went out of town for a couple days and came back home, I checked his cell, ALL the calls had been erased, exept for that day... I want to ask him if he called her, but not come off as a nag. I know that if the roles were reversed he would feel the same way! Any suggestions?
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reader, love-him  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Hi sugar, explain to him how you are feeling and you want to know the truth. Ask him to put himself into youre shoes, like you said, if roles were to be reversed he would be the same way. If he tells you he didnt then all you can do is believe him with no proof.. i suggest you continue looking for signs :) feel free to mail me about anything x
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