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female
age
41-50,
TheresaUNIQUEbebe
writes:My situation is that I was cheated on for over five years but dated for nine years. I finally found the strength to move on with my life, meet new ppl and new friends, just change everything in my life including the routine. I finally found someone that on every level we connect, what I have notice is everything my ex did, I have brought it in to my new relationship and I look crazy, I mean I controle my temper and I dont do the things I did in the past but what I dont understand is I have started to think he cheats on me when we spend 24-7 Together and that he does care to much to hurt me, I have tried numours times to brush it off still and I feel like shit when I keep thinking the worst but I am doing pretty good reason why is because I am not the same but I do bitch but not as often but how do you get over the fucc up parts that your ex did and show the new that you dont have a self-esteem problem or a jealousy problem cause I REALLY DONT...If he was to cheat on me I told him I wont stay around, it will be your lost because no one deserves that feeling nor drama.Why because I love you and that's all I have to give
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (4 December 2007):
 i no how you feel sweetie, but you know even know you keep saying that you don't have a problem to your boyfriend you do and the more you keep thinking all these things you are going to push him away and once again another relationship down the toliet. like what saf said back off a little don't send him texts don't do the normal stuff and let him chase you its so much fun when you back off and he chases you than you know he like/loves you enough to want to be with you. Don't let the jerk ex ruin your future everytime you keep thinking that your new boyfriend is cheating on you than your ex has won never let a man beat you, you are better and stronger than him because you have moved on and its his lose.
good luck xxxxxxxxx
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reader, saf +, writes (25 November 2007):
first of all sweet pea you are living in the past,learn to deal with your past by doing different things with your new guy,then ask yourself have i got proof to accuse him of cheating, maybe you are over possesive with men that is why their run, you should stick to the rough approach i am young and still good looking try to ignore him and then see the outcome let him chase you for a change sis sweet dreams.
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