A
male
age
41-50,
*hanefl
writes:hi i'm dating someone for 3 years but have been seeing a married woman for 1 yr. i love them both but its the married woman i want to be with. she's now pregnant and even in spite of this i want to be with her. she wanted to leave her husband about 6 months ago, but since she got pregnant she wants to stay with him. she had 4 miscarraiges so this baby is so important to her. i'm messed up because i think of her all the time, and want a family with her. my girlfriend is a wonderful person, i just dont deserve her and she deserves more than me. i feel such a bad person, and that my life has no meaning since she doesnt want to be with me. i want to win her back, but know i should try to get on with my life. help.
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 'i just dont deserve her and she deserves more than me.' when I feel these kind of expressions I sense insincerity (I also used them occasionally) Man...If she is really good for you and you thus loved her you would go for her and be with her...And whats more SHE is your girl friend. I am sorry but you messed up. I dont think you are a bad person, since you question your behaviour and feel sorry. But I do think that after sleeping with a married woman for four years who is now pregnant, you may not possibly sanely want her back. If she was not pregnant I could tell you taht you should try to win her, since she already messed up her family and in fact she has better leave her poor husband alone. But now they are gonna have a baby. What, do you wand to further complicate and trouble your life, her life, baby's life, and husbands life. Do you want a drama?Give her up.
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