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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I had a party a few days ago and ended up sharing my bed with my mates girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Hi I need help!! I had a party a few days ago and ended up sharing my bed with my mates girlfriend we had a bit of fun. But didn't go all the way and now I feel guilty cos it's my mates girlfriend and its really awkward between me and her what shall ...

We still together now but I dont trust her anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Hi Guys, I have been going out with My GF for one year now. One day(3 weeks ago) I saw her Email. She met a man in her job, (in the bar) they have been Emailing and texting each other for a while now, and a lot of tempting words were in those mails, ...

I am in a serious relationship but have a "friends with benefits" relationship with my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been in a serious relationship with a man I am deeply in love with for eight months now. I have a gut feeling that he will be the one I marry. Before we were in a relationship, we kissed a few times within a period of a week. The ...

Girls, is it okay to be in love with someone but have a soft spot for his friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - hi i wonder if you guys or girls can help with this question. i have asked questions about this before. Basically, i am living with my partner of 3 years, we have a big group of friends who my partner ha been friends with for year and they are now ...

My bf still talks to the guy who I feel betrayed by and I dont like it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - My friend found out I kissed another guy 4 years ago while I was dating my current boyfriend, he confronted me and then said he wouldn't tell him. However he did in the worst way, and my boyfriend broke up with me. Since then we have gotten back ...

I confessed my love to a good friend and her lesbian gf is making problems for me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6415 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - help me please! im 16 and had a sexual relationship with my 18 yr old(female)best friend, who is recently in a gay relationship with a 23 yr old woman. I confessed my love to my friend one drunken night and her gf seen it! now everytime my friend ...

Is it wrong for me to talk to another man on MySpace? I have no intentions of cheating on my fiancee..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Hi Ok so...let me start at the begining... I've been engaged for 3 years...living with my fiancee. I'm home alot as I'm disabled, and he works crazy hours so we barely see eachother. I recently made a Myspace page in order to talk to my brother, ...

He is lying about being in contact with his ex gf! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me. we have had on going arguments about he and his ex girlfriend calling each other and him hiding it from me. he claims it was not to upset me. last time we broke up over this and made up he promised to tell her to ...

I think my partner is having a fling with a girl he works with-he called her name out while making love to me! I am devastated. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - I think my partner is having a fling with a girl he works with. They (with some others) went abroad working for around 4 weeks. I noticed when we were all out together she always went to the bar with him. When he got home he was annoyed with me b...

My bf told his friends he hates me, he lies and he has cheated! I am heartsick..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore...HELP! I have been with my b/f for 3 years march 2007, and we have a gorgeous 8 month old son Seth. We broke up Nov. 2005 b/c he didn't pay any attention to me and got back together in Feb. 2006 I found out I was ...

He won't leave his gf and baby for me! But he wants to be with me..what can we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - im 19 and fallen in love with a 28 year old man he works behind the bar at my local pub, we exchanged numbers i later found out he had a girlfriend and she was pregnant, but carried on textin and then started meeting he split with his girlfirend as ...

He is not in love with her but at the same time he won't leave as he feels she will make it difficult for him to see his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - this is goin to be a long one sorry i've known this guy for many years but its only over the past two we've really got on. we met up agen round one of our friends house and instantly we had things to talk about and practically ignored everyone else ...

I don't want to be with someone who needs to be online chatting with other women! But he won't stop..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for about a year with one of our finest Military Seargents who lives on base. We met online on HOTORNOT in the Meet me section and just hit it off from there and see each other on the weekends when we...

She told me she wasnt in love me and left, denied having someone else when in truth she has a toyboy!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - i have recently split up with my wife and was just wanting to sound off about it. been with her for 16 years and married for 11 years, we have 3 kids the oldest at 10. i have given her everything shes wanted during our relationship, then she drops ...

I finally found a man thats interested, not gay, and not a jerk... But... Hes married!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - All of my life I have had the worst luck with men. I fall for men who are either gay or not interested, jerks or clueless. I met a guy three months ago and we instantly clicked. We get along really well, he's extremely cute, we make each other ...

He slept with his ex, Im still with him, I love him, But should I stay!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - I've been dating this man for 14 months, I thought everything was going well. until 3 weeks ago he told me he went to visit his son from his former gf who only lets him see the child when she wants to, and he works double shifts he can only go when ...

am i being paranoid or what? Do you think she's seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - hi guys,am i being paranoid or what? my girlfriend of 2yrs has slowly been pushing me away, not turning up at my house on numerous occasions and when she does there is always an excuse, phone was flat out or misplaced it, she dont mms me as often in ...

I can't understand why my husband wants us to 'swing'! This is destroying me! Help, any advice?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - i cant get my head around why my husband would want us to swing,is it because he dont fancy me anymore or because he`s bored with me,pls help me as this is destroying me an im feeling a waster and a failer...

I want to make a move on him, but dont want my friends to be mad at me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - Okay this is like the typical issue with teenage girls.. only it usually happens in like middle school.. but im 16 and me and my two other friends all think this guy is extremely gorgeous.. and hes got a sweet personality too.. so we all decided not ...

Am i depressed? I go to work, cook, clean, wash myself etc. So I don't feel depressed but he says i am

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - Am I depressed? My partner invited me to meet him, halfway through a work trip abroad, where i spent a weekend with him, but he spent most the time with his work colleagues with me tagging along (that's how i felt) and he bullied a female colleag...

Im attracted to my bf's friend "Bob"! Is this the 7yr itch at 4 yrs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs, and lived with him for 2. While I still find him attractive and think I would like to marry him and have a family, we dont have a lot of time to spend together, as we both spend alot of time working. I've ...

My girlfriend cheated on me with my friend. Should I take her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend cheated on me with my friend. i gave him her number while we were broken up but i seriously didn't think he would succeed with her. He called her and they met the next time then started spending time at her house while she was ...

I'm wracked with guilt for having an affair! How do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - i had an affair and ended a 14 year relationship with the father of my 2 children,the affair was complicated and ended messily. i am racked with guilt for so many reasons,how do i get through or over this guilt?...

4 week ago she found out that i had had sex with a boy she knew!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - hello, i have a relationship problem :( my girlfreind of two years wouldnt have sex with me even though she wasnt a virgin. 4 week ago she found out that i had had sex with a boy she knew! i just need to know how to get her back and if the ...

Since I've been cheated on in the past, am i worrying too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

24 April 2007 (M) - Hi I wondered if you people out there could help me with a problem i am having with my girlfriend...we have been seeing each other for nearly a year and until a month ago i was very happy...around 6 months ago one of her 'male friends' who is a pro...

My husband is on dating sites looking for casual sex! What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - Dear cupid i have just found out that my husband has asked for casual sex on the internet dating sites, i am shocked to discover this as i know our sex life was not very active at the moment but i didnt think it warranted this kind of behaviour!I am ...

'm in a serious relationship..so how can I get myself to stop liking this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - I like this guy a lot. I used to not think much of him the first few months I knew him, but then the more I saw of him (which is often cuz I work with him), the more I liked him. And now I don't even need to see him to think about him. He's not just ...

The fact that he didn't tell me he was married and older, really bothers me! What should I do about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 years old and am going out with a 40 year old man. We've been together 2 and a half years. It started off with me believing he was 32 when we first got together but I later found out he was actually nearly 40 and had been married. He...

I thought, I didn't feel there was anything wrong with porn! But now that I caught my bf watching porn..it hurts me a lot! Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - Hi, i'm having some problems with a partner at the moment. we've been together for 3 1/2 years. He was a really loving guy to start with, sooo romantic but as time past he just can't be bothered. I recently discovered that he's been using my P.C in ...

Her new guy friend is attracted to her! As her bf, should I be concerned?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

24 April 2007 (M) - I have been going out with my grlfriend for 2 years and everything was great, but 6 months ago she made a new friend. He is a male and I had no problem with this but after meeting him on a number of occations it is obvious that he is attracted to ...

How do I convince my girlfriend of 7 years I did not cheat on her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

24 April 2007 (M) - How do I convince my girlfriend of 7 years I did not cheat on her, and get her to take me back?...

She cheated on me and we broke up! So tell me...why on earth does she call me every single week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

23 April 2007 (M) - We broke up maybe a month and a half ago. It wasn't an easy breakup for me as she was the one to dump me. I didn't want to break up at all but she thought it was necessary. When she broke up with me she still told me she loved me though and gave...

My ex's married best friend tried to kiss me but I said NO! Now I can't get him out of my head...what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - hi everyone. I'm in a very difficult situation. ok here goes. i have just split up with my bf of 4 years a few weeks ago but was still in love with him. every since i met him his best friend became my sort of best friend because we have a very ...

I love her but she accuses me of cheating! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

23 April 2007 (M) - i have a girlfriend i love so much. The thing is we don't get to spend sometime the two of us. every time i ask 2 see her she comes with a friend or relative of hers. she accuses me of cheating on her when i dont. how do i get 2 let her know that i ...

My husband is in Iraq, on his second tour of duty. I cheated on him and I feel horrible. Should I tell him ever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - i have been married for three years and my husband is on his second tour in iraq!!! i cheated on him for the first time with one of my co-workers and i feel so guilty and horrible, i dont know if i should tell him im scarced to. should i just take ...

I am in love with a very generous man, but his recent actions are suspect for being a cheat.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - I have been dating Steve for almost 3 years. He has been a very generous man. In the last year I have found his house sitter / long time friend sleeping in his bed, even though it was a 4 bedroom house. Found a member log in page to adult friend ...

I have signs of an alcoholic and I have kissed other women though I have a girlfriend whom I love very much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

22 April 2007 (M) - The last 3 weeks i have been going out with my mates and seriously taking drinking to another level. I feel like i am now bordering alcoholism. The reason i post this is that whilst i have been out i am being a really bad and different person. On ...

I'm involved with my boyfriend but I have fantasies about my teacher.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - Im 17, im in a very long term relationship with my boyfriend everything was great up until a few weeks ago! Ive started having feelings for another man... slightly older men have always been my preferred choice, a major turn on... but i never th...

I don't trust my boyfriend at all because of some lies he made to me in the past.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been togther for 7months, and when I met him he had two male lodgers. During our relationship they both moved out and around 6weeks ago he has replaced them with two others....one of which is female. He never talked to me ...

I had a one-night-stand with a 43 year old married man, now he says he loves me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - Im 21 and a month ago on a night out saw this gorgeous older man we looked at each other and smiled i instantly was attracted to him. I went over and we talked. we then went back to his hotel and made love. he is 43 i asked him was he separted from ...

I'm 23, married for 2 years but I don't enjoy sex with my new husband so have started an affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - Hi i am 23 and have been married for 2 years and a few months. I have not been enjoying sex with my husband and i dont know how to tell him, I ve been extremely sexually frustrated as its been more than 3 years since we ve been together, thought it ...

My long distance boyfriend has told me he has many female friends online. Would you consider this cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - This is for all you single/married ladies an gents out here. What would you consider cheating? I have a b/f, that lives abroad and he has recently told me that he has many female friends online. He says hes not the jealous type, i told him i am. So ...

A girl offered my boyfriend a blowjob...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - Heya..Me and my boyfriend Dexter have been on and off for about 2 months now and at the start of the relationship he said he would stop smoking for me then admitted it was too hard to do so he didnt stop.. i appreciate him telling the truth but ...

I don't know how to tell him not to expect monogamy from me. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

22 April 2007 (M) - I'm 27, gay/bi, in a relationship with a guy two years younger. We've been seeing each other nearly two years, it was long distance for most of the time, until I moved to be with him five months ago. We aren't living together, he says it would be ...

When I go out drinking I really over-do it to coincide with feeling out of control. It also helps me NOT to wear my engagement ring! Why am I doing this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - Hello all! I was recently engaged a couple of months back and have been going crazy ever since. When I go out drinking I really over do it to coinside with feeling out of control. It also helps me NOT to wear my engagement ring. I am not sure wit...

I did something crazy when I was drunk... I told my boss I like him! Now I am dreading work on Monday!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6423 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) - I've done a crazy thing... had too much to drink on a night out with work colleagues and told my boss that I'm falling for him, that he is all I think about. I'm not sure this is entirely true, perhaps I'm just confused by the recent break up of a ...

I think my bf is cheating on me on various sites...does anyone know of all the social networking sites out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) - Does anyone know of all the social networking sites out there? The ones similar to myspace,facebook and facebox? I think my boyfriends cheating on me and has profiles on these sites because earlier today he said he had his networking account open ...

My married mans wife is having a baby, should I leave him ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) - im having a sexual relationship with a married man and his wifes pregnant.we love seeing each other and touching each other but now his babies on the way i don't know what to do.should i stay with him or leave him?...

Should I tell his wife, he was cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - Should I tell his wife that he was cheating on me? Today I found out that he is married. I met him 2 years ago and he is in Iraq. I found out from a friend that he is married and his wife lives in TN. I can't believe all the lies. Should I tell his ...

Im married and bisexual, if I were to hang out with a women and have fun etc! Would that be considered cheating ?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I am a married, bisexual woman. I feel in a difficult position. If I were a lesbian, I would be a faithful partner to only one woman. If I were straight, I would be a faithful partner to only one man. But since I'm bisexual, I have a need ...