A
female
age
51-59,
*erese
writes: I have been dating Steve for almost 3 years. He has been a very generous man. In the last year I have found his house sitter / long time friend sleeping in his bed, even though it was a 4 bedroom house. Found a member log in page to adult friend finder on his computer and charges to match.com,adult friend finder and yahoo personals. recently he suddenly shaved his privates before I met him on our vacation. I see these as red flags. Like I said he is a very generous man, gifts, money, vacations. He says he loves me. I love him but I must have trust. My feelings are so mixed up. What do you suggest?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): If you are happy with the money, stay with him.
If not, I think you know what's going on.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): I have recently been in a similar relationship.. The girl I love was quite similar, but all the changes were just to suspicious.. The thing that stopped me confronting her.. About the changes.. Was that I was afraid of the answer.. I was afraid of what the answer will be. You can't live afraid. You need to talk to him.. Stare into his eyes while he replies, and from his eyes you will find the truth.
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