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writes:Recently my ex, as we got back together only today, found out that his best friend had kissed me one day at school when he wasn't around. I actually told him, because I didn't have the gut to lie about anything anymore. He instantly felt very sick, but forgave me cuz people make stupid mistakes. He called his friend to make sure, but his friend said he didn't do it. But I know he did, I was there the whole time. My ex believed me. And now he doesn't know how to cope with his friend, who has a gf and had cheated on her when he kissed me, though she has no clue. Now he hates me and tells me to leave him alone. My bf can't get over it either. I feel horrible, but now I don't know what to do! Please please help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): I thought you said your bf is over it-- if so, he and you should focus only on each other, and let the friend's denial be his denial. His relationship is not something that needs to be intruded upon. If it's really bugging your bf maybe he should consider giving the guy space, but again, that's not your call to make. Work on rekindling the relationship, not on the drama.
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