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writes:We broke up maybe a month and a half ago. It wasn't an easy breakup for me as she was the one to dump me. I didn't want to break up at all but she thought it was necessary. When she broke up with me she still told me she loved me though and gave me plenty of reason to have hope. Until that is, I found out that within a month of us parting she was sleeping with someone else and seemingly having a great time. This told me that she couldn't possibly care as much as she said she did.With that I realized that now was the time to move on and that's what I did. I figured she'd deal with the breakup in her way and I'd deal with it my way. I didn't go out drinking or start sleeping around. I acknowledged my feelings and allowed myself to grieve, all the while planning a future for myself that would give me pleasure and enjoyment doing things that I'd always dreamt about.I was back to my old self. I didn't care any more. I'd sort forgotten I'd ever loved. She can do whatever she wants. However, what I can't take just yet is being constantly reminded of what I have lost.So my question is this. Why on earth does she call me every single week?
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reader, AdamPayseno  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 Some girls (And guy's to, don't get me wrong) love having people within their.. '' Grasp '' so to speak.
She wants you at a place she can have you if she wants you, but not close enough to be restricted by you.
The above answer, I coulden't agree with more.
Get rid of her.. You can do so much better.
Don't give up on love..
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): She is playing games with your head. Change your phone number and tell her to buggar off!
Take care
xx
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reader, kenny +, writes (24 April 2007):
 I really can't imagine why she still calls you every week, maybe her partner finished with her and she's trying to hook up again, who knows.
If you don't want this then do as beautifulllove says and change you number and tell her you have moved on.
You can do better than her, if she treated you like this before, then the likellhood is she will again.
Good luck
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reader, beautifulllove  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 change your number tell her to leave you alone you dont want anyone like her in your life and thats really what u need. lots of luck hun xxxooo
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